i'm a bit on the fat side... so i was wondering whether it affects guy's views on not liking me because i'm fat?
2006-10-07 20:45:20 · 12 answers · asked by Spidergurl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some it might, some it may make like you more. Society being what it is it is difficult for people that are attracted to certain bady types to admit to it. There are guys out ther that are looking for a girl with a little meat on her, but society being what it is, they may not be willing to act on it...besides, some people aren't as hung up on appearances as you might think. The main reason that people make such an issue about others is becasue they haven't truly accepted themselves. Fat? Skinny? What does it really matter. If someone is going to be put off by that sort of thing when htey themselves arent' all that to begin with, then who needs them. I'm a guy and a girl being heavy has never been a deterent for me....it's all about personality anyway. The physical can be altered fairly eaisly, who and what you are is ultimately what will be the decding factor for anyone worth having.
2006-10-07 20:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by kveldulfgondlir 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
not love they lust nicer bodies
love comes with time and getting to know the inside person. no matter what they tell you at first everyting is about looks. that is what attracts people to each other because at first that is all you have. You don't know the person or how good or bad they are you go by, do their looks interest you or not. in some cases they are willing to be friends but find out in the long term that the person is someone they like for being themselfs. In the short term it will effect you sorry.
2006-10-07 20:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
surely a guy will love u as much as u can imagine. Love does not see if u are on the fatter side or the slimmer. He, who would love u, will love u the way u are.So, just take a chill pill...
But yes, guys like when their partner has a great body. Its only when they feel lusty that they see what a womans bod is like. But the one who loves u, will ignore this and love ur fatness too...
2006-10-07 20:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the right one comes along, that won't be a concern, believe me. Beauty is always in the eye of the beholder. Ask yourself the question, do we dislike fat guys? I believe, it can go both ways.
2006-10-07 20:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats candy.... i'm a advantageous stable female..and in case you will possibly are becoming me pregnant and then tried to get me to have an abortion..i might have achieved a knee drop on on your guy junk so confusing you will possibly in no way have the skill to impregnate a woman back...and then might have sued ur @ss for childsupport whilst the toddler replaced into born. XD oh wait.. sorry... forgot... Im not advantageous.
2016-10-19 00:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the eyes of the beholder. Some women are very attractive with extra weight, and your personality plays a big part, especially how you carry yourself.
2006-10-07 20:48:47 · answer #6 · answered by fortuitousoppty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A nice body is good to look at , HOWEVER, I would rather date someone that makes me laugh and someone who makes me comfortable that a stuck up B***H that has the personality of a rock.
2006-10-07 20:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by alig8or_1965 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if they look healthy, that's a green flag that they are willing to spend effort taking care of themselves. Get some exercise.
2006-10-07 20:51:15 · answer #8 · answered by Robert B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it depends on the kind of guy you're going after. And on your personality.
2006-10-07 20:51:32 · answer #9 · answered by Blue Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Make sure your happy with yourself. If your postive it rubs off on the people around you.
2006-10-07 21:58:39 · answer #10 · answered by foghat77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋