Singles & Dating - 7 October 2006

....over men, jobs and shoes !!!!

2006-10-07 03:24:53 · 7 answers · asked by Chula 1

My wife used to have the sexiest, smooth, flat belly. Now after 2 kids, her belly is kind of loose, full of stretch marks, and truthfully kind of gross. I find myself looking at all the younger women at the beach with the tight, smooth, flat bellies. I know time marches on, but I still have a nice body. I want to run my hands over a smooth, flat belly again. Should I just suck it up and realize that my swinging single days are over?

2006-10-07 03:23:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is hot!

2006-10-07 03:23:13 · 2 answers · asked by justin bieber <3 3

This guy ask for a third date. He makes it clear that he wants to kiss me and feel me and that it is just a fling. I say yes to him and so he has got wine for our date. Now i am worry, because i don't want to lost my first time to someone who doesn't like me for true. But i like him and i miss his closeness. should i just go silent or should i still go his place, give him a great body massage instead of giving him my body? i got drunk easily and i worry he would force me to give myself to him...

2006-10-07 03:20:49 · 14 answers · asked by miserable 2

Ok so i am 20 yrs. old good looking and in my first year of college...But i also have a two year old son who is my world...I was a teen mother(17yrs.) when i had him. My question is do guys mind dating a gurl that has a child or are they just interested in booty calls?? I NEVER sleep with them on the first date or anything and i am not looking for a father for him i am just sick of loser guys that only want sex from me (i dont sleep with guys unless i really feel somthing for them and yes i always use protection) I am getting frustrated because i have only had one boyfriend since i had him that was actually a MAN and dint care that i had a baby. So do guys care wether I have a child or do they think cus i have one i am just looking for sex???cus i am not just looking for sex AT ALL.

2006-10-07 03:20:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is a guy in my office,we both had joined just now, firstly that guy showed so muh of interest in me n now he always talks bout other girls,n dont pay attention towards me he have lot of female friend but when i asked him is he dating some one he said no, he is a popular among galz i get jealous n dont knw what to do ,should i avoid him or what else i should do to teach him a lesson so that he himself will feel my importance,

2006-10-07 03:18:59 · 22 answers · asked by kavya 2

2006-10-07 03:18:48 · 7 answers · asked by Lissa b 1

My ex bf broke up with me after buying me a ring for my birthday a week before. We have not seen each other for 3.5 months and I decided last night to call him after looking at pictures of the good times we shared I ended up leaving a message but he called me back and ended up comming over and things seemed as they were before we brokeup same connection we got along great as we did before breaking up he said he broke up with me because he didn't feel it anymore and he didn't think it was fair to me to keep me in a relationship when he didn't feel it anymore . What do you think I should do. I am personally not ready to start dating again need my space and I know he is not either wants his space also but what do you think the next level our relationship should be?

2006-10-07 03:16:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

more details..um...i'm not good looking, not much experience with girls. usual "anti-stud". she is very very pretty. I dont even know her name, shes never even noticed me. there must be millions out there in the same position......

I reckon even if i did chat to her i could never make it a romantic thing, because i have never done so....end up being friends is not what I want.

2006-10-07 03:16:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, so there is this girl I like... and I've liked her since Kindergarten... and now Im in 7th grade.... We had a dance.... and she was there.. her best friend told me that she liked me soo i asked her and we did slow dance! It was the best night of my life! And she goes to my school so i see her like everyday. I want to go out with her really bad...! I want to ask her but i dont want to end a really good friendship...but i dont want to wait because I know that almost everybody likes her... how do i ask her out without ruining our friendship?? HELP!

2006-10-07 03:14:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend won't listen to me when I tell her this, but I'm afraid she's gonna get hurt. What should I do?

2006-10-07 03:13:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

so my boyfriend is really sweet and i like him but i met this other guy thaat is way cuter and i like him a lot too

2006-10-07 03:12:37 · 11 answers · asked by Ashley 1

everytime i go out with a guy he always calls me first or returns my calls!!!! why do they do this???????

is it so hard to just go out, satisfy my needs and never hear from them again???

2006-10-07 03:11:20 · 12 answers · asked by *JC* 3

I have been talking to Jessica for 3 weeks already. I think she is really attractive. The day before yesterday, I have been caught staring at her then I looked away (I was like 20 feet away from her). I know I probably made her feel uncomfortable. This week, she was rather avoiding me like when I went into the class, she still had her head up (yesterday's incident). Then when I took my seat, then she put her head down. and now today, she sat somewhere else today since someone took her seat. Is it right for me to sit next to her today? How do I start making her feel comfortable talking with me again? I really want a friendship with her. Should I just tell her a coverup on why I was staring at you like "Did you ever got the string that was on your sweater?" but then again, how do I explain her looking back at me and I look away? Hmm. Or should I just tell her the truth like "I find you very attractive. I want to be friends with you and nothing more."

2006-10-07 03:07:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

after a year of having a relationship i have broken up with my ex-g/f just over a month ago but the reason was that she was forced into it by religious parents...the thing is i am not over her yet and i dont think she is over me....my friends say i am desprate as i haven't got over her yet...do u think this is true??? and how long do you think is the average time it takes for a person to get over their ex-partner????

2006-10-07 03:06:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

...unfortunately i smoke, i know it's a bad habit that i need to quit.
yesterday i ran out and bummed 1 off my older brother. He handed me a non-filter and told me to only smoke a little at a time cause they are very expensive, and usually imported via backpack.
It tasted very different compared to the marlboro that i'm use to. after finishing it, i realized i was very hungry, i couldn't stop laughing at everything{although i had no idea what was going on},
and i was starting to feel as though someone had slipped me a viagra or something...had a sudden need for sex !! Do you think this was caused by switching brands.....or was his tobbacco stale ??

2006-10-07 03:06:20 · 14 answers · asked by juslookin 5

A very important question - you never know when this might happen!

2006-10-07 03:06:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

you know what i mean, moisturiser, manicures, those ridiculous boyband hairstyles!!!!!! i swear i am more man than most of them!!

whatever happened to REAL men??? you know, the one's with the stubble, beer in hand, beer gut and shaved heads????

have they all been replaced by Pansies????

2006-10-07 03:02:05 · 14 answers · asked by *JC* 3

whenever i am nervous i fart a lot.(especially around guys) one time, my exboyfriend asked me out again in the mall around ll his friends. i got so nervous, i farted and pretty much the whole mall heard me and stopped whatever they were doing. My exboyfriend made a wierd face at me and walked away. am i still going out with him, should i ask him out?

2006-10-07 03:00:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

We're looking for a flat mate, as we have a really lovely, large room in surrey quays. Its sharing with professionals in their late 20s. Is there anyone out there who could be interested, or know of anyone who could be interested? if so drop me an email and i can send on more information.

cod_father_2004@yahoo.co.uk

2006-10-07 02:58:43 · 4 answers · asked by godfather 2

i am currently with a guy who says he wont press 4 sex and 4 dat i totally repect and trust him..but it sounds 2 good to be true can a guy actually calm his his libido 4 a gal?

2006-10-07 02:57:49 · 12 answers · asked by missthang 2

After telling my best friend I'm in love with him and getting turned down, we are still the closest of friends.

At first I was just glad that he wasn't completely freaked out and horrified. The fact that he wanted to remain close friends was more than I could ever have hoped for. It was a huge gamble, after all.

The problem is, as we continue to spend most of our time together, I'm finding it increasingly painful to cope with the fact that he doesn't return my feelings. I value his friendship so highly- but, the fact is, I am in love with him and it's hurting me a great deal to be around him and have the rejection reinforced on a daily basis.

So I have been trying to ration my time with him. But the problem is that hurts too. So, should I just continue to be a good friend to him and learn to cope with the pain?

2006-10-07 02:57:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with him for 2 years already, and I told him "I love you" but he never said it back, he said he was glad to hear how I feel about him. I am very sure he loves me but he didn't say it. Why is that?

2006-10-07 02:57:25 · 15 answers · asked by Amy T. 1

I have been with him for 2 years already, and I told him "I love you" but he never said it back, he said he was glad to hear how I feel about him. I am very sure he loves me but he didn't say it. Why is that?

2006-10-07 02:57:09 · 6 answers · asked by Amy T. 1

What does he do to signal that he wants to go a step further and make out with you?

2006-10-07 02:55:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think thats true. i mean if some girls kept there panties on longer than half way through the first date, maybe some men would have better respect for women.

honestly, can you blame men for only wanting one thing from some girls? then the girls have the b@lls to post questions on here saying the men don't respect them!!

talk about double standards!

2006-10-07 02:52:25 · 18 answers · asked by *JC* 3

One of the friends that I work is totatlly in love with our boss, she is a black girl, and he is a white guy. She is always telling me that she wants to sleep with a white guy, and asks me if its any good. Well for me it is, but I've never slept with a back guy either, so I don't know what to tell her....What advice can I give her, also how likelt is it that she will get fired if she does sleep with him? She told me that she's already told him that she wants to sleep with a white guy, so maybe it will be ok for her since she still has her job. anyways thanks!

2006-10-07 02:51:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

there was this guy who slept round my mums because hes dad was there.me and this guy had a night of passion and when i look at him some times i get this spark from his eyes and he says hello etc and today i was round my mum my mum went to have a bath and me and my bro was on the playstaition and this guy asked my bro does he know where his shoes was but the thing is his shoes was right in front of him so why did he bother doing that .He know i was upstairs and he was down stairs.Please understand this question my question is do u think he made an excuse to see me ??????? .

2006-10-07 02:51:09 · 11 answers · asked by yates1239 2

Ok, this is about the girl from my last question. I asked her out on sunday and she said she doesnt know if she can go, and she would tell me for sure last night, well she never called. Tonight shes goin to fright night at an amusement park by us and shes goin with a bunch of couples, and her x boyfriend. They went out for like 2 years and broke up like 5 months ago. Me and my friend are gonna go to, and we are gonna go with a couple of other girls, should i try to make her jealous? What should i do?

2006-10-07 02:49:55 · 15 answers · asked by Ant 2

I am 39 years old male and use to hang out with a female friend. We lost touch when I went out of town some time back. I decided to look her up online and found her address. I sent a Mother's Day card around Mother's Day and within a few weeks she called leaving a message on my voicemail. She mentioned that it's been a long time and that we should get together. She also said to call her. I was flattered.....but she didn't leave her number. So I waited several weeks and never heard nothing. I researched again and called her mother's house and left my number. Her mother said that she would give her the number! Again no call! I don't quite understand. Did she lose my number? When her mother took my number, was she lying when she said she will pass it to her? Does she not really want to see me again?

2006-10-07 02:49:03 · 8 answers · asked by Dan M 2