I am 13 years old and I am always looking for a boyfriend ! Why do you think so ? No rude remarks please ...
2006-10-15 03:52:26 · 22 answers · asked by La parisienne ! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't meen that I go out with them i'm just in need of one !
2006-10-15 03:57:56 · update #1
It's a mix of different things, your age, peer pressure, the desire to be loved, which never goes away, hormones, the fact that the world tells us we're nothing without a mate, nothing without a man if we're girls. Maybe your personality, you may be very social and may need to have people with you all the time. Or maybe you are insecure, and think a boy will help cure all. Or you feel or know your family structure is somehow lacking, and you're searching elsewhere to fill a void. Just be careful, guys can tell when a girl's very eager. The fact you're questioning your behavior and asking for advice shows you're quite mature and not totally impulsive, so I'd say you're doing good so far.
2006-10-15 10:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by Adamina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at 13 you should not be too interested in boy's you should be interesed in school and your mates and stuff like that! Maybe the reason why you are wanting a boyfriend all the time is because your friends have boyfriends and you don't want to feel left out! Or the fact that you have no self esteem and want to feel wanted! Take my advice, focus your attentions on something else rather than boys and boyfriends! You have plenty of time for them trust me! Your 13 and have your whole life in front of you! Boys are rubbish stick them in the dust bin
2006-10-15 11:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by The Riddler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones my foot. I'm 34 and am always on the look out when single. Good look. My belief is that men and women are supposed to be together. How many happy non-couples do you know unless they've associated themselves with some sort of alternative life style? V few in my experience. Still at 13 you should take it easy and not rush in to anything.
2006-10-15 10:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you want some love, this may not be your fault. Do you feel loved by your mum and dad, do they tell you how much they love you and cuddle you. Everyone needs love and sometimes if a person is not getting it, they will look for it, and sometimes with the person who says something nice or shows an interest, but you see some boys will be nice because they want sex and not because they are interested in you and you could end up hurt.
Some people maybe your parents are not very good at showing love but they do. Remember God loves you, you are very special, and you were chosen. Tell yourself that everyday. Be careful because you can get hurt, theirs some boys and men who are very self centred and they will ditch you when they get what that want. God bless you and take care.
2006-10-15 11:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by guysmithdenise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just have too much time on your hands and you keep yearning for a boyfriend. I think the need can fulfilled by friends as well, just hang out with them and have a good time. You have lots of time to get a boyfriend later.
2006-10-15 11:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by freshlimesoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want a boyfriend for companionship or status? You need dependency because either you're used to it or never had it...regardless, at 13, you have your whole life ahead of you. You don't NEED a boyfriend. Be yourself and have fun...you can do that while being single. Be happy with yourself first.
2006-10-15 11:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is because you are a normal human being who needs , by nature someone to care about you outside your family. My philosophy is this, Love and War are the samethe oppositeof love is apathy.Hatered is just a frustrated form of passion. My family is itallian and we are passionate about everyrhing we do, it is our passion for living that keeps us alive. If you find someone you care about and the feelings are mutual, do not romanticize, simply be there with that person and stay young(keep your innocence, you don't have to know everything yet). If you live for the future you cannot enjoy the present. don't listen to anyone who says you are insecure or is unsure of themselves. If they respect your predicament they will be politely honest. Nothing is as bad as uncertainty.
2006-10-15 11:01:15 · answer #7 · answered by Euclid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going through hormonal changes...and you are at an age where attention is every thing. If you feel the need for a boyfriend...look closely at your choices...go for the guy who is always there for you..the one youd never think of dating...he is your best bet! Good luck!
2006-10-15 10:55:00 · answer #8 · answered by mabluu_22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at your age your hormones are developing,also peer pressure comes into it, i guess your watching your mates have boyfriends and you want the same? but remember the first boyfriend you have will probably not be your last, so are you old enough to deal with the emotional feelings of a break up?? i guess not. my advice is just to mix with your mates that include boys but don't get emotionally involved.
2006-10-15 11:09:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be in your surrounding everyone has a boyfriend, and so you are feeling lonely without one!! But you are still 13, you' ve whole life in front of you to have boyfriends.
2006-10-15 10:56:12 · answer #10 · answered by Wild_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋