there is a guy in my office,we both had joined just now, firstly that guy showed so muh of interest in me n now he always talks bout other girls,n dont pay attention towards me he have lot of female friend but when i asked him is he dating some one he said no, he is a popular among galz i get jealous n dont knw what to do ,should i avoid him or what else i should do to teach him a lesson so that he himself will feel my importance,
2006-10-07 03:18:59 · 22 answers · asked by kavya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's a playa. Way out of your league.
2006-10-07 03:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the best advice I could give you would be to just be up front with him. Let him know how you feel about him. It sometimes takes a while for us guys to understand what's going on even when u put a sign right in our face. you have to just tell him that you like him and that it makes you uncomfortable when he talks about other girls in front of you. I know you're probably thinking you cant do that, but the next piece of advice I'm gonna give you is to go after what you want cause you might regret it later.
2006-10-07 10:25:05 · answer #2 · answered by Doc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all this guy owes you nothing. Why do women always think a single guy has to like them? He is not dating anyone and when he choses to, it doesn't have to be you. What do you mean by " teaching him a lesson ". You sound sooooo creppy !!!
Leave him alone! He was simply trying to be nice when he first met you and that is that. If you get jealous when he talks to or about other women that is your issue. LEAVE HIM THE HELL ALONE. U CREEPY CHICK!!!
2006-10-07 10:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by Chula 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to avoid this popular guy. He could have a lot of girls liking him, but doesn't mean he likes them back. I get jealous because well...he doesn't have any girls around him, but his friends do and he's around, I totally get jealous, don't ask me why. But the point it, avoiding him isn't neccessary. Maybe ask him on a date- popular guys can be shy too you know. Maybe to a dinner to talk about stuff other than work!
~Rose~
2006-10-07 10:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by shewolf2899 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you get a job and worry about the guy in your oiffce not your work and yet you wonder why you may befired !?!
how bout you wory more about your work and performance there and less about some guy you just meet at the office .
I am sure your boss would think of you if you worried more on work issues not being liked by a guy there.
2006-10-07 10:27:06 · answer #5 · answered by Glenn T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be your self. If other girls want to flirt with him, let them. You just dont flirt... make him feel like he has to chase you.
Guys like that. <3
When its your birthday let him know some how. And if he really likes you he might buy you flowers or chocolate, or maybe if you lucky a date! But if he only says " Happy birthday" you'll know he is not to interested. I hope i helped some what!!
2006-10-07 10:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember one rule of thumb, never get involved with anyone at work, it always ends up, as someone has to leave. What is wrong with just being a friend?
2006-10-07 10:25:06 · answer #7 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have guys come visit u at ur office,or haev someone send u flowers to ur office
2006-10-07 10:22:54 · answer #8 · answered by one tuff babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
2006-10-07 10:20:25 · answer #9 · answered by depp 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont kno. but i have a friend who is just like that and hes a huge flirt just dont worry bout it thats just the way he is
2006-10-07 10:21:26 · answer #10 · answered by hi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋