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Okay, so I've been working with this guy for a few months now (he doesn't actually work in my office, just for the same company) and we've basically become I guess what you could call casual friends. From the way he looks at me I can tell he is attracted to me and I know he knows I am attracted to him. We went out to lunch once to discuss work, but we didn't even really talk about work for more than 5 minutes. We have been talking by email and texting lately and he called me the other day to meet with him for more work stuff. I asked him to tell me what day and he chose Friday after i got off work. I said I could meet him at one of our offices and he said we could go have drinks. What do you think his intentions are? Is this a date? If he just wanted it to be strictly work related would he have chosen to hang out with me on a Friday night?

2006-10-25 17:20:36 · 10 answers · asked by flwrpwr17 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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i think hes using work as a excuss, to get closer to you. to me it sounds like a date. but hes scared to just call it a date, he wants to make sure that you like him in that way, so hes using work as his backup. go out and have fun, dont mention work much, unless you cant find things to talk about. but try to get to know him a lot more, and than at the end of the "date" tell him it was a lot of fun and that you would love to go out again, but next time lets not talk about work...see what he says, tell him to keep in touch and give you a time and day that he would like to go out again. i am sure he will keeping in touch very soon.

2006-10-25 17:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

date

2006-10-26 00:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by :D 5 · 0 0

Not really a date. It's more of a fishing expedition.

It's a meeting made with pretense of work to keep it casual, low-key. To protect himself if you weren't interested in dating as such a rejection would be awkward, especially when you will have to continue to deal with the person at work, he chose to use work as a reason for said meeting.

But he sure wouldn't have made the suggested outing if he didn't want to get to know you better. and not just professionally.

2006-10-26 00:28:28 · answer #3 · answered by Pewds Fan 2 · 0 0

As a male, I can advise you to the best of my knowledge.

He IS trying to date you, just word it in a casual manor, I would say right out what you felt about him and his intentions.

As he may get the wrong idea if you proceed to keep meeting him.

2006-10-26 00:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by Benet T 1 · 0 0

The only way to find out is to keep hanging out with the guy.... then you will see his intentions

2006-10-26 00:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by Granny 2 · 0 0

Maybe this will help. IF the one who invites pays, it's a date. If the both pay sepearately, it's not. Sp basically, it's up to you and him. But since you're attracted to him and he to you, what's the prob?
Go for it, girl!

2006-10-26 00:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you think too much. just go to this meeting thing and find out what it is he really wants to talk to you about

2006-10-26 00:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Date,he is just scared, if he doesn't make it work related you would turn him down.

2006-10-26 00:24:53 · answer #8 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0 0

it's a date w/ work involved.

2006-10-26 00:22:02 · answer #9 · answered by lil one 2 · 0 0

yes it's a date! hope there's many more dates to come for you and him!! :D

2006-10-26 00:25:07 · answer #10 · answered by twelve_dancing_princess 2 · 0 0

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