My girl friend says she's Bi-Curious......now what????

Question

So me (male) have seeing this girl going on 10 months now. It has been a really great relationship, but I'm alarmed about her curiosity to "try it out" with another woman. The first time she told me she was quite embarrassed about it. She said she'll think about it from time to time. She's very blunt, so I am very forward when I talk to her about this. She tells me that she's never tried or came close to having the experience. When I ask why, she says she doesnt know, because she doesnt look for it. One time when I brought it up she said she could never do it. For one, because she's in love with me and its not worth the risk. Two, because she it goes against her morals; she would never be able to live with herself. And Three, because she's not even sure she would like it; its just something that sounds nice. Recently she says if she was single she MIGHT try it. She also said, because its so "popular" in the media, it makes her curious. Damn i need more space.......

Answer 1

Hum, it is nice that she is honest with you, and remember this is something that she may want to explore alone, at some point she may want you there, and of course the other women would have to approve of your involvement. Please understand that she can love you and still be very sexually active with women, as well as you. my wife and I have been married 26 years, she is bi, and more times then not I am involved. Sometimes it goes into longer lasting relationship and sometimes just for a month or so.
Because sexuality is such a big part of who a person is, don't try and change it, if you love them learn to love that part of them. If you can't then you can't love the whole person. You can't make her feeling and desires go away, no more then you can make your own go away. If it's not abusive then it's not likely to cause any one any harm..Good Luck,,,and let her be her, and you be you....That's what brought you together in the 1st place.

Answer 2

Actually, it is quite common for both men and women to be bi-curious. It just so happens women can be more open about it with the people that they love and trust. You shouldn't see it as a huge problem in your relationship as it's just curiousity and she's already expressed that she wouldn't try it unless she was single. Bisexuality is very huge in the media because it's coming out more and more. Rather then treating your girlfriend as if she's the most disgusting person or as though she's done something wrong, have an open talk with her. A loving boyfriend would give her the oppurtunity to experience a relation with a girl. She most likely will only like it sexually, I doubt she'd want to be in a relationship with a girl. Give her some space if you think that is what she needs but talk it over with her first.

Answer 3

Interesting situation that's for sure. But ill tell you one thing if shes curious, no matter what she tells you, she is always willing to try it. If the situation comes up she will try it. Better to have a set boundary and try it together you being involved to whatever degree you see fair. Because if you condemn it she will always be thinking about it, and as i said if the opportunity arises she will take it. Or if you don't say anything at all she will take your silence as it might be okay cause "he never said not to", and not tell you about it. If you allow her to give it a shot you can at least set some ground rules and pick the person together unless your completely against it. If your completely against it you might want to start thinking about moving on, because from what she said shes more then willing to be for it.

And the other thing to remember sex and love are two different things. To have sex with someone dose not mean you love them. But if you have sex with someone cause you love them then it just makes the sex more intimate and special.

Even though for most younger guys this is a dream come true scenario, yes i know piggish remark but its true, there is a downside. If she finds she likes being with the new person a lot more, then it just shows the relationship was never meant to be. And there is a chance of that happening.

Answer 4

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Dude, Lighten Up already! Your Girl is bisexual... So what? All that means is that she finds boys AND girls attractive. It does not mean she's a cheater. If she was a cheater would it matter if she cheated with a guy or a girl? I doubt it. if you two are in a committed relationship, that's all there is to it. If you are in a open relationship, there may be a bonus in it for you with another girl in the bedroom. The simple fact is she is with you. If she were straight she'd find only other men attractive, would you be insecure then? If so the issue is *not* her ...it's you. She chose you, not Bob, Ted, Carol,or Alice. You. Enjoy the time with her, stop questioning her sexuality, love her allow her to love you. It's the insecurity that drives people to cheat. Your insecurity will drive you to find "something better", or her to find someone who trusts her.

Answer 5

To me it just means that she is just curious about being bi-curious.She is having a feeling that she might want to try something different. I believe that she may try something but is waiting for the perfect opportunity,like i said she is just curious now a days kids are a lot more open to other things that's all.

Answer 6

Some women are Bi_curious. Well this might work out in your favor. Since this is something she has talked to you about on more than one occasion. Have you thought of a three some? That way you can experience it with her. If she doesnt like the experience then you are still there and she can finish things with you. I hear about a lot of things in the media and on the net and it doesnt peak my interest. I am sure she has wanted to do this long before she discussed the matter with you.She is given this issue some serious thought. If she could find a woman she is interested in would she? Try going out of town and go to a strip club and take things slowly ( a few grinds,lap dance)if she doesnt get turned on then she knows that this isnt something she would like. There are all type of chat rooms on the net(swingers and couples) Hope this helped.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Tell her to stick to stick to her morals, and know that the 'Media' is one of many things destoying the world today as we know it. Because once she drops a level there's no turning back. Just another victim of the 'homosexual' society, which is a very dangerous society to the entire world (Think about it you'll get were I'm coming from).

Answer 9

If she's bi-curious... she should try it, so she can get that off her chest and know if she is or not... nothing wrong with that... if she's seing it as a problem about her morals... then she's just plain wack!

Answer 10

All you will be able to do is sit in the corner and watch. Don't even think about pleasuring yourself either or they will scream gross and kick you out. Is that weird?