I dated a man about 2 years ago that was absolutely perfect to me, roses, moonlit walks, candles, the whole nine yards!! I let him go because I was stupid and told him I didn't want a commited relationship. He is now seeing someone else, but still calls now and then to tell me about things he doesn't like about his new g/f. He told me a few weeks ago that he still loves me and that he would ask me to marry him and have a family if he knew for a fact I would say yes. I didn't say anything because of the fact he has a g/f now and I am also seeing someone; however i would leave my b/f in a heartbeat for this guy! So what do I do, should I take a chance and call him to see if he will hear me out or do I leave it alone and just wonder for a long time??
2006-10-24 19:55:27 · 22 answers · asked by bek1995 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hunny,
you would be crazy if you didnt make the call tell him you love him, you both obviously love each other dont miss out.
ring him tell him, dont miss this chance
gooluck
2006-10-24 19:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by Boots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was perfect he wouldn't be stringing you along while he is stringing someone else along. Go ahead, you be a shady peson and leave your boyfriend. And he can leave his girlfriend and in a few months he will be calling his new girlfriend, talking about you. And you will deserve every minute of it, because what comes around goes around.
Time for you to grow up and quit playing games.
2006-10-24 19:59:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CALL HIM! NOW! Don't be stupid, you love this man, he loves you! Obviously you both have strong feelings for each other, give it a shot!
About the marriage thing...i suggest you wait, and think about it, it's serious matter, and i think you should figure out, why you broke up with him in the first place. But definitely, you seem right for each other!
2006-10-24 20:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by wendy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey true love is hard to find. Tell him how you feel. Then you both get together and watch the movie Diary of a Mad Black Woman. Then just take it from there. Good luck.
2006-10-24 20:01:08 · answer #4 · answered by ladyrebel4real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you heart is telling you that he is the man for you, go for it. If you can leave your present manin a heartbeat, it goes to show you don't really love this present guy as much. Good luck.
2006-10-24 20:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by teddytrin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and not your present boyfriend, at first you should get everything clear - talk with your boyfriend, break up, but try not to hurt him too much. Only after that call your old love! That's the only fair way!
2006-10-24 20:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah guys have a hard time communicating emotions take the plunge but wait 5 years 2 have kids
2006-10-24 19:58:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just trying to replace the idiot you have now, it seems unfair to the other guy if he has genuine feelings for you. Unless you are in love with the other guy I think your just using him for an out with the cheating liar your with now.
-NmD!
2006-10-24 19:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your choice, adventurous Stranger;
Strike the bell and bide the danger,
Or wonder, till it drives you mad,
What would have followed if you had.
2006-10-24 20:20:20 · answer #9 · answered by Avia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call him and arrange to meet up then see if you still feel the same
2006-10-24 19:59:00 · answer #10 · answered by Sam's 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋