im a handsome(so girls tell me), im fun to be with, and my personality is great(so girls tell me), why the hell cant i have a relationship, ive talked to so many girls, but its like... I NEVER CAN HAVE A RELATIONSHIP EVEN THOUGH I WANT ONE SO BAD!? WTF IS WRONG WITH ME???
2006-10-07 20:32:19 · 17 answers · asked by balanced112 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanx for ur tips, and i would like to add that im thinking that its my fault, maybe im the cause of girls not wanting a relationship, my last relationship, i did everything for the girl, i took her out on numerous dates, gave her poems, went to the beach, u name it, and the relationship ended suddenly, its like im plagued with a curse or something.
2006-10-07 20:37:56 · update #1
desperation is the last thing i am, as in when im with a girl, im just myself, and they know im not in a rush for a relationship or desperate, maybe i should be? then it would send off the right message
2006-10-07 20:39:51 · update #2
i go out with girls all the time, to the movies, to play sports, to do everything, im the one always planning, but thats exactly my point, we have good time then we go home, then i see them the next day, and i mean things are good but its just not relationship im feeling, they like me and i like em, we go out, its all good, see my point everything works out fine, but the relationship part is never there?
2006-10-07 20:42:19 · update #3
Sometimes the one thing we are looking for is under our noses!
Relax enjoy the good times. When it happens it will happen.
Maybe your not as ready as you think. Others may percieve you as a player and in turn maybe you act like one.
Alls i want is a normal guy, can i find one.. Nope
Most of them are tied to their mothers aprons strings. Even the high flyers.
I want a bf. I dont want to be their mother.
Best of luck
x
2006-10-08 03:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As per my understanding, you think you are a different guy and a face in the crowd. No, I am not saying that (so girls tell me). You have a notion in ur head that you are a cut above the rest; u look different, u have a different style, u think different. And so you need a DIFFERENT type of girl. Am I right?
Now, hear the reality.
Deep down everyone feels they are great and a cut above the rest. Such (many people) find it difficult finding a partner for themselves. Either they are too observant or tend to overlook the goodness of others, which they hide behind their larger than life esteem. ( I am also one of them...may be)
What u must do is...think plain..think simple and you will feel every girl is ur type and u can have a good chemistry with anyone. You want a relationship, yet living in denial. So, dont wait, look around, feel good, feel compatible and u shall have someone soon. Best of Luck.
2006-10-07 20:46:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are every girls friend and no girl wants to share you with all the other girls. Try to focus on just one girl. Don't smother her, but let her know that you are interested in haveing a relationship.
Maybe you are just 12 years old or maybe you are 97 years old and there just aren't woman out there like you would like to be with or visa versa.
Patience Perservence Positive Personality
2006-10-07 20:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is obvious you are trying so hard. Women smell desperation a mile a way. Why don't you just enjoy being yourself if you are such a wonderful catch and let it happen naturally. The less you care about trying the more attractive you are to women, trust me. Doesn't mean you have to be a jerk, just be natural.
2006-10-07 20:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by fortuitousoppty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats your age? When guys are young, women usually like the guys if they are pigs. If your upstanding and respectable they come around in about 10 years
2006-10-07 20:40:04 · answer #5 · answered by baddaboombaddabing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could b stuck in the "just a friend" cycle .. ITS VICIOUS!!! i have so many guy friends like u .. good looking, sweet, smart, funny, etc etc ... but for some reason, no interest or chemistry! i dont know what to say to u other than that u will find someone someday ... dont b discouraged!
2006-10-07 20:35:10 · answer #6 · answered by Gahhhhhh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont look for love let love find you.i have the same problem i do have relationships which sum times only last an hr or a day sad i no.theres nothing wrong with you.
2006-10-07 20:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by jad123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're either gay or these girls are trying to tell you that you suck and need some work.
Ask some chicks out and take a chill pill.
2006-10-07 20:40:54 · answer #8 · answered by ModerndayMadman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you shy? How's your confidence? Are you "too cool"? Act too distant and casual? Don't be afraid to talk to women you are interested in! Ask them what they're into. What happens when you ask them out? You DO ask don't you?!
2006-10-07 20:38:11 · answer #9 · answered by RAVEN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that there is anything wrong with you, it might be that you need to find some different women to be around. im sure you are a treasure to be discovered and cherished.
2006-10-07 20:34:26 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋