Singles & Dating - 18 September 2006

I was a little worried the gf might be losing interest (dating for @ 4-5 mos), but she has been working like a mad woman lately (2 jobs, probably 60+ hrs/wk, which concerns me a little, too) She is very proud of being very independent so I keep telling myself to just relax and let her come to me. We hit it off great, seriously unbelievably, but neither of us have much exp in the dating dept, and I know the romance has to start to simmer a little at some point. Does this sound reasonable? Any advice on trying to get her back into it or is it something I am f ing up? We had a talk the other night and she really revealed some stuff. If I plainly ask if her feelings have changed, that pretty much seals the deal regardless, doesn't it?

2006-09-18 12:47:28 · 12 answers · asked by randyken 6

Okay, here goes... Obviously, I'm fourteen, and I like this guy. I've known him for three years, but we've only started hanging out this summer... That was when I started liking him as more than a friend. And I know he was interested for at least a little bit, because he was asking my friends about me and flirting all the time, and we wen't to the movies with a few of our friends and he let me lean into him and everything. He even called me after. But now, he told my friend he likes someone else, and he sits with her on the bus and all. But I swear he kindof likes me, because he's always really close to me, even if we're working together in school he's like 2 inches away from me! And he always tries to make me laugh, above any of the other girls... but like I said, I haven't seen him when he's with this other girl, and I'm not sure what to think... I mean, if he didn't like her, why would he sit with her and everything?? I'm just confused. Any help? Thanks so much!!

2006-09-18 12:45:40 · 6 answers · asked by xxEquestrianxx 1

I'm 15 nd I suck at the whole dating thing. I want to make a long relationship with that certain someone, but I can't pass go. I could really use advice on pretty much anything. How to tell if a girl likes you, what to do on dates, kissing, what's moving to fast, how to keep her amused, etc. Ladies perfered, but any useful tibits from anyopne will be looked for. Thank you!

2006-09-18 12:44:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

like a boyfriend and like hold my and and kiss me

2006-09-18 12:44:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you had a really good relationship and you got dumped for a lame reason but he comes back to you knowing he made a really bad mistake.. would u give him another chance? Or would you just say.. too bad so sad.

2006-09-18 12:43:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sometimes when I talk to girls I feel like there analyzing me. Like they'll look at my hair or at my lips if I have lipstick on. But then they won't say I look nice. Sometimes I feel as if they have a laughing look on their face. Do they think I'm ugly. And in their mind there making fun of me? Girls do you this when you think someone's hair looks funny or there unattractive? I mean I try to dress nice and not heavy maybe could just lose 10 pounds. I'm always well groomed. I just feel like there's something wrong with me when they look at me like this.

2006-09-18 12:43:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

anyone? :)

2006-09-18 12:43:01 · 5 answers · asked by westcoasthunnii 1

like.....how would they flirt?
high school guy is what I'm talking about.

2006-09-18 12:42:41 · 5 answers · asked by alaina 1

we dated before. for like 3-4 months but i broke up with him :( i didn't want to but my parents made me. i can't hook back up with him cuz he lives too far away. we are still friends and i really do love him but he lives a few hours away and i have no way of getting to see him.

2006-09-18 12:41:59 · 5 answers · asked by playful_kitty_003 1

ok my friends told this girl i liked here and asked her if she would go out with me. and i know i should of did it myself but i was too embarrased. then a little later she said tommorow we need to talk but it wasnt in a bad voice but nor happy. wut do u think she is going to say yes or no

2006-09-18 12:41:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this guy. Kinda. He's a freshman and I'm a sophomore...I don't really care because the main difference is the grade level since I'm younger than most sophomores. So right now the age isn't really a problem for me.
I'm not a shy girl, but I'm not exactly what you can call "outgoing", either. I have talked to him like twice. But I don't know how to become friends.I want to make it obvious that I like him. But I don't want to seem like...easy...or something lol
so here's the question
do you guys rather like a girl just coming up to talk to you and not making a big deal about it? or....would you rather her take forever to talk to you and for her to beat around the bush?

2006-09-18 12:40:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm on match.com, and I just signed up so I can send/recieve e-mails. I now get women who are on the opposite side of the country e-mailing me. Let me assure you, I don't think this is because my profile is so great. But, I do specify that I'm not interested in anyone more than 20 miles away from me.
Is it spam?
Maybe they're just looking for someone to chat with safely, for whom they've read about and can see a picture of?
I don't know, what do you think?

2006-09-18 12:40:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have so much in common if you know her the name isCami Jeralds she is so sweet on the eyes and she likes the same books music and movies help me please I love her something feirce!

2006-09-18 12:40:11 · 9 answers · asked by shroombody 1

diegos alcahuete mas grande

2006-09-18 12:40:09 · 10 answers · asked by chris 1

because you like the guy

2006-09-18 12:39:32 · 19 answers · asked by femme_cherub 1

This is the second time im asking this question. Theres this girl in my p.e class that i like and i want to talk to her and everyone told me to man up and talk to her. But what if that looks kinda suspicious. What if she thinks that i like her and she tries to ignore me or somethin bcoz i have been acting kinda weird in my class, always staring at her and stuff. Plz help. Mitch if youre there plz help. everyone plz help me.

2006-09-18 12:38:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-18 12:38:05 · 14 answers · asked by Mary Rose 2

It just escaped as i was about to give it a mohecian, has any one seen it... Answers to the name of arrold.

2006-09-18 12:37:29 · 30 answers · asked by Jabba_da_hut_07 4

My buyfriend and i have been together for two months only.But we were best friend for one year we started going out.He was very caring when we started dating.but for last couple of days ,When i call him,his phone goes straight on voicemail and smtimes he doesnt answer for 2-3 hours.today he hangup the phone on me without even saying i love you.Which he never does.Wat do u guys think is going on?How should i confront him?He was very loving before,he has changed alot.Today he didnt pick up the phone for # hours and later he said he has a bad head ache.Help me.

2006-09-18 12:36:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-18 12:35:41 · 15 answers · asked by twitch 2

I am stupid with this, please help me out. I know a girl, danced with her, I think she likes me--talked---played 10 fingers...knew her for weekend and last weekend.

Now, I think the next stage is I invite her to eat at a place on campus (I am in college), and then what...

please fill in the blanks and help me out.

2006-09-18 12:34:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-18 12:33:56 · 18 answers · asked by pamela j 1

i'd like to be remembered as 'the only girl i couldn't have'

2006-09-18 12:30:36 · 26 answers · asked by *JC* 3

This girl and me were really close, we would stay up till 12 in the mornin talkin sometime, now that mite not be alot, but it is for her, she is homeschooled, I go to public school. Well I asked her to the movies, and she said Idk maybe , and REALLy backed off, she seemed nervous around me, I thought she just didnt wanna hurt my feelings, but she told her friends, she just wants to see if I can stick with her. Well we got further and further apart, until I couldnt stand it anymore and I emailed her, spilled my guts, and asked her to be brutally honest on how she fealt about me, heres what she said

well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later

Now, When I read that two things come to mind. One, that she is just trying to be nice. But on the other hand, she is just scared, because she has never had a bf b4, and weve been friends since age 7.

But now she seems more comfortable around me, like now she talks more, and seems more comfortable, but then she'll seem like she wants me, I can tell by the way she looks, and the way she acts, she just seems really sad, and down,

Oh yeah, and she told her mom , that she is just really really scared, and that she does like me, but she told her friends she just dont want to hurt my feelings, now her and her mom are really close, but so are her and her friends, Do you think she likes me, or is just letting me down easy?

And I am respecting her wishes, I emailed her and told her that I respect her decision, and we havent talked about it since.

But I really really do care for her, I wake up and she's the first thing I think about, I go to sleep and Fall asleep thinking about her. I mean I know I'm only 15, but I really do love her, and would do anything in this world to be with her. I've tried moving on, I've been trying to do that, but I just can't. Even though I am am guy, yes I have cried numerous time for her, and about her. I mean, I'm not ugly, I'm fit, and I'm not a big geek or anything, so what gives? I really do love her, what should I do?

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26 minutes ago
And, yes, her mom likes me, she told me that she is encouraging her daughter to date me, she also said that it was really hard for her daughter to sent that email, but in the mean time, she is really flirty with this other guy.

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3 hours ago
But it's weird, like sometimes she'll seem sad, cuz she wants to be with me, then shell go and be REALLy happy and flirty with this other guy, then shell come up and talk to me, like she misses me, and then shell go flirt with him, I'm just SO CONFUSED, please help.

3 hours ago
but i mean, the way she is around him, is the way she used to be around me, and its weird, cuz we dont talk nearly nearly as much as we used to, and its almost like shes sad, or missin that or sumthin, but then all over this other guy

2006-09-18 12:30:31 · 17 answers · asked by how many 1

I was with the Ex for 11 months. We broke up, and it's been 1 month, 2 weeks. I party, party, hang out with friends, work, and party some more. I mean, i had sex with a cupple of women, but the thing is, they're not my ex. It just doesnt feel right. She broke up with me, and i'm 100percent sure that she doesnt have any feelings for me. I'm 19, and it's just been hard. I set life goals, new car. I even got a promotion at work, (Tech Manager), but my life still doesnt feel complete. About 2 week's ago I try'd talking with her about my feelings but I can tell she just doesnt feel the same anymore, "The Love is Gone on her part".

Now, i just need to let her go. I went to church, now a Full-Time Christian, and sure it helps. I get happy, but when it's over (church), i think about her. During sex, I think about her. Looking at other girls.. I think about her. Dating other women, I think of her.

We're not even friends anymore.Mistake that was made, was missing her, Obsessing over her.help

2006-09-18 12:30:20 · 8 answers · asked by Luis G 1

I thought all women want a tall,dark, and handsome man. Did I break this stereotype?

2006-09-18 12:25:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I cant belive it... Ok there is this guy that likes me...I made up lie and told it to him ( I told him i was going out with this other guy) and now i think instead of makeing him jelous i think it made him uninterested!!!! I think i have really messed up now... Is it to late or am i going to be ok? Help me!

2006-09-18 12:23:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Has anyone single been to their church singles club? Is it a hit or a miss? My parents suggests I should go and check it out, but I have a feeling the crowd it a bit older for me. I'm 31 divorced with 1 child. I don't think it's for me. Helpful information is greatly appreciated. Thank you.

2006-09-18 12:22:58 · 4 answers · asked by Cathy 2

2006-09-18 12:21:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anna 1

without getting him really pissed and making us break up?

2006-09-18 12:20:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous