I really like this guy, he likes me since last year. he has 2 best friends and they like me too, one of them is reeeeally in love w/ me. he told me lots of bad things about the guy i like, that hes inmature, never had a girl before, all that. i know that im gonna b his 1st girl and i really like that. but his friends r my best friends too, this is our senior year of high school and i dont want them to b my enemies, since i dont have girlfriends..., yesterday the guy that i like asked me out, the other guys noticed it and now they dont talk to me. i asked them why and they dont tell me nothing. i dont know what should i do, they r my only friends, they r his only friends too, what should i do? im soooo confused right now. i need help.
P.S. i havent say yes 2 the guy i like,,.
2006-10-15 05:51:34 · 4 answers · asked by Babbler-Alexa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's best to just stay friends with all of them. It's not a good sign when a guy's friend will backtalk on him just to get a girl. If you date any of them it's gonna cause conflict. I'm a girl in a big group of guy friends, and I'd never date any of them. Nothing would be the same anymore.
2006-10-15 05:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by Sara Lynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow where to start.
First of all, I find it strange that you don't have any friends who are girls. I know I know nothing about you but experience has shown me that girls who only have guy friends really enjoy the attention and drama that entails.
However, that doesn't really answer your question so who cares. Second, I would suggest not going out with anyone in high school. First off, do you want the relationship to go anywhere like towards marriage or are you doing it just for fun? If it's just for fun then shoot who cares about those guys and have fun or have more fun with the other two guys. If you want something deeper out of a high school relationship I would tell you not to waste your time.
However, again, this doesn't answer your question. I would say, don't worry about it. These two "friends" of yours won't talk to you just because one of yours and their mutual guy friends asked you out? Seems kind of childish. I would say that the guy who told you the guy you like was immature is also.
Also you can't help what you feel and they aren't trying to save you from a bad guy who would do something like beat you. They're doing it out of jealously. There is nothing you can do to combat that in another person.
You must ask yourself whether or not these are friends you really want to call friends. I have friends who are still my friends no matter what stupid or selfish thing I did to myself or against them. That is the sign of a true friend.
2006-10-15 13:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by X M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, do you love your boy friend who loves you since last year? If yes and if he loves you really, I think you should go for this one. If your answer is negative or make you confuse some extent, i think you should leave all of them and think all of them as your only boy friend, nothing else.
If you want to talk with me come to the yahoo messanger. I am on the internet. My user name is ahmedmanik.
2006-10-15 13:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by Mostaque 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is absolutely no confusion!....Sure, first you have to be clear. You have to define what is 'love' and what is 'friendship'?....The guy who is your boyfriend is your 'love', and those who are your friends are those whom you 'like'. So the answer is obvious that one should always stick to her love. In fact I don't have to tell you that you should stick to your 'love', If he is really your love, then you would yourself 'feel' to be with your love.
Now come to spoiling relationship with your 'friends'. As far as friendship is concerned, they can advice you on things, but they can force you upon some decision. And if they are doing so, then they are not your friends actually!
2006-10-15 13:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by davinci_neo_leo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋