My ex came over last night drunk and obnoxious and wanted to stay. I asked him to leave, then he became very abusive and hit me. I was stunned, as he has never done that before. This was just so out of character for him. I was scared and I told him to go home and sleep it off. Was I right here?
2006-10-15 05:45:17 · 22 answers · asked by xxx 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No excuse for hitting a lady.....I never have and never will !!
You did the right thing alright...but i would dump him soon....if he hit you once, he will probably do it again....good luck girl...
2006-10-15 05:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by juslookin 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You did absolutely the right thing by staying calm.. You know what he did was wrong make sure it doesn't happen again.. And he should not be coming r to your house period, now that you are not seeing each... Look after ur self & ask for help...
2006-10-15 12:54:31 · answer #2 · answered by julia1975 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun, perfect thing to do in a situation like this. If he ever does that again do the same never let him hit you again though. Good luck and good way to handle it!
â¥Tanya
2006-10-15 12:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yea you did the right thing unless he really does do that all the time but if he hit you once he'll do it again drunk or not no excuse be carefull dont let him get away with it if he does it again
2006-10-15 12:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but talk to him about it when he's sober and tell him you will absolutely not tolerate and physical abuse and the next time he even tries you are gone for good!
2006-10-15 12:47:16 · answer #5 · answered by cadodevine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah dont even open the door for oyur ex this only happened one time but it could happen again so next time hes drunk tdont you even think about opening the door things could get worse!
2006-10-15 12:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that the next time he comes over, drunk or sober, that you are calling the police...
2006-10-15 12:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you were..
he could have forced himself on you or harmed your more beating on you more,or even pulled a weapon..
if he does it again call the cops as soon as he shows up drunk,they will take care of it.
2006-10-15 12:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by steve 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, he has just lost any chance of ever getting back together with you. That's what I would tell him.
2006-10-15 12:48:27 · answer #9 · answered by Risedvn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you needed to do was call the cops!!! i mean he is your ex...so is not like it matter if he went to jail or no....right?....i mean because if he did it once he will do it again ....maybe you should do a restriction order against him ...wel good luck! and dont let this happen again :)
2006-10-15 12:47:29 · answer #10 · answered by theoneandonly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋