I like this guy who's really nice, kind of a punk in interests but not in appearance, and he's not emo or whatever, he's the kind of person who's into things that aren't mainstream. Anyways, he seems to think I'm a perfect goody two shoes because I didn't seem like I got his joke about being a cunning linguist and he always says that I come off like I go to church every week (my response was that some weeks I don't get a chance to go to church) Anyways, he seems to think I'm this adorable virgin goody two shoes, when really I've had sex and everything before, I'm not as rich as he thinks and so on. Should I let him think I'm a goody two shoes or should I show that I'm not perfect? Are bad boys attracted to good girls?
2006-10-10 12:20:52 · 7 answers · asked by Jenny 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NEVER misrepresent yourself to try to get a guy to like you. And never put out to try to make a guy like you. He seems to be testing the waters to see if you'll put out. He is obviously intimidated by you and has low self-esteem. That's why he says you're "churchy". If he is really interested in you, make him wait for a long time beofre getting physical with him. Putting out doesn't prove that you like someone. It just shows how desperate you are to be liked. Say "I don't know you well enough yet".
Why do you call him a "bad boy"? Is he a strong person or a weakling? I mean, does he try to change the world or does he let it change him? Does he contribute anything to the world or does he react negatively to it? Is he a go-getter or is he a professional victim?
If you like the guy, don't go dumping your feelings on him and expect him to return them. Just show your interest by appreciating him, the things he does, and things he is good at.
If he's an artist, comment on his work. If he's a musician, listen to him play. Admire him and respect him, and he will feel good about himself when you're around. He will want you around more.
Don't go misrepresenting yourself, or changing yourself to try to make him like you. He will like you if you inspire him to feel like he's appreciated and good at things, and you notice that and admire him. It might be helpful if you showed you care about what he would do in a situation. Ask for advice on creativity. Ask him to expose you to some new music generes.
Stay yourself and don't put out. Be a challenge to get to know. Don't volunteer too much, simply make it about him for a while. Show him you want to get to know him. He might be surprised that you think he is worth getting to know in the first place. Just do go talking feelings with boys. They don't get it, and they're too scared to talk feelings talk. Demonstrate your feelings through your behavior. Actions mean so much more than words, anyway. Actions, guys get.
2006-10-10 12:45:14 · answer #1 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm woman. i do no longer understand precisely. This clarification is thru me interpreting human beings facial features variations. i assume it quite is genetics and it has to do with chemistry of tangible charm. In a nutshell, the extra mature you're, the extra sexier you develop into, the two socially and/or sexually. all of us are born out as naive relating to the international. It maintains to be that way if we don't socialize or are "nerdy," particularly if we are nonetheless a virgin. So our eyes are very harmless and straightforward. besides the indisputable fact that, as we develop into further and extra "highway," clever, socially in touch, or particularly people who're sexually energetic, our eyes develop into "sexier." those eyes set off our organic organic tendencies to be attracted to those persons because of the fact they are at a "mature" degree. An severe occasion could be gang individuals. Their eyes are very highway and seems cool. i think of it quite is a chemistry component. it quite is a competent component because of the fact there is far less of a huge gamble that sexually energetic human beings will pass after virgins. it truly is basically an assumption. i myself have observed that my eyes has matured a great deal after having little ones. you may take a glance at pictures of many teen celebrities that grew from harmless to appropriate youthful adults as examples. Is there something you're able to do for your self? No. basically be your self and the suited female will fall for you. i think of the main suitable thank you to get a woman buddy is making pals and pass to social activities. ultimately, one will take observe. and don't be fowl the two.
2016-10-16 01:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look bad boy like good girls some times but the thing is some boy dont lik the chalenge of a good girl u should just let him know the way u r and if he dont like it get over him and go on to the nexed guy
2006-10-10 12:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by dani s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well im a bad boy uh huh but i like all women shy,prudish,stupid you name it i like them
2006-10-10 12:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he likes you. Just be yourself! :)
2006-10-10 12:26:19 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa, That's me! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl opposites attreacked
2006-10-10 12:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by francine 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should be yourself
2006-10-10 12:24:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋