there is this girl i like and it seems like she likes me but im not sure.....help!
2006-10-15 03:29:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her. if she says no she might be lying due to shyness. ask her friends. if they say no they might be lying due to girl bonding and trust and all that other girly pinky-swearing crap. ask her parents, if the father already has weapon in hand then just know that there's hope... but run anyway. tell her you like her and that you'd like to take her out for lunch (never dinner on the first date). tell her you'd like to get to know her. this comes accross as innocent intent. tell her all these things away from friends or parents as to avoid pressure. ie. if you are like I used to be then you are not too popular for whatever reason... maybe you're a friggin dork who knows. but if you ask her out in front of her friends they might give her... "the look" and if in front of her parents then, well that's plain dumb. lol. good luck.
Look at it this way, if she has to ask you out then what kind of guy is she dating? a wuss? I hope not. Be affirmative, confident, and almost cocky. most of all whip out the charm and ask her in a smooth way if she'd like to join you for coffee some time. or you could always stalk her hehe... not like that. but seriously, follow her one day to a diner or movie theater and if she is all alone then act like it's a coincidence and greet her warmly. ask her if you can join her. then on the way out tell her you liked her company and you'd like to take her out sometime. do it man... who cares if she likes you? there's other fish in the sea. the point is that if this one likes you you can find out by telling her if you like her.
2006-10-15 03:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by The love Doctor is in 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to hang out all the time and talks with u about things
2006-10-15 03:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by vickie p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are strange things. When the like a guy they two things. Thing no. 1 is her body language, where she will have her arms to her side and also, check her feet. Usually the direction her feet are pointing shows that she likes you (they will be pointing towards you).
Thing 2 is that she will play hard to get by "ignoring you" and not taking much notice. However, you may find a glint in her eye when you are talking to her.
Hope this helps a bit...
2006-10-15 03:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by Gillian003 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a girl and when I am interested in a boy I will pay attention to him when he's talking, smile at him a lot, and pick on him. just give him **** and joke with him. Maybe laugh at his jokes. or try to flirt with him. Does she do any of this? If she does then step forward and confront her. If you wait too long she might lose interest if she thinks that it would never happen between the two of you. If my advice works visit my page and let me know.
2006-10-15 03:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by Vic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me I would merly say to you would you like to grab a cup of coffee?!,..classic I know. Note the sarcasm.giggles. But Why waste life, cease the moment. I'd ask you out point blank. You would know If I liked you or not immediately.
cheers darlin
2006-10-15 03:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by scully_22ps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude ask her out as soon as possible because i was in the same position you are in and i was too late some body got to her first i waited to long to ask her out now im feeling down about it.
2006-10-15 03:34:19 · answer #6 · answered by shawninonaga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask the girl
2006-10-15 03:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by bor_rabnud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out! if she says yes take her to the movies follow by a dinner for two and later take her home safety and say to her "i will call you" and make sure you do and later at that nite you could casual mention to her" I like to see you often" if she say yes, she likes to see you and hang out with you, and soon she might used to the way you are, she will surly go out often with you and you can accidenly ask her "i like you" =)
2006-10-15 03:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can never be sure dude, cos girls are funny creatures!!..we males will probably never understand them fully..your best bet is to imply to her that you like her through body movements, facial expressions etc etc..if she responds, it means that she probably likes you but you can never be too sure!!
2006-10-15 03:33:41 · answer #9 · answered by red_is_my_blood 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to be more close to her by being her best buddy......then u may both sort out dat where d relationship s goin.....dat one always works....it a trusted one..
2006-10-15 03:33:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋