I notice that women always say they want a nice guy, but when they get one knocking on theire door, they go running back to the a** hole.
It's not like I'm smothering with my niceness, I give plenty of space. I just dont do anything for the woman to get mad at me with. I have had a girlfriend break up with me "because we didn't have any arguements".
2006-10-15 03:50:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls want a nice guy that is aggressive, but not too tough, polite, but not a p*ssy, a great dresser, but not meterosexual, a little jealous, but not possessive, confident, but not cocky etc. etc. Just stand your ground and "if being nice, means finishing last, wait for me at the finish line"
2006-10-15 04:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
We girls are fickle. We don't like doormats and we don't want to feel like them. We want someone who will be challenging enough to make us think and maybe even ask us to better our lives/selves but who will be just fine with us the way we are. We don't want somebody to be "nice" to us. We want someone who is a real friendand a lover and who will stand up to us and put us in our place, but in a way that's kind and not harsh or hurtful. We are contradictions to a T and maybe you just haven't found Miss Right yet. We girls are creatures of habit and if we are used to arguments, we might get spooked by the change in that department! Don't be afraid to show a girl your stance on something though. If you don't like to argue, then just say, I don't want to fight with you! And why not just ask why she feels the way she does? And the best of luck to you! Nice guys get the best last. They finish at #1 so be patient if she's not come into your life yet-she will!
2006-10-15 04:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by green eyed sole 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The a - holes are the well hung bastards that slap their woman around and keep em in line. Chicks just don't get it I guess. They ought to go after the good guys and just buy a larger vibrator LOL
2006-10-15 03:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by GrimmyBear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure that's the reason? and they go running back to the jerk because he usually swears he'll change. I can be in a relationship with no arguments , I hate to argue.I am laid back, carefree kind of girl.I am a great woman just can't find mr perfect.which i know don't exist .
2006-10-15 03:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They must be fairly young.... try finding an older woman....she's already been with enough jerks to know that she wants a nice man who will treat her right. Game playing is for kids.
2006-10-15 03:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by jealous of the moon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was just about to ask the same thing, but you beat me to it. I'm not sure, although I will say that in this town, a man's abilility to attract the opposite sex in in direct proportion to the amount of drugs he has. Got meth?
2006-10-15 04:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by paganvegan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITs good to be nice, but there should be some thrill in relationships!
Make it a point to surprise ur loved one....thrill her....buy her some gift.....or simply do something exciting and unexpected....that way u can keep her interested for long.
2006-10-15 04:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by ritz! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same freakin problem... i thought women like not having arguments.. i've been with my girl foR 1 1/2 YEAR and now she tells me she wants to break up for no reason...
2006-10-15 03:53:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its useless dude, nice guys always finish last..this is not an age to be a gentleman..i have learned that cos its always the tattooed, muscular, foul mouthed guys who get the chicks!!..life aint fair..
2006-10-15 03:53:17 · answer #9 · answered by red_is_my_blood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arguments done the right way is a good thing as you can express your thoughts and feelings!!!! She is out there, keep looking and have fun!!!!!
2006-10-15 03:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋