well, my friend and his girlfriend just broke up yesterday and im really excited because i really like his girlfriend and im pretty sure she likes me, i just want to know what to do now so that her and i could be together and let her totally forget about what happened with her and my friend...because basically my friend dosen't like her as much as she likes himm.. so when she found that outt...they broke upp, and last night after they broke up when we had to go home she even told me that she wanted to talk to me on msn. help pleasee!!!
2006-10-15 03:37:03 · 16 answers · asked by djm12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, first of all, be prepared for your friend to hate you. For a little while, anyway.
Wait for the girl, OK? Don't wait for her to come to you, but wait long enough so that you're positive that there's no feelings left between her and your friend.
You've got to let her forget. From what you've said, it sounds like she likes you, but she may still have feelings for your friend. So just give it some time, alright?
Because if you went for your best friend's ex like as soon as they broke up, your friend may want to cause you some intense physical pain.
Just wait. If she has an IQ of at least 3, she'll understand why you're taking things slowly.
And if she gets sick of waiting on you and heads straight for another guy, she's not worth your time.
Hope this helps you!
2006-10-15 03:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sonic.Peaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand that dating her is not necessarily betraying your friendship. However you should understand what you are getting into first, try to take what your friend says into consideration meanwhile understanding that people are simply different. For instance, my uncle has been married over 20 years to the woman who was his best friend's girlfriend the first time he dated her. Look before you leap, but don't forget to leap.
Tis better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.
2006-10-15 10:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude. This chick just broke up with her boyfriend. If you move in now, and trust me on this, you are going to end up being the rebound. What I suggest is that you be there for her and help her getting over him. Thus, friends first, relationship later.
2006-10-15 10:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by Gillian003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know that you are betraying your friend and it might break his heart, even though you say the broke up. This happened to me with my best friend 10 years ago, and I don't speak to him any more.
You sound young, and you want to make sure that a possibly impermanent relationship with this girl won't ruin (which it probably will) a permanent male friendship.
2006-10-15 10:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by Schmeep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does the word friendship mean to you? I think you should talk to your friend first simply to get his view of you dating his ex-girl. In any case, it is too early for the girl to jump into another relationship. It takes time to heal from a shattered relationship. If it is meant to be, time will reveal where you and your friend's ex-girl will be in the near future.
Guido
2006-10-15 10:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey are you thinking about Jennifer Anniston! You can talk to her on MSN does she gave her msn ID or you are going to use New Yahoo-MSN joint messenger services.Talk to her get the details-analyze it and than take your decision what else you can be help full to her.
2006-10-15 10:45:30 · answer #6 · answered by precede2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend she likes you and ask him if its alright if he says no and she is really hot just hang out casually. Also depending on whether it was a rough brake up or an agreement. Just ease your friend into it. He'll come around
2006-10-15 10:43:21 · answer #7 · answered by poiter1991 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to ask yourself, "Is it worth losing a friend over?". If he is a close friend, you should talk to him before asking her out. If he's not cool with you going out with her, you should respect your friend enough to not ask her out. Girls will come and go, your friends are forever.
2006-10-15 10:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by atlantabelle_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to ask your friend is it ok that you go with his ex this can really hurt some people if they find out if their friends going with their ex girlfriend and see what he says.
2006-10-15 10:44:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bros before Hoes. :)
LOL - that was my hubbys saying.
DONT mess up a friendship over a girl that you probably wont date for more than a month or so.
Check with your pal first bud.
2006-10-15 10:38:48 · answer #10 · answered by Miz_Kassandra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋