What should I do?

Question

I like this guy but he is a year younger than me. He dresses punkish. he is sweet, and cute. my sister doesn't like him. She says that I will wind up just hurt. I mean I really like him. i had told him that he isn't my type which isn't true. What should I do? Please ehlp.

Answer 1

I agree, reverse the lie... Secondly, who you date has nothing to do with your sister, much like any other of the members of your family. If he is really this likeable, I certainly wouldn't turn him down! ...Alright, I'm done being in this awkward position.

Answer 2

Hang out with him... not a date. Check how he acts w/ u. If hes a jerk, then tell yourself you wont date him. If hes not a jerk and is sweet to u, ask him and ur sister and a few friends to go on a group outing, so she can see how nice he is to u. Then, if he continues to be nice to you AND ur sister (date no guy that disses ur family) go out w/ him.

Answer 3

Tell your sister to read the following...........Then shut up!

JUDGMENT BASED ON LOOKS PROVES LATER TO BE WRONG

DEAR ABBY: I recently learned a lesson about not judging a book by its cover. A young man and his divorced mother moved into our quiet neighborhood of mostly retirees and young couples who have not yet started families. When we first laid eyes on the young man, we saw a guy with shoulder-length hair dressed all in black -- complete with black fingernail polish and black eyeliner. Everyone thought the worst: "Oh, no! A heathen devil-worshipper!" A few months later, he presented himself in ragged jeans, a flannel shirt, his head completely shaved. Again we thought the worst: "He's turned into one of those neo-Nazi skinheads!"
I later learned from his mother that her son is a sociology major at a university about 200 miles from here. (He had to evacuate during Hurricane Katrina as a large portion of the campus was destroyed.) The black attire we first saw was for a costume party he was attending that evening. He grows his hair long to donate to Locks of Love, which uses it to make wigs for cancer patients who have lost their hair during chemo, hence the shaved head.

He spends his summers working with groups going to underprivileged countries to teach the children to read and write. He also goes with Doctors Without Borders to help inoculate people who have never had the basic childhood vaccinations against rubella, tetanus, etc.

I feel completely ashamed of myself for forming such an opinion about this wonderful young person simply from his appearance at a distance. I have since gotten to know him during his weekend visits home to see his mother and have discovered what an intelligent, compassionate, giving individual he is, and I am honored to have him as a neighbor.

Answer 4

reverse the lie first of all. talk to him and tel him how you feel. tell him your sis thinks you'll end up hurt and that you want to know how he'd treat you . if it sounds good tell your sis. then take it from there!!

Answer 5

You like what you like & you can't date someone cause of your sister or friends. Then they will be happy & you will miserable.

Answer 6

Do what you feel is right, not what your sister thinks you should do.

Answer 7

well express your feeling when you get around himor just say how u feel sooner or later he will get the memo

Answer 8

dunno