Singles & Dating - 26 September 2006

We are an older (me 42, him 45) couple, and love each other very much. I believe him when he tells me this. But I think I am so much in love right now, it's bordering on obsession, and I don't want to chase him away. I am giddy, like a teenager when I'm with him. When I'm not, I scrutinize everything he does and says and wonder about what he's doing.
He's a great guy and I don't want to lose him. How do I stop being so suffocating to him?

2006-09-26 06:15:52 · 20 answers · asked by deb 4

I met this girl once on a trip and we talked for a bit. When I came back I added her on my MSN list. This was back in Dec/Jan. I msg'd her a few times, and whenever I did, we'd have decent enough conversations and chilled. But by February I went a couple of weeks without msg'ing her to see if she'd msg me and she never did, so I deleted her contact.

I saw her again at a wedding this July, but didn't get a chance to speak to her. I re-added her on MSN and msg'd her and again we talked and clicked pretty good. But for the last three months, every convo we had was initiated by me. SHE NEVER ONCE MSG'D ME FIRST.

Does that mean she's completely uninterested? And if yes, should I just spare myself the headache and just block her?

2006-09-26 06:14:50 · 34 answers · asked by tell_me_whos_sleeping_with_who 2

guys looking at their chest when they talk to them. But I'll catch girls looking at my crotch when they are talking to me. At least we're keeping it above the waist, and not trying to peek for camel toe.

2006-09-26 06:14:23 · 22 answers · asked by joe 3

how can i find out if he is being unfaithful to me

2006-09-26 06:13:11 · 15 answers · asked by janine w 1

2006-09-26 06:12:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

like i know highschool guys my age do... but do older men?

2006-09-26 06:11:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Your boyfriend sleeping on the floor and the girl sleeping in his bed. Even if you trust him, that they didn't do anything with each other. Would you have a problem, or is it just me?

2006-09-26 06:10:06 · 24 answers · asked by Sweetie Pie 1

2006-09-26 06:07:38 · 17 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3

2006-09-26 06:07:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-26 06:06:26 · 27 answers · asked by Mistyfog 1

see us women wearing or not wearing?

2006-09-26 06:06:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

But women take the biscuit!Who else out there agrees with me.

2006-09-26 06:05:54 · 9 answers · asked by nachomanhulk 1

My boyfriend lost his license and is filing bankruptcy to get it back.. thats a long story.. but in the mean time, he does not have a job.. and says he will get one when his bankruptcy goes through.. he does other things to make money, like work on cars.. etc. but we live together and i end up paying most of bills, even though he does pay a couple. I don't know what to do, i love him to death and i can't stand the thought of us not being together, but this is getting really tought for me! I need help!! What do I do?

2006-09-26 06:02:59 · 46 answers · asked by Becca 2

2006-09-26 06:02:55 · 11 answers · asked by Megan 1

2006-09-26 06:02:22 · 9 answers · asked by thomas j 1

I really need to end this, but nicely, she likes me, she knows Im single but Im not attracted to her, plus she knows everyone in my apartment complex, not like Im a stranger but it would be bad if things happened between us cause I know it would end bad.. what should I do so I dont hurt her feelings but nothing happens??? Help needed, thanks

2006-09-26 06:01:03 · 7 answers · asked by J from O 4

I had been seeing this guy for four years, when we first met he was going through a hard time. We took a year apart beacause through it all, he lied about the girl he was staying with. When we got back together everything was fine, untill I found naked pics of a female he apparently had sex with. Then just this past June he revealed he had a son he had been hiding. All of a sudden he calls me one day playing around on my phone and finally he got the balls to call my phone from the chicks house that he is staying at. The next day I called her and she told me that they have been in a relationship for the past year. I feel like such an *** because I was preganant by him and ended up having an abortion because we supposedly couldn't afford it. I need Help!

2006-09-26 05:59:44 · 15 answers · asked by career_girl101 1

She suddenly decided that she doesn't know what she wants. She says she still loves me but needs time away from me. She says she may date other people. How can I get her back? Should I just give her her time? Should I fight for her? Two days ago she was talking about our wedding, now this. What can I do?

2006-09-26 05:59:03 · 15 answers · asked by ranorris87 3

What's something I can do for my b/f while he's at work? Guys send us flowers, so what can we do that's equally telling them, "I love you."

2006-09-26 05:57:58 · 7 answers · asked by inlovewow 4

2006-09-26 05:57:11 · 10 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3

shes the most beautiful girl i have seen shes here in yahoo answer my heart trembles everytime i visit here in her 360 but the problem she has a boyfriend a very handsome one .but i dont care. love is a gift from god even i know i am ugly and old my heart is still alive kicking hoping to find the right girl so how can i tell her i love her , i email her to add me to be his friend but she ignore me ,yes she ignore me ,snob me but that will not stop my heart for falling in love again so what will i do ? check her picture
http://img86.imageshack.us/img86/2971/86b9sc6.jpg
http://img142.imageshack.us/img142/7008/f5e4ju6.jpg

2006-09-26 05:56:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have 2 guys whom I care for dearly they both have my heart but they're so completly different. One is big with mohok and he gives me the world he takes me every where he can. The other is drop dead gorgeouse and he is a critic, but he makes me feel like I'm number one, though I feel like I'm not the only one. Now, the mowhok guy I've dumped him once just took him back and now I'm lost...I can't tell the hot guy to go away because we had such perfect moments...WHAT DO I DO???(the hot guy is gunna be a nurse...and the mowhock guy is working in a warehouse)

2006-09-26 05:55:17 · 5 answers · asked by ~*Demented_little_me*~ 1

2006-09-26 05:55:13 · 4 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3

2006-09-26 05:54:11 · 7 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3

I am only 17 and the online sites always say you have to be 18 or older to use them.

2006-09-26 05:53:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

would getting who or what you really want make that much of a difference to you or your life?

2006-09-26 05:52:17 · 36 answers · asked by *JC* 3

these are the signs hes showing me at mo
over helpful with work
if i i feel down bout something will find a way to make me feel better
keeps eye contact when he talks to me
remembers stuff i told him from weeks before
shows an interest in stuff im into
nervous round me
are there anything else i should look into this guy is hard to read

2006-09-26 05:51:43 · 19 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1

what if.....you cant accept the fact for being him/her??
would you love her/him to the fullest??...though its hard to accept the reality?

2006-09-26 05:50:13 · 2 answers · asked by jake_pilyo 1

I was wondering if you still get the same GOOD feeling of being with your spouse on the weekends and on vacations? I have been with my boyfriend 7 years and we dont live together and when I am at work I think about the upcoming weekend to spend with my boyfriend or the upcoming vacation, I get SO HAPPY, is this beacuse we are not together all the time or do coupes still feel this way even living and being married for 7 years. I really look forward to spending time with him and our shared dog. And by the way we will be on the Dog Whisper National geographicon October 30th,she (Holli) has her own sidecar, you cant miss her. Holli the world famous sidecar dog. anyway back to the question....Do you still get excited being with your live in spouse?

2006-09-26 05:48:49 · 26 answers · asked by foxyraley 2

Do you play with toys......like "bedroom toys"....I think you know what I'm talking about.

2006-09-26 05:48:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous