My boyfriend and I haven't had sex yet. We've been dating about 10 months now.
10 months without sex is starting to take a toll on me, I feel very needy. I didn't think it would bother me this much when I started dating him, but 10 months into the relationship, its really hard.
And yes i've been satisfying myself, but its not the same. I really want my boyfriend.
I'm just wondering, any other girls been in a longish relationship where you waited to have sex until you were 100% ready, and how did you react to it? Were you able to handle it?
2006-10-15 03:57:03 · 10 answers · asked by Dezzy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's the one holding out, not me :(
If it was up to me, we would of had sex 6 months ago.
2006-10-15 04:02:15 · update #1
He's 22 and i'm 20.
2006-10-15 04:05:00 · update #2
I'm not a girl but don't let him pressure you if you are not ready
2006-10-15 04:00:36 · answer #1 · answered by poiter1991 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dear but he is not normal,usually after 2 or 3 meetings a
normal man satisfies his mate,find a real man.
2006-10-15 11:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by hamid hamidi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe theres sumthin hes embarased about .. like hes a virgin or jus not got much experience or sumfin else that hes feels bad and embarased bout u knowin, so maybe u shud tlk 2 him nd break the ice. once he knows u dont care bout his problem it should be fine
good luck hun!
2006-10-15 11:19:04 · answer #3 · answered by beckyzbonkers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, depends on your age/maturity (and his). If you are both in your 30's then I'd say that it is wierd. If you are both 14, don't rush into anything!
2006-10-15 11:03:19 · answer #4 · answered by poolesvillegc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it...My boyfriend and I talk about sex all the time, and if your not comfortable talking to him about it then you shouldnt be having sex with him, since your not comfortable just talking about it..let alone doing it...
2006-10-15 11:04:37 · answer #5 · answered by *Riley* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard for me to give an answer without knowing how old you both are.
2006-10-15 11:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Feelgood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you made your move and he refused? If he did then time to look around again honey...this time for a real man.
2006-10-15 11:00:04 · answer #7 · answered by painless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's quite normal. If it' s ok for your boyfriend, then no worry. and now since you ready go for it!!
2006-10-15 11:01:14 · answer #8 · answered by Wild_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I haven't but I hope everything works out!!!!
2006-10-15 10:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
naked, open arms, and spread leg. this will change his mind. usless something is wrong with him
2006-10-15 10:59:31 · answer #10 · answered by redneck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋