I was my girlfriend's first because she was ready and she felt and knows in her heart that I am the one. We plan on spending the rest of our lives together.She said that she asked God if I was the one and he said yes.
2006-10-15 05:24:21 · 25 answers · asked by Casey M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've made this into a religious question; not knowing how educated or experienced with theology or christianity you are, pre-marital sex is something that the church looks down upon. According to the bible, men are to save themselves for their wives and wives save themselves for their husbands. If you or your GF truly believe in God, then you would know that it is not right and that He created the sanction of marriage for a man and woman to consumate their love and to ultimately create a family. If you are planning on spending your lives together, don't use God or religion as an excuse to have sex. As for the question, "is it a sin", only God would be able to judge that...if it is God that you believe in.
2006-10-15 05:33:46 · answer #1 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Casey... you know the answer. It's yes. The reason God made that a sin, is to protect you and her, because he loves both of you. And he knows, that when someone has sex... emotions eventually get involved. The reason it's a sin, is because one is able to emotionally get hurt from it. If you are married, sex is a sharing between two people who have committed relationship to one another. Two people who are just dating, are not committed in the same sense. Therefore, marriage is suppose to be forever. God didn't invent divorce, man did. Because people decide to go against Gods' words of wisdom "sins" people get hurt. God has given you a way out... he always does. Now that you know it's a sin, and you do it anyway... then you are going against God, and his love for you. A sin, is not a sin, if you are unaware it's sin, or wrong. God gives you instincts...to know right from wrong. Sorry.... I know it's not the answer you wanted, but it's in the Bible. Plus, she may have asked God if you are the one, however, Satan can also hear your prayers.
2006-10-15 05:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by junebug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly it is a sin that we all know of because of the bible. But I don't really feel that it is wrong if some don't wait. It's a person choice to do it when they feel it is right. We sin every day in our lives, and I think that there are some worst sins that are displayed day to day than just this one. Your girlfriend seems very smart because she did what she felt was right for her and no one else. She was a virgin, she hadn't been sleeping around with mulitple partners, and she didn't just succumb to peer pressure. I hope you guys do stay together and everything works out. Some people will try to make you feel uncomfortable but don't let it get to you, as long as you guys love each other and are being careful, that's what really matters.
2006-10-15 05:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by pumpk713 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you plan to spend the rest of your life with someone, and if your planning on getting married or whatever, it's a sin to have sex before your married. The bible says in 1Corithians 7:9 "It's better to marry than to burn". Your commiting fornication when you have sex outside of marriage. Don't sin against your own body and the Lord, wait till your married to start having any type of sexual relationships with the girl your with. If you two are meant to be together and are both serving the Lord, you will wait till your married.
2006-10-15 05:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by I ♥ Jesus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is a christian so the basic answer is yes, however everyone sins, it makes us human.
The way I believe is that no matter what sin you commit, you can ask God to forgive and he will.
2006-10-15 05:27:42 · answer #5 · answered by E_E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES it is a sin you have to wait until your married thinking about having sex with her is a sin
2006-10-15 05:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if God said "OK" how can it be a sin? BTW, what did he tell you? And, are you the one for sex or for a life long partner?
2006-10-15 05:28:19 · answer #7 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's okay aslong as your committed to marry her. As long as you have good intentions, and like you said, plan to spend the rest of your life with her then sex before marriage is okay, i think
2006-10-15 05:30:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be very careful about being with someone who has conversations with God(tm).
"Rest of our lives". How old are you? How old is she?
And, most important, why do YOU feel that you have sinned?
2006-10-15 05:45:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats a sin is that anyone would want to have sex with you.
2006-10-15 05:52:04 · answer #10 · answered by gizzardout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋