Well, she met us both off the internet and she went out with him last week and me last night. She told me she was interested in both of us. She said that she honestly had a better time with me. She said that I made her happy and it was great, etc. She said although she did enjoy hanging out with him she didn't tell him all that stuff she told me. She wants to hang out again, I guess with both of us and make a choice. I'm a man that does not compete. She said she had a better time with me but still isn't closing the door to him. What advice do you have? What questions should I ask her about him or the situation. Cause part of me is thinking of just backing off.
2006-10-15 05:23:06 · 13 answers · asked by PAboy05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would back off, it isn't a reality show and you don't have to be in competition with some other guy over a girl that you just met. Make her choice easy and leave her to him and you go find someone that doesn't look at you as a notch in there relationship list
2006-10-15 05:26:25 · answer #1 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you enjoyed going out with her, go out with her again. There is nothing wrong with dating, and it's good that she has been open with you about it. After one date... all you can do is go on another and another. It's much too early to ask her to be exclusive. In a few months, if that's what you want, you should let her know. And if at that point she still wants to date and not be exclusive yet... then it might be time for you to move on if you want more than she does... good luck.
2006-10-15 05:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by leavemealonestalker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not take the certainty that he did no longer confer with you on objective as a demonstration that he's not any longer into you. He merely spent the nighttime with you and doubtless he did no longer decide to look too prepared. you comprehend, like whilst they wait an afternoon or 2 to call LOL. anyhow maximum incredibly everyone seems to be shy interior the beginning up of a date so do no longer situation approximately it. merely provide him the dispensed 2 days to call. LOL
2016-12-13 08:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, and the last time i went to buy a used car, the dealer told me that he wouldnt come down on the price cause there were "other offers" on it. Imagine that. Either she wants you, or she doesnt, or she is playing it cool.
2006-10-15 05:25:52 · answer #4 · answered by rand a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to choose one of you, if she doesn't decide, the you can back off...it's a much better option than sticking with a woman and also competing with another man...
2006-10-15 05:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by n8dawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chill,relax, and sweep her off her feet.i love it when guys are laid back and no how to impress.i no u dont like competition, but u need to be a little competitive to be the best. ask her something like,"well,i dont understand really.i mean, u r seeming to send me the message that u like him.do u like me?"
Dont give up bud!
2006-10-15 05:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by baby90694 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hummmm.. lets just look at your name play-boy??? she is just being honest with you . how can she know anything about anyone after 1 date?? don't back off yet, maybe shes just playing both or more to see her options
2006-10-15 05:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by MissMonk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all depends on what you want ,I only date married woman or those who want to just have a lot of fun and not get caught. but i like having lots of excitement. and make her buy she s the one cheating
2006-10-15 05:37:34 · answer #8 · answered by tommy s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is much to expect after one date. Let it play itself out.
2006-10-15 05:24:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just date for a bit. At least she was honest with you.
2006-10-15 05:25:24 · answer #10 · answered by Meow the cat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋