Singles & Dating - 15 October 2006

My boyfriend and I haven't had sex yet. We've been dating about 10 months now.

10 months without sex is starting to take a toll on me, I feel very needy. I didn't think it would bother me this much when I started dating him, but 10 months into the relationship, its really hard.

And yes i've been satisfying myself, but its not the same. I really want my boyfriend.

I'm just wondering, any other girls been in a longish relationship where you waited to have sex until you were 100% ready, and how did you react to it? Were you able to handle it?

2006-10-15 03:57:03 · 10 answers · asked by Dezzy 1

So I talked to him. He says he's sad and hurt about us and because he hurt me and that I have a place in his heart, and that he's not the man for me. Why do I keep feeling like he is? How do I get over this because it feels like I'm never going to get over this.

2006-10-15 03:56:55 · 7 answers · asked by ™ 1

I have been seing this guy for few months now and at first we hung out all the time but now we only hang out like once a week and it one day during the week he never wants me hang out on the weekens anymore with me. does anyone know what thats all about??

2006-10-15 03:55:52 · 11 answers · asked by Christy R 1

Of course I screwed up by asking her if she wanted to take the camera I had brought so she could go on to the event alone. Her responce was we could get together some other time. She then drove off. My fault right? Let me know. Thanks.

2006-10-15 03:54:34 · 4 answers · asked by Oldguy 3

I am 13 years old and I am always looking for a boyfriend ! Why do you think so ? No rude remarks please ...

2006-10-15 03:52:26 · 22 answers · asked by La parisienne ! 2

just wondering! This question is for the guys and the gals.

2006-10-15 03:51:40 · 7 answers · asked by some girl 2

I notice that women always say they want a nice guy, but when they get one knocking on theire door, they go running back to the a** hole.
It's not like I'm smothering with my niceness, I give plenty of space. I just dont do anything for the woman to get mad at me with. I have had a girlfriend break up with me "because we didn't have any arguements".

2006-10-15 03:50:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-15 03:49:41 · 33 answers · asked by aznfaypor 2

2006-10-15 03:48:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Brocoli
T.V.
50 Cent

I am very rich you see and I want my dress to be creative. Which one or you can have your own ideas.

2006-10-15 03:48:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does anyone know any exciting, new things to try with a relationship thats gone to 3rd base, but not having sex yet? (besides having sex).

New ways to kiss, new ways to turn him on, etc...

2006-10-15 03:47:40 · 2 answers · asked by Jozzie 2

2006-10-15 03:47:17 · 2 answers · asked by GrimmyBear 4

Ok, so, I've been with this guy, for about 6 months. (we're bth 17) I go over to his house a lot, and at first, finding stuff to do was a breeze. We'd play games, watch a movie.. but it seems now, he wants me to think of things that i want to do, and I just don't have the imagination to think of things, so we end up sitting there. Also, in our relationship, we've got pretty much to 3rd base. I'm not ready to have sex yet, and he knows it, but I can't think of anything else to spice our relationship up anymore with out going farther. I love him, but I just don't know what to do. Does anyone have any specific Ideas on problem #2? Something new to suprize him with?

2006-10-15 03:45:24 · 14 answers · asked by Jozzie 2

2006-10-15 03:45:15 · 2 answers · asked by bamal_sexybeast 1

well, my friend and his girlfriend just broke up yesterday and im really excited because i really like his girlfriend and im pretty sure she likes me, i just want to know what to do now so that her and i could be together and let her totally forget about what happened with her and my friend...because basically my friend dosen't like her as much as she likes himm.. so when she found that outt...they broke upp, and last night after they broke up when we had to go home she even told me that she wanted to talk to me on msn. help pleasee!!!

2006-10-15 03:37:03 · 16 answers · asked by djm12 1

2006-10-15 03:36:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

y do i tell people my problems and they all have the same advice? everyone tells me to just wait and keep being the way i am etc and a good girl will find me??? thats BS cause seriously u think if i just wait it'll come to me? i've been waiting my whole life and still have never gotten anything. i may not be old but i feel like i'm way past due on the whole dating thing....21 dont u agree? and i'm just suppose to wait for everything to happen....sorry but that makes no sense to me at all....if its always been this way y is it just gonna change one day? also people say work out etc etc....i do i'm tall dark and very athletic and all that good ****.....someone give me some real advice and not the same BS.

2006-10-15 03:33:14 · 17 answers · asked by mr_fury666 3

2006-10-15 03:31:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this girl i like and it seems like she likes me but im not sure.....help!

2006-10-15 03:29:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-15 03:28:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-15 03:26:51 · 7 answers · asked by LS 2

ok first off dont make this a violation asshole!!! how come when i make my myspace profile out to be a really sweet and nice and fun guy not one girl will reply or talk to me? how come when i change it and make me look like a jerk and violent and just a bad guy etc i dont even have to write any girls i get tons of e-mails now??? this just proves my point that all girls r hypocrits cause all they do is complain about theres no more good guys out there then they blow me off and go for the jerk.....but when i am the jerk its all good???? i hate that so much.

2006-10-15 03:20:40 · 11 answers · asked by mr_fury666 3

I am not getting any younger , I can lose a dress size but guys still call me sexy, but I only get asked out by jerks. There are two non-jerk guys that have asked me to be their girlfriend.

Guy#1 is 5'7" (I'm 5'9), smokes and his teeth show it, is a teacher (horrible pay, I am not a gold digger but I just don't want to take care of someone else even though I make twice as much), and is 15 years older than me which mean differences in music (I'm Nickleback and he is Otis Redding), art, places to go etc. He is a gentleman, very sweet, attentive, spry, and adores me.

Guy #2
He's 6'0", white (I'm black), has a child, lives with his mom, again I make twice as much, he's 6 years younger, hasn't smoked in two weeks (you guessed it - I don't smoke). He is a little immature but well mannered. Same taste in music, places to go etc.

It has been hard to find those two let alone anyone I can tolerate for a second date. I left my boyfriend of 6 years to move to this new town a year ago.

2006-10-15 03:20:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-15 03:19:52 · 18 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3

2006-10-15 03:18:50 · 6 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3

Hi my name is Jen and iam 15 years old , my crush's name is Nick and he plays varsity football.... He was new to my school and he was only in my morning metting room.. So on his first day i said hi and asked him where he was from.. Then he told me if I could show him around school.. so ofcourse .. i did..... Then 2 weeks passed and he saw me cleaning the teachers desk and since then he teases me and calls me Janitor... we usually flirt around by dissing each other but we laugh and we always keep eye contact.. One day we were playing around and he came over to me and said iam going to beat u up and choke u.. but he was just playing... he went over to my desk and put his arms around my neck but it was more like a hug...Then that same day he arrives at my locker in the afternoon and i turned around and i said u freaking scared me so he said oh so u dont want me to be here and i said no i didnt say that.. Then he said see ya around... b/c he knows we live one street away... He asked me if i was going to the football game and i said maybe.. i just dont have no one to go with.. so he said if i wasnt playing in the game i wouldve gone with u to spend time... so then today night was the game and i saw his coach screaming at him but i realized he was looking at me instead of the coach.. so he was staring at me and i stared back......next week.. i was trying to talk to his friend and he kept interrupting me... and i told him your so mean and he said .... Iam sorry.... The he told his friend that i wanted to ask him out.... then his friend said i know who u wanna ask out and he turned red..
Do u think iam the person he likes? but therefore iam not sure if he does b/c he gives me mixed signals.. like today he said ... oh u say hi to my friend but u dont say hi to me.... . well today... i wrote him a note saying if he could encourage me to run. and he said well i have football everyday but ill try. Then he asked his friend and said should I or should i not? and his friend said idk. so then he said maybe on sunday. so i said how will i know? and he said why do u want my number ..... and i said no.... Then i saw him in the hall way and i gave him a note with my #... So what do u think?? he's gonna call or not?
well guess what he called me... and we were getting to know our interest in things... and he wants to come over my house to play video games.... also we were playing around and i was like why dont u make me shut up.. and he said the only simple way of doing that is if id kiss u... and i said why do u want to ... and he said only if youd let me... well we ended up going to a baseball game on saturday... he walked 10 min. just to see me.... and he looked so happy.. he calls me often but idk if he just want me just to feel me or for a relationship... b/c he often talks about how he wants to kiss me... and he told me he liked my personality and that i was pretty... but why do i feel like he just wants me just to play.... b/c also he told me he has had 4 gf's already...

2006-10-15 03:18:05 · 6 answers · asked by Jen 1

2006-10-15 03:17:43 · 13 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3

2006-10-15 03:16:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you tell your significant other that you had these dreams? I had great sex last night with my girl, and still had a vivid dream that I was with another girl last night. What does this mean?

2006-10-15 03:16:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-15 03:16:07 · 16 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3