I was wondering if you still get the same GOOD feeling of being with your spouse on the weekends and on vacations? I have been with my boyfriend 7 years and we dont live together and when I am at work I think about the upcoming weekend to spend with my boyfriend or the upcoming vacation, I get SO HAPPY, is this beacuse we are not together all the time or do coupes still feel this way even living and being married for 7 years. I really look forward to spending time with him and our shared dog. And by the way we will be on the Dog Whisper National geographicon October 30th,she (Holli) has her own sidecar, you cant miss her. Holli the world famous sidecar dog. anyway back to the question....Do you still get excited being with your live in spouse?
2006-09-26 05:48:49 · 26 answers · asked by foxyraley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and are you married?
2006-09-26 05:51:19 · update #1
No, I can't stand him now. He's acting so different now. I want a divorce.
2006-09-26 05:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by bettyboop_littlebettybop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In today's busy busy world not many are aware of what a companionship really means in a marriage.Sex is an urge which is at its peak in the first few years. It gradually gives way to real companionship where you share happiness,sorrow and what ever happens in your lives. This situation is even more important as the couple ages and develop disabilities. 7 years is a small period.I have seen couples going strong even after 50 years of marriage. So much so that when one partner looses the other life simply becomes meaning less for the surviving partner and life becomes a great drag. This has to be experienced or seen to be believed.
2006-09-26 06:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off thats pretty cool your going to be on the dog whisper. Never really seen that show. Anyway yes I've been married for 3yrs. There are times where we like to do our own thing. There are times where we irritate each other, and there are plenty of times where we can't get enough of each other. I love going on vacation with him. I don't have to drive, and we make good company for each other. We are two different people but I will say this the longer you are married the more you really do act like each other. I know it's strange but its oh so true!! Well you've been together for 7yrs so you may know what I'm talking about.
2006-09-26 05:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by alyssa_the_great21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for 11 years and with 3 kids, 2 dogs and very demanding jobs, my husband and I have a very busy and chaotic schedule during the week. However, we try to reserve Friday evening for a "date night" and several times a year we take a weekend get-away - just the two of us! I always look forward to those times.
2006-09-26 06:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by tnmtngirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called love. I still love to be with her after all these years. We each need our own time but the together time and family time is still great. Need to have traditions and get out and do things that you both like...I go with her for things she likes, she with me for things I like and you know what...she now likes some of my things and vice versa. It's sharing and caring and thinking of the other. And getting over petty things quickly and not letting disagreements fester.
If you guys are in so much love, then why are you not married?
2006-09-26 05:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by MickYahoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have been married for over 7 years now and I still look forward to every moment that we get to spend together.
2006-09-26 05:51:35 · answer #6 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and i are so busy during the week that we barley see each other. So i really look forward to spending as much time with him when i can. We have been married for almost 2 years so i guess we are still in our honeymoon stage.
2006-09-26 05:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by Angela H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I have been married 7 years.
at the end of each day when I am going home, I get tingly knowing I'm gonna see her, and have breakfast togther, and just talk and play with our baby, or whatever....
She is always so encouraging and we send each other jokes all the time on the email. ( even though we live together, cause we sent each other a lot of email when we were dating as we lived in different states)
I guess its a matter of appreciation, and respect.
2006-09-26 05:52:22 · answer #8 · answered by papeche 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang, why not get married if you've been together 7 years???
Anyway, yeah, i love spending time with my wife. Even if we're just sitting there quietly reading books, or watching TV. Time together is even more special now that we have a little one around.
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2006-09-26 05:52:07 · answer #9 · answered by Echelon Right 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look forward to seeing my husband everyday after work. We have been together 8 years. We have a daughter together and we look forward to seeing her just as much as we look forward to seeing each other. We are the best of friends. We have alot of respect for each other and we give make sure if one us needs space or a little time alone for peace and quiet they get it.
2006-09-26 05:59:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We get along best on weekends and vacation. I MISS him constantly, but we've only been together for 4 years (married for 2).
2006-09-26 05:53:39 · answer #11 · answered by Luckiest_Wife_EVER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋