This guy ask for a third date. He makes it clear that he wants to kiss me and feel me and that it is just a fling. I say yes to him and so he has got wine for our date. Now i am worry, because i don't want to lost my first time to someone who doesn't like me for true. But i like him and i miss his closeness. should i just go silent or should i still go his place, give him a great body massage instead of giving him my body? i got drunk easily and i worry he would force me to give myself to him...
2006-10-07 03:20:49 · 14 answers · asked by miserable 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it won't be bad.........tell him you feel it's juss a fling & if he says, it's not, look at him, make positive he's not lying you've gotta know for sure!!!!!! If you don't want to....don't get drunk pretend like your drinking it. Then go 2 his kitchen like you gotta get something & act like you already had drank it. If he's really interested, he won't force you into something you don't wanna do cuz, he'll wanna keep you. But if he forces you....TRUST me you can do so much better. GooD LucK
2006-10-07 03:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Dear, your question is a complicated one, First, you said he asked for a third date, that means you both have been dating? what happened in the first and the second date? is he a nice guy? or does he bite (Harsh), you alone knows the truth there.
Secondly, you said he made it clear to you that he will kiss you and feel you (Sex) and you said yes? Thirdly you said you got drunk easily and he got wine for your date? Fourtly you like him and want to be close to him always and lastly, you are afriad of giving him your body.
My dear, what i understand there is that you really like this guy but he is a bad guy, he doesnt like you but he only wants to get down with you always, my dear, have you asked yourself of what you want from him if you want LOVE or LIKE or HATE or MONEY? If you have, your heart will tell you what you will do next but as for being LATE TO CHANGE YOUR MIND cos you dont want to give him your body? YES.
But if being LATE TO CHANGE YOUR MIND cos you want to make the right choice? NO
If he is a nice guy, you two still have to talk about it for a change cos communication matter alot in every relationship.
So be wise Girl and take a bold step today
Good luck.
2006-10-07 10:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by ANGEL Z 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
wait for yourself.. love yourself right? then regret will be a long haul your going to have to carry for the rest of your life with this guy...of course unless you have a car accident and get amnesia and forget everything..
what seems like sweet juicy candy right now you just have to lick....once you lick and bite.. whats left? a plain old plastic sad stick.
2006-10-07 10:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
DON`T GO.If you go you are saying yes as he has told you why he wants you to go. But don`t be a tease you either go there for the sex or not at all.
2006-10-07 10:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's not too late to change your mind,dont feel pressured into doing anything you dont want to.
2006-10-07 10:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by fairyb04 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
this is simple. find another date. you shouldn't continue to date those that don't respect you. or those that you are unsure of their respect. if they truly care for you, then you will know it because you will never consider such questions.
2006-10-07 10:26:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
call him,get out of it,it is never too late to back out on something so important
2006-10-07 10:24:39 · answer #7 · answered by granny 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
go with your heart, you'll know in a short period of time if it's the right thing to do
2006-10-07 10:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by blackratsnake 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Change your mind NOW you will be sorry later trust me
2006-10-07 10:24:15 · answer #9 · answered by spatz 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well then dont drink that much! and dont give it to him if u dont kno 4 sure if he loves u the way u love him
2006-10-07 10:25:16 · answer #10 · answered by hi 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋