I'm not here to get blasted or anything cause I know it's not right so cut that out now. Here's the thing we're both girls, and she 's 15 and I'm 19. I've told her several times that we'll wait until she's 18, but it's hurts her not being with me and she rubs it in my face every chance she can get (so female). And I really care about her and I have her best interest at heart, and I'm willing to wait, but I can't stand to see her cry over me and it's worse, cause it's over soemthing that's out of my hands. So what should I do?
2006-10-25 17:13:36 · 6 answers · asked by conflicted 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i should also add that i tunr 20 in december and she turns 16 in july...just to clear that up
2006-10-25 17:31:08 · update #1
Okay i think it's gone beyond crush if it's something she, not me. has been bringing up for two years. And I'm not saying you're wrong, but I just think 2 years is a little long for a crush. And I know her parent's they are my best friend's aunt and uncle and I hang with them over the holidays. Another thing, it's your basic girl meets girl story. Girl meets girl. Girls talk. Girls develop feelings. Feelings evolve and boom we're here. I mean honestly I wish it was a crush cause then I wouldn't have to hide a very weird secret to my best friend of 8 years.
2006-10-25 17:56:22 · update #2
Yahoo Answers has official become the electronic version of the Jerry Springer Show.
You're right .. stick to your instinks .. she must be 18.
2006-10-25 17:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by ValleyR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realistically, this underage girl has a crush on you. It's common with children of this age. And the problem is that they're not mature enough to understand that. You are mature enough and should know that chances are she'll get over it be the time she turns 18.
What you haven't revealed is what you two are doing together to be so infatuated with each other. It sounds like you haven't done anything illegal yet but you probably are spending an unreasonable amount of time with this child. Where are her parents? Do they know what's going on?
What you should do is walk away. It's best for all involved. Enjoy your relationships with your more mature friends.
2006-10-25 17:37:47 · answer #2 · answered by amulech 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a legal point, and for your own protection don't do anything to start a relationship with her. You both will just end up in a heap of trouble. Explain to her that yes you care, but you HAVE to wait til her 18 birthday. If this girls cares about you the way you think she dose, then she'll wait. Anybody willing to put you in harms way is not that into you. Hope this helps! :)
2006-10-25 17:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by reiparm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before I read this I had a smart*ss comment. If your telling the truth,I have alot more respect for you than others I've read about. You can't control how you feel BUT you can contol how you act on it. Good Job, you are definately doing the right thing. The right thing is hardly ever the easy thing.
2006-10-25 17:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like to say that you should be together. you are only just over the age limit and she is only 3 years under it. i don't really see the problem. i mean i am 19 and my bf is 24 but we have been seeing each other since i was 16. so i think you should be togther. who cares what anyone else thinks.
2006-10-25 17:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE DOING THE RIGHT THING AND SHE MAY NOT
SEE IT YET, BUT LET HER KNOW THAT YOU CARE FOR
HER AND THAT YOU WANT TO BE WITH HER BUT WHEN
THE TIME IS RIGHT THEN IT WILL BE SOMETHING WONDEFUL FOR BOTH OF YOU.
2006-10-25 17:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋