I talked to a guy I've been seeing on Friday and we made plans to go out the next night. He said he would be here after he got off work. I got ready and he didn't call so after an hour I called him to find out what was going on. He answered and said he was still at work and then he suddenly sounded upset and said I could go to his work place and see for myself. My defenses went up and I told him forget it, I don't keep tabs on people and I'm not going to his work place, was just wondering about us going out and sorry I bothered him. Then he said he's sorry, I'm no bother etc. etc. and how he wants to see me tomorrow night and he'll call. I had the attitude of "yeah ok, whatever" and told him I have to go now and hung up. Not sure what to do or say if he does call.
2006-10-07 21:24:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Basically, if you've been seeing him for a while then you should give him another chance. Women get defended easily and therefore become offensive putting their emotions first. Just go ahead and give him his chance and if he messes up then that's on him. If there is no response by tomorrow then definately give him a call and try and talk about it... and if he has nothing to say then sweety, don't waste you're time.
2006-10-07 21:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by think_tink86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't feel you did anything wrong and you handled it quit well. He should of called you to inform you of his working later than expected and he should not of been surprised to have received a call from you. Since this sounds like the first time it's happened I would say over look it and don't worry about saying anything when you guys do meet, but if it starts to be a habit of no call, no show, I would carefully consider the fact he may just be inconsiderate. I hope all works out for you.
2006-10-07 21:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by softlyinspired 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on the opportunity of sounding facetious, I remorseful about no longer some thing. there are a variety of of issues i'd have performed extra perfect, and many options I truly have made that grew to develop into out to be in simple terms undeniable incorrect. yet i do no longer remorseful about some thing as each and every of those bring about an journey that i don't have in the different case had, and a knowledge i don't have in the different case discovered
2016-12-04 09:49:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he should have called you as soon as he found out that he would not be able to be at your place when he said he was. You should keep it cool and let him know that next time he better let you know or there will be no more next times. Don't worry about what you said, it was his mistake in failure to communicate.
2006-10-07 21:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by Yaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a taste of the future. it's good that you found out how he handles pressure and stress now. If you can deal with this guy's personality and whatever comes along with it, then go for it. if not then forget him
2006-10-07 21:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait it out and see if he calls. If so, move on with him. If not, move on without him. I suppose you could wait a day and call with a quick apology for calling too soon and leave it at that.
2006-10-07 21:28:39 · answer #6 · answered by Robert B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see thats what happens when we react to something too fast without thinking....anyways don't worry about what to do or to say...i wouldnt even bring it up if i was you....because i'm pretty sure he already knows why you had an attitude....he wants to make it up to you...so just get over it...if he calls dont be nervous...just be yourself...hope this helps.
2006-10-07 21:42:34 · answer #7 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For how long you know him. I think this is the begining of your friendship. Don't get disheart and wait for his call.
2006-10-07 21:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't regret it. You shouldn't even apologive since you didn't do anything wrong really.He deserved your "Yeah ok, whatever".
2006-10-07 21:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he owes you one, so whatever he has planned for your date he better make it worth your while.
2006-10-07 21:27:16 · answer #10 · answered by justdennis 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋