Singles & Dating - 7 October 2006

Sometimes I feel like I have to choose one or the other - maybe it's my upbringing or being in a small town. Growing up, I was strictly the "nice girl" and waited until I was in love to have sex - which was a LONG time. Too long. Few men wanted to date me because I wouldn't have sex right away. Now I regret having waited and feel like I haven't even begun to really explore my sexuality. However, I am now approaching middle age, most men my age are married, and I'm finding fewer and fewer available people I'm actually attracted to. I seem to attract married men & losers. I feel like if I'd started having sex much younger, I'd be married or in a long-term relationship by now. I don't know how to make up for lost time or choices in the past. I feel like I've gone the complete other direction, now all I think about is sex, my morals have loosened, and I just can't find somebody I'm really into, so I'm frustrated. I don't know how to be both "sexy" and "nice" and find the right partner.

2006-10-07 02:17:13 · 17 answers · asked by Sinner & Saint 2

I really like this one guy and I wanna kiss him so bad! I've only known him for 1 1/2 months. Hes so cute. I just wanna run up to him and kiss him! However, I am not dating him. Should I? How should I? When? Where? Ah! Help me, please?

2006-10-07 02:16:46 · 14 answers · asked by Girlie Girl 1

There's this girl at school named Britney(new girl in my Computer Tech Class,boring class) in my 5 th period class. Today i just realized how hot she is,she ended up sitting by me because her computer was bugging out so Ms.E moved her by my computer. We took at test then had time to do what ever the heck we want. So then she checked her email,showed me some pictures of her,and i was like WOW!,the pictures were sooooooooooo hot,she took a pictures of her breasts(with a shirt on u pervert!),and i was like who is that?,She was like "That's me",then i looked and surely it was. Then she took a hot picture were she was laying on the couch in a dress,that was a major turn on for me,she's soooooooooo hot,i want her real bad right about now. We got good chemistry together,no problem talking to her,everything flows smoothly with us,i want her to be my girlfriend. One issue-Don't know how to approach her,help me out with this,give me some ways to approach her

Additional Details

10 hours ago
I always did notice her and kind of admire her,but the pictures brought it to light,no i'm not just out for sex.

10 hours ago
You'll are getting the wrong point. I always have liked her,but now i really like her.

10 hours ago
She didn't just show me hot pics of her,she showed me pics she's never shown anyone,her worst pics in her life she shared with me,i think she obviously likes me.

2006-10-07 02:15:40 · 10 answers · asked by Ramon O 3

2006-10-07 02:14:38 · 52 answers · asked by zanzabarr 2

the friggin elephant man or his sister beside you????

damn those beer goggles who made everyone look like Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie the night before!!!!!

2006-10-07 02:13:14 · 22 answers · asked by *JC* 3

How do you tell a guy that he is your type even though you had told him that he wasn't your type?

2006-10-07 02:12:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not your parents. On the mouth.

2006-10-07 02:10:26 · 23 answers · asked by Lisa V 3

2006-10-07 02:10:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-07 02:08:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean she has generaly good looking feet but if her feet are cooler and soft they are sexier for being cool

I like warming them up against my chest for one thing any other details might be a tad bit risque

2006-10-07 02:08:45 · 3 answers · asked by bolounit1 2

2006-10-07 02:08:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Thers this one girl I go to school and shes sexy as hell,and I asked her out and shes like "Ill see" so then she invites me,to the movies with her and her friends,and then after the movies,were going to borders the bookstore and then we'll be going to the coffee shop.So is this a good way??

2006-10-07 02:04:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

is sex is everything.. or somewhere is love.

2006-10-07 02:03:54 · 6 answers · asked by sahil s 1

A married man I have known for years has teased me many times about getting together for sex (which has never happened) - he'll hint that he wants to, I agree, then nothing. Sometimes he will be very communicative and write explicit e-mails, etc. and seems to enjoy this. Sometimes I don't hear from him, or he won't answer my communications/questions. Sometimes he acts like he really likes me specifically and can't wait to see or be with me (hasn't happened in years). Then I see he's placed an ad on a website for swingers. So he's obviously looking for other people - but not me!? Whenever I try to cut it off and say that we are looking for different things, he seems to get upset because I'm ambivalent and doesn't understand why I don't want to talk to him anymore. In my opinion, you either have an affair or you don't. This is driving me nuts and obviously I need to make a decision. It was fun at first but I'm not getting anything out of it. BUT why would he do this - what's the point?

2006-10-07 02:02:38 · 17 answers · asked by Sinner & Saint 2

hey...well this boy ryan..i love him soooo much but he doesnt want a g/f and stuff cause he likes being singe...and my friends are telling me to try and go for someone else but idk if i should cause i love him cause he is sooo sweet and stuff..but some other people are telling me i should wait on him if i love him.....so what do u think?? i mean cause i think he likes me a little to cause he made up the nickname cupcake at the gibbs games last week and he calls me cupcake and just flirts a whole bunch!!!!

2006-10-07 02:02:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know how I do it. Girls can answer this too, I'm just interested to see what measures people take to meet other people, and start dating and stuff. I realized recently that all my girlfriends, have been someone that I've known for a whlie first. I think that sort of ruins the relationship though, because that means you have to skip over all the getting to know eachother stuff, there's no suspence, I guess, and then you have the same friends and stuff, I'm not sure but I think that method is lame. I don't even live in America anymore, but I'm just wondering what do people do at clubs, like do you seriously approach a stranger and start dancing with them, and not get accused of sexual harrassment? Or...like do people actually use pick up lines? lol just put anything you want relavent to the topic, just curious.

2006-10-07 02:01:54 · 1 answers · asked by mwells0629 1

2006-10-07 01:58:55 · 21 answers · asked by Lisa V 3

he takes me out to nice dinners, movies. he even took me to the mountains to see the stars and the city. he said that he wanted me to know that there are romantic places in real life for people in love to share together ... (not just in the movies) he buys me little gifts. and he spends like a complete whole day with me from like 1 on the afternoon til like12 at night unless i stay and then its like until 11 or 12 the next morning. still just sex?

2006-10-07 01:55:12 · 15 answers · asked by doodlebug 1

ladies do you have one ???what is it and where is it?or where would you and what would it be if you want one?

2006-10-07 01:55:01 · 15 answers · asked by Rooster 3

2006-10-07 01:54:15 · 12 answers · asked by varun k 1

2006-10-07 01:53:39 · 25 answers · asked by KEVIN L 1

i love him so much that i miss him the moment i leave his house or he leaves mine. he loves me back as much as anything, and we both agree that we would get married right now if we could. we've been together four months and we are both only 16 but we love each other and see ourselves growing old together. we both liked one another for twos years before we got together. i cant imagine being with anyone else EVER! i love him heaps...could this be true love? or do i love him unhealthily?

2006-10-07 01:52:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this guy for a year and 2 months ago and he do tell me that he loves me, but then he never tell me anything about marriage, but he said i should not worry that we should be prayn to God for it. Last month he sat me down and tell me that he's not gonna marry me cos' we are not from thesame state and that he is the only son of the family, that only son in their please must not marry from another state.... Please what do you think i should do to him???

2006-10-07 01:51:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everyone of my friends say guys should ask the girl out, which I think its true. But what happens if you really like a guy, and u cant get him to ask u out?!? What do you think of this "guys ask the girls" thing?

2006-10-07 01:48:26 · 19 answers · asked by Girlie Girl 1

I feel so sad and empty all the time recently. I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 months recently, and it was kind of messy, but we are slowly becoming friends again, although he says he still loves me. When i dated my boyfriend, i met his friend, who became an amazing friend of mine. He is hot and a huge flirt however, and loved by the ladies. Recently he told me he has feelings for me,and loves me, although he still likes another girl. Then last night, he blatently flirted in front of my ex, who got angry, then told us all what a great kisser this other girl had been!This annoyed me which makes me realise i'm developing feelings i don't want. I have a guy who loves me though(but who i am not with), and he cares about me, and not other girls, but i'm scared of losing another friend by dating them.However, i'm crying all the time, and i don't want to anymore. I can't take time away from him as we hang about in the same friend group, that's just the way it is.What do

2006-10-07 01:44:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-07 01:43:28 · 14 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4

2006-10-07 01:42:06 · 10 answers · asked by Zebra 2

I like this guy but he is a year younger than me. He dresses punkish. he is sweet, and cute. my sister doesn't like him. She says that I will wind up just hurt. I mean I really like him. i had told him that he isn't my type which isn't true. What should I do? Please ehlp.

2006-10-07 01:40:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you get a guy to like you?

2006-10-07 01:38:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this guy who I like. We talk a lot. Yesterday we were talking and he was like I like someone but it isn't you after I had told him he wasn't my type? Do you think he does like me because guys usually don't say things like that. Please help.

2006-10-07 01:38:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous