Singles & Dating - 15 October 2006

I'm on my bf's computer right now so I can download stuff for my own which is right next to me. I typed in images for yahoo and hit enter and accidently I swear! it ended up selecting a previous search he had done I guess with some black girl porn and violent blowjobs. With my last bf I went through SO much because of porn. And I've known my current bf for two years and we finally started dating a little over a month ago. It's not like I never thought he would look at that stuff before. But I've been with him pretty much everyday for a month and about two weeks ago moved in (he asked me). I love him dearly, it's just weird to me. The things that I guess he looked at made me uncomftroble, not insecure. Violent bj, what the hell is that? He is such a sweet person he is in NO WAY your typical guy. So I guess I just feel uncomftroble right now. What do I do? No way in hell do I want to bring it up to him. I don't feel like I have the right to. I'm afraid it will be awkward to have sex agai

2006-10-15 06:05:28 · 21 answers · asked by Konjo Nashi Pirate™ 5

I asked this girl out for a date at a cafe. I had to use email, not bec i was afraid of "face to face" but because we run into each other so infrequently, that I wasn't sure i would see her before sunday night. She sends me a 3 paragraph reply telling me that she wants to take a "raincheck" on this offer, "she hs never been to the particular cafe", maybe sometime else, the reason given is that a friend has a gathering on sunday. night. is this girl saying yes or no?

2006-10-15 06:04:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need to tell a girl i like her but i can't just go up to her and tell her i need some simple hints, to tell her. please help

2006-10-15 06:03:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Heyy theres this guy at my school that I like and now we became friends and he wants me to go to his appointment with him from school at lunch cuz its a 5 min walk so we dont really know eachother to well but hes like a punk/emo kid and im just in between punkish and normal but is there any advice on things i should do? Like talking wise? He told hes a bit forward meaning he tends to kiss,hug etc.. people even if they just met. What should I do, im so exicted but I know im gonna say something wrong or its gonna be pretty queit the whole way there..any suggestions?? btw we're both in high school dont worry we're not in like grade 5 or something. lolz

2006-10-15 06:02:49 · 3 answers · asked by Kelsey's Mommy<3 4

I know that this question gets asked quite frequently, and usually by young, hormonal girls (a.k.a. someone like me). But how can I know ( and obviously not 100%) but have a good idea that this guy likes me. Over the past month or so he has gotten a little friendlier with me. Talking to me a little bit, hanging around me in class, smiles and jokes around a lot. And most recently has started touching me, like tapping me on the shoulder and patting my head. Is this what guys do when they want a girl's attention? Could he be interested in me?

2006-10-15 06:01:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

No matter how hard I try Am unable to trust people 100%.. Why is that??

2006-10-15 05:57:23 · 6 answers · asked by julia1975 4

i am going to ask out this girl out, i don't know if i should ask her out on msn or i should ask her in person but if i do ask her in person her friends will be around

2006-10-15 05:53:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i do not answer, and i do not return the calls. why does he not get the message? he beleives i am afraid of being let down by him but the truth is i have no interest in him. why is it that some people are so persistant?

2006-10-15 05:52:27 · 16 answers · asked by ellen s 1

I really like this guy, he likes me since last year. he has 2 best friends and they like me too, one of them is reeeeally in love w/ me. he told me lots of bad things about the guy i like, that hes inmature, never had a girl before, all that. i know that im gonna b his 1st girl and i really like that. but his friends r my best friends too, this is our senior year of high school and i dont want them to b my enemies, since i dont have girlfriends..., yesterday the guy that i like asked me out, the other guys noticed it and now they dont talk to me. i asked them why and they dont tell me nothing. i dont know what should i do, they r my only friends, they r his only friends too, what should i do? im soooo confused right now. i need help.

P.S. i havent say yes 2 the guy i like,,.

2006-10-15 05:51:34 · 4 answers · asked by Babbler-Alexa 1

2006-10-15 05:50:31 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

Apparently girls consider dancing an important criteria in a relationship. Can lack of dancing damage a relationship. Will you dump your man if he doesn't dance?

2006-10-15 05:49:21 · 26 answers · asked by Razor 5

My boyfriend and I have been together on and off for 6 years. We have a good relationship but are no where near marriage. A lot of my friends are getting married, and I am happy for them, but feel slightly left out. It seems like so much importance is placed on the "step" of getting married. I want to remind myself that just because I am not married, I am still a successful, smart young woman. I've heard of and seen right hand diamond rings that symbolize just that. Do you think they are tacky? I am not going to wear it as an engagement ring, it's going to be on my right hand.

2006-10-15 05:48:32 · 12 answers · asked by Curious! 1

team she on and what grade i gave her my phone number she said she would call but been 2 days should i for get it?

2006-10-15 05:47:19 · 5 answers · asked by little_big_dude21 2

i want to try new sexual things with my partner but i'm a bit anxious that i might not get it right and so on.. any advice you can give me please

2006-10-15 05:46:40 · 9 answers · asked by FlossyQ 2

My ex came over last night drunk and obnoxious and wanted to stay. I asked him to leave, then he became very abusive and hit me. I was stunned, as he has never done that before. This was just so out of character for him. I was scared and I told him to go home and sleep it off. Was I right here?

2006-10-15 05:45:17 · 22 answers · asked by xxx 4

2006-10-15 05:42:19 · 27 answers · asked by MnM 4

A male friend of mine says that women like when you're a jerk to them. I thought mature women didn't like this, but chicks did.

2006-10-15 05:41:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-15 05:41:43 · 10 answers · asked by cey 1

2006-10-15 05:41:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is it?

2006-10-15 05:39:45 · 50 answers · asked by zynnexepops 1

My mum and dad got separated when I was 4 and it affected me and I promised myself I would never fall in love or get married. My decision is affecting my chances of getting a date...well a shag to be honest. Please advise me...

2006-10-15 05:39:37 · 36 answers · asked by Hacker 3

I just met this guy online and hes a freak and so am i should i keep talkin to him?

2006-10-15 05:36:34 · 14 answers · asked by ty_wanted@yahoo.com 1

2006-10-15 05:31:02 · 8 answers · asked by Miss_Asia 1

I have been single for over 2 years and i am gettimg the itch lol anyway my fam, comes first and i am picky. I am a great person and loyal, to the one that treats me right, if not I can be toxic!!!!!! I am 42 but have allot to give, and make someone laugh but my kids come first, and they have to get along with my kids father, (a must). I don't think that I am a great catch, but I have alot to offer someone if they are willing to give the effert. I am into camping,fishing,motercycles,I also like shooting skeet. I don't mind getting dirty and I am pretty indepentent, lets put it this way my nickname is "Mc Giver" I also takecare of my 83 year old grandfather, he just lives with us, He really takes care of him self i just cook and clean his clothes, he drives and has his own hobbies, i just wanted him to live with me because of his age and he lived up north, I just think I need to get out, but feeel bad I always but others first,(that I care about).

2006-10-15 05:29:53 · 16 answers · asked by darcigreeneyes 2

well my janitor really dislikes me i dont know why is it because i have him unclog lots of toilets

2006-10-15 05:25:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-15 05:25:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was my girlfriend's first because she was ready and she felt and knows in her heart that I am the one. We plan on spending the rest of our lives together.She said that she asked God if I was the one and he said yes.

2006-10-15 05:24:21 · 25 answers · asked by Casey M 1

Well, she met us both off the internet and she went out with him last week and me last night. She told me she was interested in both of us. She said that she honestly had a better time with me. She said that I made her happy and it was great, etc. She said although she did enjoy hanging out with him she didn't tell him all that stuff she told me. She wants to hang out again, I guess with both of us and make a choice. I'm a man that does not compete. She said she had a better time with me but still isn't closing the door to him. What advice do you have? What questions should I ask her about him or the situation. Cause part of me is thinking of just backing off.

2006-10-15 05:23:06 · 13 answers · asked by PAboy05 1

Ok the guy I like defintly likes me back how do I tell him i like him? Please dont tell me just tell him. All of my friends think he likes me and so do i. Please tell me!

2006-10-15 05:20:50 · 10 answers · asked by I'm bringin sexy back! 2

Long story short, this guy & I had a casual relationship for over a year, but just moved away for family reasons. I wrote him an email telling him my feelings.. that I cared for him & that I'd always be there for him if he needed me & also invited him to Colorado (we never really went on trips together) Not in a sappy way but in a nice happy way. He's the type that has that hard shell emotionally, tough guy kinda attitude. So after this email should I just be patient with him? Here is the email:

Hey Girl,
Sorry that I haven't got back w/ u sooner. I have been so busy getting aclimated to the new town. Thanks for the email, it was nice to hear from you:) Hey, if you ever go out to Colorado, let me know.... I would like to go out there elk hunting some day. It snowed here last night, can you believe it? It wasn't much but enought to cover the windows of the car. Anyway, I have to get going...got an appt. work is going great, better than expected!

2006-10-15 05:19:06 · 8 answers · asked by feisty 2