Singles & Dating - 10 October 2006

i asked this gurl to go some where with me but after i paied my bill i found out that i would have enough money for her but i didn't tell her i was gonna pay so wat should i do

2006-10-10 12:24:24 · 6 answers · asked by chris 1

whats this mean, please help?
ok about a month ago, i spilled my guts to one of my friends, told her that i like her alot, and all this stuff, shes only 13. well she wrote me back and said she hasnt ever seen us as more thanfriends, and that she dont like me like that but she dont want it to ruin our 8 year frendship.. well..over the past month, I've been avoiding her, simply for my sake, just simply not to bring those feelings back up, cuz when I'm around her they all come back. but she emailed me yesterday, and said she was sad, becauze it was straining our friendship. and she wants things like they used to be, well i told her why i had been avoinding her, and she said she totatlly understood why. well, I know she dont like me like that now, but am I crazy to think there mite be sumthin in the future, cuz she was obvioulsy ( she said) she was really sad, seeing us like this, and since shes only 13, am i crazy to think there mite be sumthin in the next year or two? she also said, " dont take the rejection to heart

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13 minutes ago
that the reason was probably stupid anyway, whats that mean?

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3 days ago
and for those who say, I am punsihing her, I am not in any way. We have had very friendly discussions, and she understands why, things have been this way. And I have reassured her, promised her, that I will make things the way the used to. Do u really think I want to lose the friendship as well? I mean, that hurts.

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12 hours ago
I mean, its not like I'm ugly, I'm very atractive, and so is she. I mean I'm fit, I play varsity baseball, and am only a sophmore, It's not like I'm a geek or anything. And the same with her, she is very good lookin, has guys hitting on her all the time, and is on the national swim team, I just dont know what to do, cuz i swear to god i love her more than anything in this world

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3 days ago
i mean i just cant get over her, I have never in my life, liked anyone, or felt so strongly for somone. Believe me, this isnt a crush, I have had many, but htis is more.

2006-10-10 12:23:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i am small chested and i think that has something to do with guys not wanting to date me and i dont know what to do about it so what do you guys think that i can do to help me with my problem other then in plants because all of my other friends have bfs and i am just aloner in my group

2006-10-10 12:22:38 · 7 answers · asked by small_funky_monkey 1

I personally think its difficult to get an Asian women to date a white guy. I find Asian women very attractive yet they usually like to stick to their own.

2006-10-10 12:22:29 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know if he like me or not! but I'm pretty sure that he kind of likes me but he doesn't have the guts to ask.

2006-10-10 12:22:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dated this girl for a couple weeks after flirting for a couple more. She decided she just wanted to be friends because she is still in love with her ex (they broke up on good terms-- he moved 1500 miles away).

For three weeks since then we've still hung out quite a bit. So much so, in fact, that many people have wrongly assumed we are a couple. Our interactions with eachother are also quite couple-like.
I without a doubt have feelings for her. Very strong feelings, actually. She's easily the closest I've come to finding someone with long-term possibilities.

I think she is honestly conflicted because of her ex. I feel for her because I think she wanted things to work out, but it was too much in addition to her stressfull life. It was just easier for her to be friends.

Now we're this psuedo-couple that obviously still has a lot of chemistry, and things are going nowhere.

I was thinking about writing her a letter. All advice appreciated.

~ConfusedB

2006-10-10 12:21:50 · 4 answers · asked by CyberJay 2

I like this guy who's really nice, kind of a punk in interests but not in appearance, and he's not emo or whatever, he's the kind of person who's into things that aren't mainstream. Anyways, he seems to think I'm a perfect goody two shoes because I didn't seem like I got his joke about being a cunning linguist and he always says that I come off like I go to church every week (my response was that some weeks I don't get a chance to go to church) Anyways, he seems to think I'm this adorable virgin goody two shoes, when really I've had sex and everything before, I'm not as rich as he thinks and so on. Should I let him think I'm a goody two shoes or should I show that I'm not perfect? Are bad boys attracted to good girls?

2006-10-10 12:20:52 · 7 answers · asked by Jenny 4

I met this guy on myspace-he is from my town, he is really goodlooking and he calls me to talk from the road(he is a truck driver) I really wanna meet him but I want e1's opinion and maybe some safety tips-serious answers only please

2006-10-10 12:20:43 · 2 answers · asked by ? 2

Since the first day we got together, he would call me a lot, I mean a little too much!! Which kind of annoyed me. I would think, "doesn't he have a life?" Well yeah, so it came to days that I would not even answer his phone calls, and I never really called him back. So then on a Wednesday he asked me what time I wanted him to call me on Thursday, and I told him 9pm, and he asked me why so late, and I told him becasue that was the time that I was not soo busy. So then he told me that he was going to call me at that time and that he was going to visit me at church, which was the only way we can see each other, cause my parents were very strict, still are. Well he ended up not calling me at all until Saturday, and he didn't even go visit me, which got me anry, which I did not show him. He kept doing this over and over, so I decided to break the relationship, but he asked 4 a chance & I gave him 1. WEll any ways, he broke up with me da next week, and started crank calling that week, why?

2006-10-10 12:19:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

The guy i am in love w/broke up w/me we were going out 4 7months @ the begenning everything was fine he would come and see me almost everyday!! He changed in the last month alot and I dont know why? Before him I was going out w/ this other guy and he said he got bored of me I dont know why?

2006-10-10 12:18:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

She states that she didn't have her phone today. I am a bit suspicious because when I called her I was forwarded to her answering service within 2 rings (she has cingular). I also thought that maybe if the phone is not in service at the time, the call may be automatically forwarded within a few rings. Just checking. She didn't seem over zealous to have me come over this evening either. Hmmmm....

2006-10-10 12:17:32 · 14 answers · asked by navigate100 2

I mean, dose it feel more good than weird?

2006-10-10 12:15:48 · 21 answers · asked by Luke 1

i need a laugh right now but just throw some random one at me and say if u used it and what happened

2006-10-10 12:15:43 · 8 answers · asked by Brandon GA Jorif 1

I'm in love with this girl and i dont know what to do.Should I keep it cool or just forget about her?It would be really hard to do either one,though.

2006-10-10 12:15:10 · 4 answers · asked by jackeduptruck101 1

How do i show him i really like him... and im not playing little games with him?

2006-10-10 12:14:44 · 13 answers · asked by Kool 2

we are friends and all i mean not close but friends i would neva drink smoke or do drugs i no it is bad but 2 day i foulnd out him and alot of my other friends drink not all but some and i really care for them but i realll want this guy to stop i dono i mean i am only a freshmaqn in highschool
help

2006-10-10 12:14:22 · 1 answers · asked by lova 1

I don't have a boyfriend, but I really want to know what do guys want most in a girl other than just great looks?

Any help at all would be great Please and thank you ^^

2006-10-10 12:13:47 · 10 answers · asked by CreamOreo 2

would you let your girlfriend keep talking to a guy who has tried to kiss her in the lips twice before

2006-10-10 12:13:06 · 7 answers · asked by what? 2

2006-10-10 12:12:40 · 11 answers · asked by R 1

So me (male) have seeing this girl going on 10 months now. It has been a really great relationship, but I'm alarmed about her curiosity to "try it out" with another woman. The first time she told me she was quite embarrassed about it. She said she'll think about it from time to time. She's very blunt, so I am very forward when I talk to her about this. She tells me that she's never tried or came close to having the experience. When I ask why, she says she doesnt know, because she doesnt look for it. One time when I brought it up she said she could never do it. For one, because she's in love with me and its not worth the risk. Two, because she it goes against her morals; she would never be able to live with herself. And Three, because she's not even sure she would like it; its just something that sounds nice. Recently she says if she was single she MIGHT try it. She also said, because its so "popular" in the media, it makes her curious. Damn i need more space.......

2006-10-10 12:11:31 · 19 answers · asked by The Who 1

Known a guy at school/work etc who obviously likes you, and you throw the signals of mutual interest back at him. Yet he never asks you out for a drink etc?

Do you eventually lose interest and move on?
Does this happen a lot?
Ever taken the initiative? Even when you do does he get nervous and even flake out as well?

2006-10-10 12:11:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

if something happen to your sponse, what are your rights of staying there till death.

2006-10-10 12:09:37 · 7 answers · asked by birdsdafly 3

My ex boyfriend and my best friend is cool he call her sometimes and everytime he call her or txt her he alwayz ask about me, I tell her to tell him don't worry about me because he sure wasn't worring when he broke my heart! He have a new gurl now and left me for her so he should be calling her instead of my friend asking about me. It just makes me so made. I don't care if he call my friend but he just needs to keep my name out of his mouth, i'm really peed off because it was a painful and bad break-up and everytime I think about it I start to cry i'm about to now, but do I have a serious problem or is it normal to feel this way? Help me out please!!!!!!!

2006-10-10 12:08:06 · 11 answers · asked by babycakes 2

he said he got nervous today in the car when he tried to ask me out, what could he have gotten nervous about??

2006-10-10 12:07:57 · 3 answers · asked by STFUbeezy 2

im a single 40year old london guy,im quite shy and not into pubs or clubs,apart from dating agencies is there places i could go to meet genuine females

2006-10-10 12:07:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Flirting through aggression??????????????
My best friend is always hitting me playfully. She is a girl, I'm a guy, we are 15, and people keep saying she is flirting. Today, for example, she just hit me in the head with a school book (lol) for no reason. We have known each other for 2 years. First off, do you think this actually is her way of flirting? She doesn't do it to other people. And also, what should I do back? Should I also playfully mess around with her?
Is this actually a way of flirting?
Also, when she isn't messing like this, she is more serious to me than others, she tells me if she is feeling bad.

Another thing related to mthis is that when we are around friends, she does this and we playfully mock each other, but when we are alone she is more sincere with me.
All of theis is playfull, she is fairly petite, and I am well.,., not, lol, I'm a black belt and stuff.

2006-10-10 12:06:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

This ugly, old lady with red hair from Florida, is stalking me down.
No men like her, because she is ugly and old, and her vagina smells like rancid Tuna Fish. You can even smell it through her pants. What should I do? This is serious, believe it or not.

2006-10-10 12:04:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean really. WHY DO YOU MEN FEEL THE NEED TO CHEAT? DON'T ENTER A RELATIONSHIP IF YOU CAN'T HANDLE BEING MONOGAMOUS, IDIOTS.

2006-10-10 12:03:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should it be confidence, sweetness, or casual. Whats something you as a girl would prefer that I didn't list? I know i should use all of them, but what one sticks out the most?

2006-10-10 12:03:10 · 6 answers · asked by jackalope_00 2

Anyone else have the need for just plain old sex even in a relationship? I'm talking about doing your thing just to do your thing every once in a while. The "making love" and passion and sensuality is all good and needed sometimes too, but I need to just get down and dirty sometimes, but with her (and she happens to like it, too). It works for us, just give into that carnal drive every so often and then go back to being all lovey dovey afterwards. How insane is this?

2006-10-10 12:02:41 · 13 answers · asked by randyken 6