Ok, this is about the girl from my last question. I asked her out on sunday and she said she doesnt know if she can go, and she would tell me for sure last night, well she never called. Tonight shes goin to fright night at an amusement park by us and shes goin with a bunch of couples, and her x boyfriend. They went out for like 2 years and broke up like 5 months ago. Me and my friend are gonna go to, and we are gonna go with a couple of other girls, should i try to make her jealous? What should i do?
2006-10-07 02:49:55 · 15 answers · asked by Ant 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK....
I think that she is taken.....
A relationship that long(2 years) definitely means a lot.....
And if she still keeps contact with him(which she does) means something....That they broke up for something stupid and her pride was not hurt and she still sees a future in that relationship....
That is why she didn't call......Go with your friends and the girls.....Don't try to kiss the other girls in front of her just give her the notice that she is still in your mind but is not irreplaceable.....
Then like it or not she'll get a little bit jealous.....then you should strike.....
Good luck
2006-10-07 02:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by Capricious 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dude, if you really think you like her, why would you even consider playing a game?! If you're ever going to work out with her, you'll have to be honest and that isn't a very good way to start. I hate to break it to you, but she isn't interested, at least right now. (Sounds like the ex is still a big part of her picture, but remember: they datedd for two years and couldn't get things right. This is just a matter of them wanting to rehash what they had and it hardly ever works out. Exs are exs for a reason, ya know!) But have faith. She sounds like she is a girl who concentrates on one guy at a time, which you obviously want in a gf so now you have to figure out how to get her to turn her attention your way. If you are going to see her, don't be a lost puppy around her. Make an effort to talk to her but don't discuss who each of you are there with. It shouldn't concern you. Be cool, but don't be cold. Initiate contact and conversation, but don't smother her (easiest way to push a girl away). Just remember, you can't do anything until she decides she wants to check you out, so try not to take it personally if that takes some time. I know it's cliche, but if it's meant to happen it will, and I am here to tell you, you find the right person when and where you least expect it. So if it's not her, keep your wits about you and if it is her, let go of your expectations of her and try to enjoy the time you get together.
2006-10-07 03:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by randyken 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were in your shoes, I would say to play it safe...It wouldnt hurt to go with another girl, make her jelouse even. The fact that she is going with her ex bf, well then, maybe shes not over him the way you had thought....you never know...all i do know, is that if they dated for 2 yrs, they have most likely been thru ALOT with each other, alot of things that cant be erased over night....so, i say dont give up on her yet, (it too can possible mean they are friends now.) but i say go out with the other girl to the amsument park...make sure you pass right by her, say HI, and keep on doin whatcha doin.... enjoy your day, dont be so focused on her and what shes doing and who shes with... a good way to test her is to make her jelouse...it sounds wrong i know, but hey, its true...
im a girl, and if i was in the girl in your situation, i would def. let you know thru my questions and actions after that day, if im interested in you or not. does that make sense? go on and have a good time, flirt away! ;) why not. everything in life happens for a reason, and there is a somebody for everybody...dont get all broken hearted over someone who may not be YOUR someone in life...have fun and good luck! i rreally hope this helps you hun!
2006-10-07 02:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she didn't say yes straight away or bother to return a phone call, I think she has already given you a strong answer without using words. (actions speak louder than words) She is saying she is not interested so why waste your time trying to make her jealous. You would be better off really making a move on one of the other girls.
2006-10-07 02:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by greeneyedijay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO. Jealousy is a stupid, hurtful, waste of time emotion. There's no sense in trying to make her jealous, she didn't call you, remember? She obviously doesn't want to go out with you cause she's had prior plans. Leave it be, you have a good time with the girl you're bringing, if she sees ya'll together, fine, but I can almost guarantee you're not gonna make her jealous when she'll be there with her ex of two years...
2006-10-07 02:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok, at the beginning you could guy up. in the previous you even think of approximately being with this different woman, (if she'll have you ever) evaluate how your strikes will result all 3 of you. in case you're making a circulate for the pal and if she is any form of pal she is going to tell your female pal and reject your advances. You lose the two one in all them. in case you're a cheater then bypass forward and revel in the mess which you will make.
2016-12-26 11:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by schwager 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is going with her ex i doubt that she would get jealous and if she does she is probably just going to try and make you jealous. Seems like she is not interested or just confused. either way she will come around. It may not be in your favor, but there are plenty more girls in this world.
2006-10-07 02:57:58 · answer #7 · answered by iansbabygirljess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Really....what are you gaining making her jealous? Dude....is she that worth it? If you really want an answer it sounds like this girl didn't want ot hurt your feelings by blowing you off....so she didn't call.....you sound like a really sweet guy but this girl she's just messing with ya! Go out tonight and have fun.....maybe you will see something you never saw in someone before.....take my advise....
2006-10-07 02:54:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't make her jealous. If you ignore her or at least be cold to her, she'll get jealous by herself. You need to use reversed psychology. Girls don't like to be ignored and she either has two choices, next time she'll come onto you or she'll think you're a jerk. And if she thinks that, you might as well forget her, because she ain't worth it.
2006-10-07 02:54:32 · answer #9 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not try to make her jealous. Don't play stupid games. Either she likes you or she doesn't. Do you really want to start a relationship by playing mind games?
2006-10-07 02:54:32 · answer #10 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋