Constantly brought down by him?

Question

I feel so sad and empty all the time recently. I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 months recently, and it was kind of messy, but we are slowly becoming friends again, although he says he still loves me. When i dated my boyfriend, i met his friend, who became an amazing friend of mine. He is hot and a huge flirt however, and loved by the ladies. Recently he told me he has feelings for me,and loves me, although he still likes another girl. Then last night, he blatently flirted in front of my ex, who got angry, then told us all what a great kisser this other girl had been!This annoyed me which makes me realise i'm developing feelings i don't want. I have a guy who loves me though(but who i am not with), and he cares about me, and not other girls, but i'm scared of losing another friend by dating them.However, i'm crying all the time, and i don't want to anymore. I can't take time away from him as we hang about in the same friend group, that's just the way it is.What do

Answer 1

You are attracted to the bad boy image. He is a ladies man and knows it. Your ex boyfriend sees what is happening, I'm sure it probably hurts him. The other guy, that is loved by all the ladies, I highly doubt he is in love with you - he's incabable of love (outside of himself). I would suggest that you forget about the ladies man and go after the ex boyfriend if there is still feelings on both parts. Otherwise, consider them both friends and nothing else!

Answer 2

talk to your ex and tell him you have feelings for his friend and not him anymore. tell him "we're just friends, nothing more, nothing less and with that we can date other people." hopefully he'll understan and you can take his friend before another girl steals his heart.