My wife used to have the sexiest, smooth, flat belly. Now after 2 kids, her belly is kind of loose, full of stretch marks, and truthfully kind of gross. I find myself looking at all the younger women at the beach with the tight, smooth, flat bellies. I know time marches on, but I still have a nice body. I want to run my hands over a smooth, flat belly again. Should I just suck it up and realize that my swinging single days are over?
2006-10-07 03:23:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, my libido hasn't changed since I was 18. I still jack off at least once a day.
2006-10-07 03:28:54 · update #1
I tried to get her to work out once and she immediately accused me of being turned off by her body and getting all depressed to the point where I never bring it up anymore.
2006-10-07 03:31:50 · update #2
Your a married man, grow up. It's not all about that "sexy" body. How would you feel when your wife just doesn't love you anymore. She doesn't have that feel for you anymore and just can't feel the love. Your days are over man. Life goes on and it's not all about women. Remember, you have a loving wife and two beautiful children, don't ruin it by cheating on your wife! It's just a flat belly! You just never had children, so you don't even understand.
2006-10-07 03:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by shewolf2899 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you are a guy,just being a guy.My wife and I had a similar problem.Only,I was the one out of shape(sorta still am,not as bad though)anyways,she liked it when my stomach was flat,and muscular.It went south for a few good years of Miller Genuine.Now I am getting back on track,and she likes it,because she knows I feel a lot better being thin,and not looking like Santa!
2006-10-07 10:29:51 · answer #2 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your wife interested in salsa dancing or bellydancing. Sign the BOTH of you up for a class and practice at home. Eventually she will get her figure back. She might not have time to exercise when she is watching the kids, but you two do it together she will more inclicned.
2006-10-07 10:27:53 · answer #3 · answered by kevsnow00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could suck it up or you could maybe say something to your wife about going to a gym together. That might motivate both of you if you are possibly out of shape too in some places. Going together will make it more fun and you might get a great body afterwards.
2006-10-07 10:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your very shallow, thats your wife! She gave you 3 kids! What do you expect her to look like idiot..... Be happy thats shes happy in her own skin and not going out and screwed herself up majorly with plastic surgery! Its becuase of people like you women have to be in such a strick image! Im 125 pounds and im considered fat! Its becuase of people like you many women and girls are starving themselves to feel 'good enough' so next time you say something as horrible remember every action has a reaction
2006-10-07 10:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a way u are shallow! but y give up ur wife just because her stomach isnt flat anymore! goodness and freakin 14 yr old has to tell u this!
2006-10-07 10:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by hi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about the degeneration in your own body due to age ? Are u the same youngster u were earlier ? can U always RISE to the occasion ?
2006-10-07 10:27:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife went through thick and thin for u m8. Its time to wake up, age never left anyone behind.
2006-10-07 10:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by spatz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't really blame you, you're a a guy....a pervert who checks out younger girls....no different from 99% of other guys out there
2006-10-07 11:38:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep...unless you wanna pay child support and rarely see your kids.... maybe you can get the wife to work out with you....don't let her know you are just trying to get the old her back though....
2006-10-07 10:28:53 · answer #10 · answered by curious dad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋