Singles & Dating - 24 October 2006

I'm a pretty shy girl and I got the courage to go talk to this guy that I always see who works at my school. When I approached him, even though we always make eye contact and I say hi or smile he got all shifty eyed which in turn made me shifty eyed and it just felt like an awkward conversation. Now it feels wierd when we see eachother and he seems to have changed his study area all the sudden which I dont think is just a coincidence. I see him all the time and I really dont want things to be wierd, do you guys think I should try harder to be myself and chat with him or does he think I'm creepy or something? I'm totally not!

2006-10-24 20:19:44 · 10 answers · asked by Stephanie 2

I've been with my girlfriend for five years. We recently stop seeing each other because I felt that I could not handle being with her children. I really miss her now. She has always chased me for years. The last time we talked it was like everything was normal. We even talked about going horse back riding. Then all of a sudden she never answers her phone and she never returns my calls. I get the sense she is playing hard to get. What should I do?

2006-10-24 20:18:41 · 8 answers · asked by X 3

2006-10-24 20:15:40 · 13 answers · asked by A 1

I like this girl alot and i want her badly. and not to get in her pants!

2006-10-24 20:14:56 · 11 answers · asked by timbers 1

This guy I've been seeing, he treats me different, like night and day. Literally! Day time he's like cold, night time when he is drunk he's all mushy and nice. And it's not like he wants sex or anything, cause I want it and he won't come over! Well his dad has been in town. Anyways, he texts me stuff like "you are so cute, it pisses me off", or "you drive me nuts, but you are also crazy cool and f**ken hot".. What am I to think?

2006-10-24 20:07:48 · 19 answers · asked by Gina C 1

I want to send tulips to a woman I've been dating for a month to her work just randomly as a surprise. Is that too much?

2006-10-24 20:07:02 · 15 answers · asked by Blue_Falcon 2

apply with resume and 2X2 piuture between 19-21

2006-10-24 20:06:42 · 6 answers · asked by Arthur Zaldy J 1

a few minutes later another dude talks about getting off watching his partner having sex with someone else and that gets allowed? whos running the censorship in yahoo tonight? elmer fudd?

2006-10-24 20:04:20 · 21 answers · asked by ? 1

My current bf is great. I don't compare him to anyone else...however, I'm scarred. I need to erase the feeling that I'll never be good enough. I need to stop having the anticipation that eventually he'll do me wrong, just because that's how it's supposed to be. I look for things...even little things, and analyze it. I don't want to mess it up. He wants to marry me someday and have a family, but until that actually happens, I'm just a mess. I've already made an appt. to see a doctor, hopefully that helps. Anyone have any suggestions on how to stop being such a paranoid idiot??

2006-10-24 20:02:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-24 19:59:35 · 14 answers · asked by A 1

2006-10-24 19:55:51 · 22 answers · asked by aha i wanna know 2

I dated a man about 2 years ago that was absolutely perfect to me, roses, moonlit walks, candles, the whole nine yards!! I let him go because I was stupid and told him I didn't want a commited relationship. He is now seeing someone else, but still calls now and then to tell me about things he doesn't like about his new g/f. He told me a few weeks ago that he still loves me and that he would ask me to marry him and have a family if he knew for a fact I would say yes. I didn't say anything because of the fact he has a g/f now and I am also seeing someone; however i would leave my b/f in a heartbeat for this guy! So what do I do, should I take a chance and call him to see if he will hear me out or do I leave it alone and just wonder for a long time??

2006-10-24 19:55:27 · 22 answers · asked by bek1995 1

we started chating online and i like her, i asked her if we should meet and she said she's gonna think about it, and i also asked for her picture, which she sent, and i also sent her my picture, the following is the e-mail she sent me and the reply i sent her, do you think i did the right thing?

Hi there,hope i'm not bothering you.You won't believe what happened! i wrote so well it seemed like a miracle.It was evrything we discussed in the class,you don't know how excited i am to be relieved at last,only one subject left.

I've been thinking about what you said last time.I need to tell you something.The pic that i sent is not me,i honestly didn't have a pic of myself then.I look nothing like that.I'm new to this chat thing so i was a bit sceptical about it at first.Evrything is true about me except for that.Eish i feel so bad for doing that to you,pls forgive me.The other thing i'm not sure about you coming here,it doesn't seem right.Let's give it some time.You see i only wanted a friend,i don want us to rush.

If you want us not to continue anymore ,it doesn't matter(that will be fine with me).As much as i wanted to be your friend so much(i enjoyed chatting to u so much & i felt so relieved after chatting to you,your honesty & sweet msgs) it's gonna be a problem for me.I'm very sorry for wasting your time.Bye


Hi, I'm glad that you wrote well, i knew you were gonna do it, one more exam and you are home free, keep up the good work and continue studying hard.

I understand that you only want a friend and i honestly respect that, i don't want to pressure you into anything, you should do something because you want to do it, not because someone tells you to. But what i don't understand is why you lied about your picture, i mean you could have told me that you are not ready to show me how you look like, I think that's better than lying, the problem i have is a lot of people have lied to me time and time again, including my ex-girlfriend, she also took advantage of me by lying to me, and when someone lies to me, then it means that that person is taking me for granted and doesn't respect me. I liked you because i though you were a genuine person, i'm not so sure anymore. You have to understand that i value trust and honesty very highly.

Your last sentance "As much as i wanted to be your friend so much it's gonna be a problem for me", i'm not sure if you are saying its gonna be a problem if you are my friend or if it's gonna be a problem if you are not my friend. And it seems to me that you don't want us to continue chatting anymore "that will be fine with me".

I know that you only want a friend and i can be that friend, what i want is an honest person, that's all. I hope we can still chat tomorrow so we can discuss this further.

Good luck with your last exam tomorrow, you are gonna do great.

Till next time.

2006-10-24 19:55:16 · 12 answers · asked by lacoste 3

I know this girl wants me, just how do i make a move? plz help!

2006-10-24 19:51:17 · 9 answers · asked by timbers 1

I know this girl wants me, just how do i make a move? plz help!

2006-10-24 19:50:45 · 4 answers · asked by timbers 1

I have been "dating" this man for about 2 months and knew that he had 3 children. A few nights ago, he tells me that he doesn't have 3 he now has 4 and that the 4th one he has custody of! Supossidly, he claims to have told me about all 4 but I don't recall that...I would remember 4 kids in the picture! Now I love kids and have no issues with them, however I am confused on what to do about him lying to me about this 4th child. This is the 3rd time I have caught him in a lie and....oh yea...he has cheated all ready. What do I do...I really care about him but I don't like lying. Help!!!

2006-10-24 19:50:40 · 16 answers · asked by bek1995 1

She makes me do everything around the house,
I have to do what she tells me,
Or she beats me up,
I'm not allowed to go drinking with the boys,
I can't even talk back to her.
What should I do?

2006-10-24 19:50:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in college and there's a girl I'm interested in, however, she is a virgin and she has never even kissed a guy before but she is very friendly with guys. She's very down to earth and nice, kind of like a tomboy in the sense she likes fishing and sports but that's it. Me and my friend have both known her for a year now and my friend fell for her but she had no interest. The other day, out of nowhere, in front of my friend and I she told me "you have a good body." Last year, she said I was "cute" which I knew meant in the little boy sense. But she complimented my body this year and told me I looked "handsome" on the one day where I fixed myself up. I don't want to sound insecure but I'd like to ask you guys not if I have a shot, but what does it mean when a girl calls a guy "handsome?" What does it mean when she tells you "you have a good body?" Is it just another two compliments or are they signs of interest? Thanks a lot guys.

2006-10-24 19:49:38 · 4 answers · asked by buffalodude1988 3

if you got the opportunity to make
3 wishes by huddenie.
but you only had 6 hours to enjoy
your wishes before poof you died.

what would you wish for?

2006-10-24 19:41:38 · 12 answers · asked by xtegx 1

2006-10-24 19:39:52 · 5 answers · asked by robertapdixon 1

you watch your partner make love to someone else? I would NEVER sleep with anyone else but I really love looking into her eyes while she is making love with someone else. Its a huge turn on for me and she knows it too.

2006-10-24 19:39:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-24 19:39:20 · 9 answers · asked by aha i wanna know 2

if you had to choose between
me or pam anderson....
who would you choose [guys]

lmao


and WHY

2006-10-24 19:37:52 · 11 answers · asked by xtegx 1

" i need some space, lets have a break" but deep inside you know you can still sort things out and you dont want it that way. Whats the best words you can say to make hm/her change mind?

2006-10-24 19:35:26 · 20 answers · asked by Lo Carla 1

pills that can b take b4 sex.

2006-10-24 19:35:21 · 7 answers · asked by kingofrgu 1

when she will get angry.
when i will make any mistake

2006-10-24 19:33:43 · 16 answers · asked by yashwant 1

she is so confused they have been together since 2 years and she lost her virginity a year ago with him and this is the first time he askes for that
and when she refused he threatened her and said that he can get it by force if he wants to and now he is completly an another person what should she do
she cant leave him cuz she adores him

2006-10-24 19:31:42 · 15 answers · asked by aha i wanna know 2

my girlfriend just told me that this guy always touches her when he passes her and is always flirting with her behind my back. hes bigger than me though, so if i do go pick a fight with him my *** WOULD be handed to me. i really need some help

2006-10-24 19:31:32 · 22 answers · asked by Jeff J 2

My original date bailed on me, after I had purchased tickets and a place to stay, near the beginning of this month. So i need to find someone who I can stand and is willing to stand me for Fri-Sat in Vegas, I was trying to see if there was anyone at school, but I haven't really gotten a chance to know the girls in my class, or at least know em enough that it wouldn't be weird to ask them to spend a weekend with me, any advice will help, I now have 1 1/2 weeks left to find someone. Thanks.

2006-10-24 19:31:32 · 2 answers · asked by BillyDaKidd 2

If you were stuck in a room with me and you had 45 minutes to live?

use your imagination.
[ in a positive way]

2006-10-24 19:29:02 · 13 answers · asked by xtegx 1