Long story short, this guy & I had a casual relationship for over a year, but just moved away for family reasons. I wrote him an email telling him my feelings.. that I cared for him & that I'd always be there for him if he needed me & also invited him to Colorado (we never really went on trips together) Not in a sappy way but in a nice happy way. He's the type that has that hard shell emotionally, tough guy kinda attitude. So after this email should I just be patient with him? Here is the email:
Hey Girl,
Sorry that I haven't got back w/ u sooner. I have been so busy getting aclimated to the new town. Thanks for the email, it was nice to hear from you:) Hey, if you ever go out to Colorado, let me know.... I would like to go out there elk hunting some day. It snowed here last night, can you believe it? It wasn't much but enought to cover the windows of the car. Anyway, I have to get going...got an appt. work is going great, better than expected!
2006-10-15 05:19:06 · 8 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we weren't officially bf/gf, but we always had mixed feelings.
But like I said, it's not easy for him to show his emotions, partly because of past relationships even with his family.
2006-10-15 05:19:38 · update #1
About what are you confused? You told him your feelings and he reciprocated with facts and the weather. If you LIKE having your feelings ignored, continue the relationship. If you don't like it, you know what to do. You'll have a tough row to hoe if you try to hope, or manipulate, or convince yourself that a guy in your life is something he is quite obviously not. Life is difficult.
2006-10-15 05:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm... welll in your emaol it made it sound too casual. Maybe you gave him the idea that your just friends.You haven't really expressed your feelings in that e-mail. If you are living along distance away from him, i would suggest to move on. From personal experience, long distance relationships don't work and suck alot.
2006-10-15 05:27:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he does not want to really start anything. You two are so far apart. But if you really want to see him they come right out and ask him to meet you in Colorado, and see what he says.
2006-10-15 05:24:07 · answer #3 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie that email sounds like a friend but it did say it was nice to hear from you long distance relationship's are hard especially if there is no commitment good luck
2006-10-15 05:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by yari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep writing friendly notes, But he didn't say he wanted to spend time together or missed you, but hunting, And he sounded very happy where he's at.
2006-10-15 05:28:15 · answer #5 · answered by martha g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is at least the 3rd time you have posted this. Stop now.
2006-10-15 05:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is brushing everything you told him off , let it go girl
2006-10-15 05:24:11 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is too long my sister
2006-10-15 05:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋