I have been single for over 2 years and i am gettimg the itch lol anyway my fam, comes first and i am picky. I am a great person and loyal, to the one that treats me right, if not I can be toxic!!!!!! I am 42 but have allot to give, and make someone laugh but my kids come first, and they have to get along with my kids father, (a must). I don't think that I am a great catch, but I have alot to offer someone if they are willing to give the effert. I am into camping,fishing,motercycles,I also like shooting skeet. I don't mind getting dirty and I am pretty indepentent, lets put it this way my nickname is "Mc Giver" I also takecare of my 83 year old grandfather, he just lives with us, He really takes care of him self i just cook and clean his clothes, he drives and has his own hobbies, i just wanted him to live with me because of his age and he lived up north, I just think I need to get out, but feeel bad I always but others first,(that I care about).
2006-10-15 05:29:53 · 16 answers · asked by darcigreeneyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks guys!! all were very helpful and kind!, I would love to pick all of them for the best answer, Its nice to know that there are allot of careing people in the world, you all made me feel better and to start putting me first once in awhile. thanks again, Darci
2006-10-17 05:44:45 · update #1
It is time for you to think about having a little fun for yourself. You sound like a very caring person, so be careful that the men you date do not try and take advantage of your feelings. Good luck in your dating. You deserve to have a very wonderful man in your life.
2006-10-15 05:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you sound like a wonderful person. I can not imagine that you can not find a great guy. Maybe just make yourself a little more available and then the right guy will come along. Even if you do not have some one to do it with sounds like you should take a day to yourself and just go hang out with a friend away from the chores of home. I am a lot like you but I am married and I always put myself last and it was to the point where my husband handed me the car keys and my coat and told me to go visit with my friends for a while and to get out by myself for the evening. I felt so horrible leaving the children that I just drove down the road out of sight and cried. I do have a full time job so I am away from them for 9 hours a day. But everyone tells me that does not count. So I am still working on it myself. But hey step out and have some fun. And I will try to myself.
2006-10-15 12:42:56 · answer #2 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a life of your own. YOur children do come first but you have a place too. Go and have some fun. No need to be serious first. You deserve some fun. You could start on the internet just flirting if thats not enough then start going out..
2006-10-15 12:46:58 · answer #3 · answered by Chuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want someone else to take care of? Ah heck get out live a little you need some time for yourself. So yes start dating but remember there's alot of sharks out there in the sea. Good luck to you and don't swim in the deep part.
2006-10-15 12:34:03 · answer #4 · answered by Just Me baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should start dating again, there is nothing stopping you but you. The choice is yours. I always say that woman in their forties are the most attractive. There are lots of eligible men out there just waiting to put their arms around an attractive single mother. Maybe you should find an attractive single man with kids of his own. Keep the hope of finding love in your heart. If you have any questions or comments, please feel free to e-mail me at chris_t_townsell@yahoo.com.
2006-10-15 12:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by Christian T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way!
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all!
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-10-15 12:35:17 · answer #6 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG go out get urself a life babe !!!ur way to young to b doin this to urself!!! and dont sell urself short , u sound like an awesome catch to me !!!!!!!!!ur luving caring and giving and family comes first , thats a deadly combination its freekin awesome , simply cuz its the way it should b!!!!!! go i mean it go out , thers still some good guys out ther available trust me ill b one of them if i cant find my gurl soon and i would treat u like a queen and i get along with everybody i luv kids so................
2006-10-15 12:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by Tim P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. But be careful re: the children and a new man.
I'm sure you know this, some men want to get close to little children.
Best of luck to you.
2006-10-15 12:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by Pat K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound very sweet girl...and very giving also.
I think you definitely need to get out and have some fun though, life is to short not to......Going by the things you like to do..and the pic you have posted....you shouldn't have a problem, i wish you lots of luck... now go have some fun !!
2006-10-15 12:39:09 · answer #9 · answered by juslookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a little 2 much info. yes u should start dating until its too late! get up from behind the computer! hut 2,3,4 hut 2,3,4! (by the way, make sure ur kids r ok with this)
2006-10-15 12:34:18 · answer #10 · answered by Esther 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋