Whats Wrong With Girls?

Question

How the hell in your right mind can you think its ok to tell a guy you supposedly have feelings for about other guys.. I mean it seems every girl Ive dated and every girlfriend Ive ever had seems to think that its ok to talk to me about a guy she works with or goes to school with and know he likes her.All my friends and other guys Ive talked to say that they have the same experiences.

How would girls like it if the guy they liked would tell them about the hot chick at work passing by him rubbing her breast against him then saying "oh Im Sorry" as if not on purpose. Hell no, I would never tell my girfriend about that.It means nothing to me so why bring it up. But yet a girl would be quik to tell a guy about something a guy did and then wonder why her boyfriend gets mad at her.
Forget about confidence or Insecurity,No man likes this.Hes wither gonna say something about it or keep quit and then explode in the long run. Ladies, now you know. Dont Do It.

Answer 1

maybe they do that because you don't express your appreciation or attraction to them, so they either want to get a rise out of you or are hoping you get the idea.

Answer 2

You obviously have a jealously problem. YOU: not her. If EVERY girl you date does this to you, then you are purposely dating girls who would do this. Trust me, not every girl is like that. Please ask yourself, what is making you make these choices in girls? OR the other possibility is that you don’t trust ANYONE. You should look into why you feel that way if that is the case. Really, I’m not saying that to insult you, but to help you. Sometimes we think everyone is a certain way because that’s what we have learned by experience. I learned a long time ago that not everyone is the way I think because I haven’t met everyone in the world. In other words, my experience is not the whole answer, because I had not met everyone in the world. But I met enough jerks to think that all people were that way. Boy, was I wrong. I just hadn’t met the good ones yet. Well, since then I have met some really good people, mainly because I was LOOKING for them.

Answer 3

LOL I kinda feel guilty cause I've done this before. She's most likely doing it to see if you'll get jealous. She doesn't want you mad at HER. She just wants to see if you would care if you knew some other guy was trying to take her away. It's not nice but sometimes girls just want to know you care. Try to spend the day with her and make her feel like a queen every once in a while, notice how those guys just happen to disappear

Answer 4

She's testing you. Showing concern about this fails the test. A strong man knows that his woman is his. And, if she leaves, this is not a big deal as he can quickly replace her. Or not. Because men are self-sufficient. Not so for women. Prior to the modern age, a woman who was abandoned by their man, essentially starved to death, as did her children.

The bottom line. Women need men. Men do not need women. Showing that you need her, that it is a big deal if she left or worse that you doubt your quality and are afraid that it is a good possibility that she would leave, shows low value. You can't test her in similar fashion because WOMEN NEED MEN. They are terrified of being abandoned.

However, you are correct that this is bad behavior. This is the second facet of the test. Will you put up with bad behavior or be assertive with her and tell her to cut it out. A third facet of the test is a test of if you love her or not. Do you care about her feelings or only that you get compliance out of her. In other words, will you hurt her over it.

So a woman tests you this way. What is she looking for. She first wants to see if this is a big deal. Does it make you upset. If yes, it must mean you are insecure and weakness underlies insecurity. The second is she wants to know if you will stand your ground. There is a big difference between being afraid of something and disliking it. You ask her nicely but firmly to cut it out...it's annoying you. Lastly, she wants to see how you get your way with this. Do you yell and scream at her and slap her around and call her a whore? Do you threaten to leave her if she doesn't shape up or ship out? Or do you calmly tell her you don't like that and that you would rather not have her leading guys on as it's not respectful. Do you kiss her on the forehead after she promises not to do that anymore.

Warning. Some women WANT you to smack them around, call them names or whatever and will egg you on and egg you on until you do. They test in a highly negative way and test for highly dysfunctional things. Get rid of those women immediately.

Answer 5

I think in this day and age women arent taught to empathize about men. Instead its an overdose of "you go girl".
Fortunatley if this board is any representation women are now just getting aware of this .

Unfortunaley for us guys it might take decades for women to balance there new found power and independance with compassion that they seem to be lacking today .

Answer 6

My husband is very attractive and he has woman flirting with him all the time. He always tells me about it. And I always tell him when someone flirts with or is hitting on me. We both know that we are very committed to each other and our marriage and we both know that neither one of us flirts back. We have a very strong relationship and we know that we are faithful to each other and we let everyone know that. So maybe it does have something to do with confidence and security(within the relationship) because we have no problems being open to each other about it.

Answer 7

First of all, same goes for guys. I know I've heard guys i've dated talk about other girls - which ones are hot and which ones aren't. I've also dated guys who are still friends with their ex, and talk about them. - so don't for a second think its only girls who act this way.

And DUH, she wants you to be jealous. She wants you to defend what's yours. Maybe you're not giving her enough attention and she feels she has to look for it, and maybe she thinks that if your jealous of the other guys that you'll try harder and aknowledge her more.

Answer 8

Well if you are dating this girl maybe you are not showing her attention like she wants. If you are friends with a girl that does this it is normally to push a guy like you that she know likes her into asking her out .

Answer 9

the ladies my son and his pals dated at 13 have been precisely the way you defined. that they had no self appreciate and might do or say something to get the lads to notice them. they don't have self assurance they have something of value to furnish different than their bodies, and maximum of them probable do no longer. there is not any longer something unique approximately them in any respect. all of them have a similar physique, hair, evaluations and self image subjects. They act stupid regardless of in the event that they are no longer reason they think of it extremely is beautiful. They gown and act like whores using fact they think of the lads will pay greater interest to them (and that they are perfect). women are so propose and catty to one yet another. Tearing down different women is almost a game to three of them. Being a guy or woman and breaking removed from the flock isn't common at your age. It takes an fairly brave and strong youthful lady to flow against what's properly-known and widespread. My son is sixteen now. he's had quite a few years to boost up some and fortuitously he's no longer interested in those kinds of ladies anymore. He has had a female chum for roughly 6 mths and respects her very lots. He respects her using fact she respects herself. stupid women such as you describe get the attention from the lads now, yet those boys will tire of them very on the instant. Take it from somebody it extremely is surrounded via boys all day long, they actually do purely think of and choose on one component from women at that age and it extremely is not your technological know-how notes.

Answer 10

Agreed.