Singles & Dating - 7 October 2006

My gf and I went to have sex for first time last nite. First I couldnt fit the condom on so we went to do it without but it just dont fit inside. Its my first time and her 5th. Help! shes just over 5ft and petite but she is 4 years older than me so got more experience but she doesnt know what to do either. Its 8inches long but the prob i think is the width, its 6.5 inches around. I feel i mite lose her if we cant do it.

2006-10-07 21:26:41 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I talked to a guy I've been seeing on Friday and we made plans to go out the next night. He said he would be here after he got off work. I got ready and he didn't call so after an hour I called him to find out what was going on. He answered and said he was still at work and then he suddenly sounded upset and said I could go to his work place and see for myself. My defenses went up and I told him forget it, I don't keep tabs on people and I'm not going to his work place, was just wondering about us going out and sorry I bothered him. Then he said he's sorry, I'm no bother etc. etc. and how he wants to see me tomorrow night and he'll call. I had the attitude of "yeah ok, whatever" and told him I have to go now and hung up. Not sure what to do or say if he does call.

2006-10-07 21:24:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

unfortunately, i have palmer hyperhidrosis.. and for those of you who don't know what it means, its just excessive sweating.. on the HANDS. sometimes my hands are dry too.. but other than that.. its so difficult to work with.. the papers i write on get crinkly.. and im just mostly upset because i won't be able to hold hands with anybody when the time comes.. how is it with you guys and holding hands? are your hands sweaty? always dry? do guys mind sweaty hands? like sometimes really sweaty.. =\ please tell me because its always bothering me so much. oh and please tell me if you have sweaty palms too!!!

2006-10-07 21:23:53 · 6 answers · asked by indecisive 6

had a car and loved that car.drove it around everyday.But then slowly stop driving it.Then sold the car.But the care turned out to be worth alot of money>would you want the car back because it is worth alot of money or would you want the car because you missed driving it.

2006-10-07 21:23:36 · 12 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3

To be honest I'm am starting to question why everyone seems to waste some (if not most) of their time looking and crying over the fact that they don't have that special someone. I don't understand why exactly most people seem to do this, is it honestly a defect of humans, or what society does to us (making us forget to be alone?). I've actually did a little research (view the question below), personally I think I've pretty much proven that the old saying "there is someone for everyone " is just a bunch of ****.

I wont lie, I tend to do this to sometimes, but I'm doing my best to stop those urges and feelings, and focus them on better things, such as wealth, power, and my life's work. The question is simple Why does everyone waste their time looking for love?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmzzOEQxGEw98.CWfSnK4crsy6IX?qid=20061006194854AAndXaW

2006-10-07 21:22:20 · 9 answers · asked by D 4

do blondes really have more fun??

2006-10-07 21:19:59 · 4 answers · asked by Traynor 3

So I have been having feelings for this guy for the last 3 months, and they have been building, but I saw him yesterday at a concert with a girlfriend whom he was very affectionate with. I no longer feel safe allowing my feelings for him to build, nor do I understand why he didn't tell about his GF before. I think he is partially a private person, but also, it is obvious that he has gone out of the way to leave her out of the picture. Also, I thought that he has been flirting with me, but he also seems to have a bit of guilt, so maybe he is just trying to make everyone happy. I wish I knew the answers to all of these questions and could let go of them, but I don't know if I am really prepared to fold on the game. In a sense, I believe that by just telling him about my feelings when he is clearly not in a space to reciprocate them with any conviction is going to end the game, but also, keeping silent and playing chmaber music with him will prolong the process and uncertainty.

2006-10-07 21:19:32 · 5 answers · asked by calliope 1

or does it just not matter ?

2006-10-07 21:18:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyrfiend and I just got back today from a 4 day vacation spending 24/7 together, tonight I was going to sleep at his apt. but when I was there his downstairs neighbor decided to play loud music and be loud and drunk with some people so I couldn't sleep. By 3 am I asked my boyfriend to just call this guy throwing the party and to maybe quiet down considering the time. He said he wouldn't because he didn't want to have a bad realtionship with his neighbor. So I am pissed and tired and can't sleep and my bf doesnt seem to care so I just keep doing childish things to make sure he can't sleep either. Well anyway it escalated to where I was gathering ALL of my stuff and demanding a check for his half of the CC bill for our vacation. He said he wasn't going to write it yet and that he would mail it to me and just to piss him off before I was leaving I picked up his electric guitar and told him I was taking it for collateral, he freaked and said he was going to choke me if I did (cont)

2006-10-07 21:15:57 · 12 answers · asked by sleep2dream65 2

just broke up.. but we still love each other she's trying to convince me not to leave everytime we are together...So I've given her about 5 days to come to terms with it... I dont wanna be in this relationship and she wont let me bring anyone to help me.. just me.... PLEASE HELP....

2006-10-07 21:14:54 · 8 answers · asked by scoutathand 1

Im almost 44 and have been dating a long time but im in despair because I cant keep the girls I fancy but cant change who I fancy and learn to love somebody i dont fancy. Im not a perfectionist either. Time is running out as im getting older and dont want to be single for ever. Am I stuck? Can I change who im naturally attracted to?

2006-10-07 21:14:12 · 9 answers · asked by Bengt L 1

if u read my post that i posted like 3 times u should know whats going on with me... i know this gurl for 2 years and we've been friend u know like jokeing around and stuff. for the past 3 weeks we've been flirting and huging and also careing for one another and that happen for 2 or 1 weeks. then we started dating. i still like this girl alot.. but somehow i kinda lost interest of her, but just a little bit. last time when we dated last week, i was like so desperate of her and she was to me.. well anyways i still like this girl and i still care for her. what should i do, i don;t want to break up with her.. is there anything i can do to get the sparks back or what. and also how would u feel or think if the person that u are dating tells you that shes not a virgin anymore??

2006-10-07 21:13:09 · 1 answers · asked by mike s 2

2006-10-07 21:06:22 · 10 answers · asked by Dhruv Vanka 1

2006-10-07 21:06:21 · 2 answers · asked by mady 1

Okay, your right, I am not being specific enough. I had two other questions about this. People werent being specific enough for me though. I need help with talking to this girl. Read below. I added some stuff. Thanx. pLEASE, IM ASKING ONE MORE TIME FOR HELP ON ASKING OUT THIS PERFECT GIRL. eVEN IF SHE REALLY is a fantasy girl that I have made her to be. I am 13, she is 13, her b-day is march 7, 93, and mine is march 28, 93, we go to the same school, are in none of the same classes except for lunch & reccess, and have been friends since kindergarden. ACTUALLY, we hardly talk anymore. After second or third grade, she got new friends and I kinda gave up. It was to hard giving up loving her though. You cant just, stop loving someone. I love her even more than I used to. Before, it was just a little "kiddy crush". I cant even describe how much I love her. We are in eighth grade now. Someone, please help me!

2006-10-07 21:06:07 · 14 answers · asked by Jake M 1

i've steadily dated this guy for 4months but he got jealous with my girlfriends so he decided to just 'dump' me. i've moved on and its been more than a month since the dumping happened and for the past month, i can't understand why he's now befriending the people close to me (we work in the same building so we see each other practically every day). he asks my friends how i was doing and all and he also tell my friends that he's now seeing another girl, etc...do you think he still feels something for me? or he's just being bitter about what happened between us?

2006-10-07 21:04:39 · 6 answers · asked by bloss_83 2

This is a fictional story, but for many other people it may be true, and they may be scared to speak out. I hope that these answers will be supportive and comforting. WARNING - This may be a disturing story, please do not report me, this is meant only for others to realilize what can happen at parties.

I was at a party that my a guy I kind of knew invited me to. When I went there, he and his friends offered me a beer and I took it, wanting to be polite. Later I found that they had slipped Ecstasy into it. Pretty soon I was sitting on this guys la[/ Then he and 5 other guys look off all my clothes, dragged me ino the bedroom and raped me. Then another guy raped me. One guy didn't wear a condom and ejaculated all over my viginal area. After that he carried me into the kitchen and put a beer bottle inside of me, and took pictures.

2006-10-07 20:58:05 · 14 answers · asked by Lisa V 3

Theres this guy I like, he flirts with me, but hes a guy, and not a shy one at that. So is there some sort of way I can find out if he likes me?

2006-10-07 20:56:11 · 10 answers · asked by furyfluf 1

That Got the music to a song.wrote lyrics in six minutes.recorded it the next morning and within a couple months it will be released to the world.Would you be proud to know a guy like that.well I did it.the song is called"lost in a world of tears" and the crazy thing about it.it sounds like Jim morrison wrote it and sang it.Will Bitmore Scram.Why then Do people still act jealous of me.I already told them that they can keep the money from my books.I do not understand.

2006-10-07 20:56:03 · 2 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3

I'm 6 feet tall and weigh 350lbs. I don't like how I look because of the fact that most women I know only hang out with me because they know they will never ever have any other type of relationship with me. It really sucks sometimes. My last relationship ended pretty badly but it was because she cheated on me. Take a look at my picture and you tell me what you think. Girls only please, thanks.
http://allyoucanupload.webshots.com/v/2003877656186922611
http://allyoucanupload.webshots.com/v/2000830132341087019
If anything, hit me up on Myspace at
http://www.myspace.com/kozdadj
By the way, I do exercise. I work in a building with 38 floors as a security guard and I usually patrol all three stairways. At my job, I work more than anybody. I do no less than 80 hour a week. In other words, I rarely eat because I sleep during the day and work mostly nights. The only place, in Downtown Boston that is open, is 711. I don't want to eat that crap.

2006-10-07 20:53:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

m 16 and almost turning17, and i know this girl for 2 years in my school. we talk and entertain each other.. but now its like different,, we started likeing each other for the past 2 weeks and were dating right now but somehow im kinda loosing interest of her.. its not like i don't like her, cuz i stil do, it just feels uninteresting.. its like so odd becuase last week or two i was like so desperate of her and i wanted to kiss her and hug her.. but like rigt now its different well not that different, i still want to do that, but not as much as i wanted it last time.. i want to make our relationship last longer.. any suggestion what i should do.. and any comment to tell me what the heck is going on, is this like normal or something...can kissing her on the lips make a difference >> pls help.. i posted this like 3 times now and i need suggestion and commnents from people experiences..

2006-10-07 20:52:54 · 3 answers · asked by mike s 2

My twin brother is taller apparently sexier imshorter and fatter and less confident, We always fancy the same girls but thay seem to go for him and not me. The only girls that fancy me I cant make myself love. Is there any way I can change that as im a bit depressed?

2006-10-07 20:50:57 · 13 answers · asked by Charlie N 1

2006-10-07 20:48:32 · 17 answers · asked by Melbourne Gal 2

i'm a bit on the fat side... so i was wondering whether it affects guy's views on not liking me because i'm fat?

2006-10-07 20:45:20 · 12 answers · asked by Spidergurl 4

sometimes i see girls with very long jet black and very fair/pale looking scary ... they look like ghost.. i nearly had a heart attack when i saw this gerl in the toilet stroking her hair staring in the mirror... the other time was another gerl standing in the middle of the road(middle paveway)traffic was heavy and she was playing with her hairrr. spooky man!

2006-10-07 20:43:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-07 20:42:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-07 20:34:31 · 14 answers · asked by RAVEN 2

im a handsome(so girls tell me), im fun to be with, and my personality is great(so girls tell me), why the hell cant i have a relationship, ive talked to so many girls, but its like... I NEVER CAN HAVE A RELATIONSHIP EVEN THOUGH I WANT ONE SO BAD!? WTF IS WRONG WITH ME???

2006-10-07 20:32:19 · 17 answers · asked by balanced112 2

2006-10-07 20:30:00 · 11 answers · asked by Aroon 1

Is this an instant turn off?

2006-10-07 20:29:00 · 18 answers · asked by hugh_cheung 2