Since the first day we got together, he would call me a lot, I mean a little too much!! Which kind of annoyed me. I would think, "doesn't he have a life?" Well yeah, so it came to days that I would not even answer his phone calls, and I never really called him back. So then on a Wednesday he asked me what time I wanted him to call me on Thursday, and I told him 9pm, and he asked me why so late, and I told him becasue that was the time that I was not soo busy. So then he told me that he was going to call me at that time and that he was going to visit me at church, which was the only way we can see each other, cause my parents were very strict, still are. Well he ended up not calling me at all until Saturday, and he didn't even go visit me, which got me anry, which I did not show him. He kept doing this over and over, so I decided to break the relationship, but he asked 4 a chance & I gave him 1. WEll any ways, he broke up with me da next week, and started crank calling that week, why?
2006-10-10 12:19:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The weird thing is that I still have feelings for him, and his birthday is next week, would it be fine if I call him to say happy birthday?
2006-10-10 13:00:01 · update #1
Oh, yeah about the prank calling, I confronted him in a nice way not to make him feel bad, I told him that if he wanted to talk to me to feel free, and that I wasn't a girl who held any grudges with my x boyfriends, that I still talked to them as friends, and about the break up, I told him that I was over it, so I told him again to feel free, the truth was that I did not mean the part of being over him, I guess I just let little pride take over me. And well I told him to fell free to talk to me, than out od a sudden he got all mad and said that he is a guy that he has the balls to a girl when he wants to, and that he would never do something like that, then I asked him why his name came out when they scanned the private caller at the verizon. Then he told me that he didn't even have my cell # any more and that he was moving on. Then I said as sarcasm that maybe it was his brother sneaking on the phone than... It seemed like he wanted 2 hang so we hung up, he was mad. What do u think?
2006-10-10 13:08:44 · update #2
Obviously, he is doing this because he is a childish individual with nothing better to do.
Press *60 and block his number from being able to call your house.
2006-10-10 12:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if he is a very posessive person. That's why he was calling so much, then to make you mad and trying to drive you crazy he didn't do as he said he would (to get even in his little mind), after you broke up with him he wanted to get even again so he got back with you just to try to hurt you how you hurt him and be the one to break it off. Now he is harrassing you because he never wanted to let you go the whole time and he's hoping you will take him back again. It's all mind games, a lot of ppl play them and he is still in training. I would stay away from him unless you like playing, just don't play unless you are on his team 'cause he sounds a little psycho. If you don't want to, tell daddy, that should take care of it just fine. It sounds like he has rules and he don't want his Baby Girl having any troubles from any guy! If he persists unbearably dial 911, because it's called STALKING! I'm saying be careful, there are some crazy ppl out there.
2006-10-10 12:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by Liome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds stupid and immature. He just is angry you got rid of him and he broke up with you because he knew you where leaving him and he wanted to be the first to ditch but it sounds like he is having hard times getting in his mind that things are truly over. Get call blocker.
2006-10-10 12:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're in touch with some paranoid dik head. he's out of expertise and fact. only only abuser in the extra severe psychological way. tell him to strengthen up and get misplaced continuously out of your existence. Obsession - to break somebody for revenge of very own folly is the motto.
2016-10-19 04:14:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is being childish. He seems like a sticky bf. Perhaps if you ignore him, he will stop. If not just take the necessary actions, etc.
2006-10-10 14:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by axix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to annoy you, and bug you!!!!!
Tell him to stop crank calling you and if he doesn't you can press *60 and block his number.
If that doesn't work you can call the police if it does get serious that he never stops.
Good Luck!!!!!
2006-10-10 12:29:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going to answer the question, but I couldn't read another sentance of this crap. Quit whinning, get a new guy, and have him kick his asss.
2006-10-10 12:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by neptune032701 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's a loser? What can we say? I don't think that would really make sense to anyone but him, but I'm going to guess that's how he deals with his emotions? Smart? No. But it's what he does.
2006-10-10 12:23:05 · answer #8 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuz he is immature. Just let it be and dont' worry bout it. If it gets really bad, you have to say something to him. He's just trying to make himself feel better bout himself and its his lil way to check up on you...
2006-10-10 12:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont know why he is doing it, sounds pretty immature if you ask me. Change your number, he might be a stalker.
2006-10-10 12:23:36 · answer #10 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋