I've been with my girlfriend for five years. We recently stop seeing each other because I felt that I could not handle being with her children. I really miss her now. She has always chased me for years. The last time we talked it was like everything was normal. We even talked about going horse back riding. Then all of a sudden she never answers her phone and she never returns my calls. I get the sense she is playing hard to get. What should I do?
2006-10-24 20:18:41 · 8 answers · asked by X 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude move on........... to start with if you can't handle being around her kids, she will not want you. A mothers love is very strong. Mom and kids are package deals.
so move on............. you split up, she probably has found someone else who can handle being around the most important things in her life. ( her kids)
2006-10-24 20:24:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why r u sure she is playing hard 2 get? Maybe she has just spent enough of her time chasing u about....she does have kids 2 think about.
If u really do want 2 be with her then u should make the effort with her kids, abd especially with her as i'm sure she is capable of finding some1 else. If u r unsure about her and r now just feeling lonely then u should leave her alone and let her move on with her life.
2006-10-24 20:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by fat_arse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to realize that her children will always be there. If the kids are a problem that you cannot deal with, do both of you a favor and move on! If you really "LOVE" her, you will grow up and realize that you will be a role model for her children and will actually learn to enjoy the kids.....I think she is being cautious, not "playing hard to get"!!!!
2006-10-24 20:30:19 · answer #3 · answered by David Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense to what im about to say.....But probably she realize that you aint worth her time, and that you aint definitely the guy for her and why is that because theres a saying that " if he cant love your kids then the is not capable to love either and a good man will always accept the kids the woman has no matter what and will try his best to be koo and get along, and if you cant stand this kids then obviously shes not the one for you either so i think you should move on, because you guys arent getting far in life together.Good luck thou'
2006-10-24 20:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by Lizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she got tired of chasing you around if you love someone and are in a relationship with them you except them and their children she might have a new man who loves being with her and the children or she might see there is no point in chasing you around and has moved on
2006-10-24 20:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may be tired of chasing you but the true problem i that you are tired of her kids... The kids arent going anywhere. I know I would not date a guy that did not want to be around my boys.
Find someone without kids.
2006-10-24 20:36:49 · answer #6 · answered by sweetsal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if thats the way she wants to act then forget about her you dont need the agravison
2006-10-24 20:22:23 · answer #7 · answered by thomas1562005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably found someone else.
2006-10-24 20:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by Deleted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋