I have been talking to Jessica for 3 weeks already. I think she is really attractive. The day before yesterday, I have been caught staring at her then I looked away (I was like 20 feet away from her). I know I probably made her feel uncomfortable. This week, she was rather avoiding me like when I went into the class, she still had her head up (yesterday's incident). Then when I took my seat, then she put her head down. and now today, she sat somewhere else today since someone took her seat. Is it right for me to sit next to her today? How do I start making her feel comfortable talking with me again? I really want a friendship with her. Should I just tell her a coverup on why I was staring at you like "Did you ever got the string that was on your sweater?" but then again, how do I explain her looking back at me and I look away? Hmm. Or should I just tell her the truth like "I find you very attractive. I want to be friends with you and nothing more."
2006-10-07 03:07:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just talk to her and do not tell her she is attractive. Just do it, do not think about it, the more you think about it, the more nervous you get.
2006-10-07 16:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is too long to read, and you have given too much personal detail. I can say this if someone likes you they say yes if someone doesn't like you they say no or avoid you. You don't have to be a rocket scientist to work it out. Learn to read body language and you wouldn't make up such a huge drama from such a little incident.
2006-10-07 10:13:42 · answer #2 · answered by greeneyedijay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to her and be like wanna hang sometime like go to like a movie or something and dont say just to be friends cause when most guys say that what they mean is "hey your hot i wanna get in your pants!" lol! good luck! Hey maybe she is shy because she thinks your hot!
2006-10-07 10:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you cant just keep going in the direction you're going in, but you dont want to seem like a perv. so, find a way to become partners with her on a project or something and find out what she likes. even if you dont like what she likes, it still helps in any relationshp whether its a friendship or not.
-benji out
2006-10-07 11:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by mariah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop thinking for so long about what to do. If she is avoiding you, either stay away or politely greet her. Then move on to greener pastures.
2006-10-07 10:12:56 · answer #5 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R u a Q? stalker.
I'm starting to think that u r actually stalking this girl.
2006-10-07 10:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. that is the only way you will solve your problem!
2006-10-07 10:12:42 · answer #7 · answered by iansbabygirljess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth....
2006-10-07 10:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by tonima 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋