ok, i want an honest serious 20 something yr old men to answer this. i'm 20 yrs old and still a virgin. just waiting for the right guy. what do you personally think of this. i know it wierds some guys out and view me as virgin mary. would you be willing to wait on a girl till shes ready if you loved her enough? or even only liked her enough?
2006-10-25 17:07:13 · 5 answers · asked by n_need_of_help 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand where you are coming from because I' am in my early 20s and a virgin who is waiting for Mr. Right and a serious relationship, so I know how hard it can be to find a good guy to wait until you are ready to have sex. Most of the guys I dated didn't understand why I chose to wait but they respected my choice, even if it didn't work out. My advice is to hold out and respect yourself, I think is respectable to find a fellow women in her 20s that is still a virgin who have morals and values about herself. You shouldn't settle for less than what you are worth. Be strong, independent, confident and respect yourself. Remember it is your choice and decision to make not anyone else. I' am glad to know I' am not the only virgin alive. And don't listen to those guys who call you a virgin Mary, remember you are a modern day princess and any man would be lucky to have you. Good luck and hang in there, you will find the right guy sooner or later who respects your choice.
2006-10-25 17:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥Bree♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a 20 year old guy. I would wait for the girl to be ready. I would want it to be special, rather than making her feel uncomfortable for her first time.
2006-10-26 00:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by cowgoesmoo31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my good friends is in her 20's and a virgin. She has had a real problem with finding a guy who will wait. She isn't religious so most guys just don't understand. They say they are OK with it but after awhile they look elsewhere. I don't have any good news for you but I will wish you luck with your choice.
2006-10-26 00:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by rwl_is_taken 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not a guy but look at it this way that is a gift to be given to someone.i'm not saying you'll wait until marriage but make sure it is someone who is tender slow and understanding your first can destroy alot of dreams there is pain and fumbling and most times that first time isn't wonderful but if its with someone you really can care about and they are willing to wait until you ready you will know when its time to give someone the gift
2006-10-26 00:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did and i was a virgin as well -- we waited until we were married to each other
its too much hype about being virginal --- the first time is fumbling quick and unsatisfying for both parties
after some experience both can feel more intense pleasure and can find new ways to please each other more and more and staying with the same partner means that you can get closer to each other and it gets better
2006-10-26 00:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋