I like this guy. Kinda. He's a freshman and I'm a sophomore...I don't really care because the main difference is the grade level since I'm younger than most sophomores. So right now the age isn't really a problem for me.
I'm not a shy girl, but I'm not exactly what you can call "outgoing", either. I have talked to him like twice. But I don't know how to become friends.I want to make it obvious that I like him. But I don't want to seem like...easy...or something lol
so here's the question
do you guys rather like a girl just coming up to talk to you and not making a big deal about it? or....would you rather her take forever to talk to you and for her to beat around the bush?
2006-09-18 12:40:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...by easy i mean I dont wanna be all over him
2006-09-18 12:41:49 · update #1
he's in my spanish class...
2006-09-18 12:47:19 · update #2
dont put to much pressure on yourself as to whether he will like you or not. There are Lots of guys besides this one. However Dont be afraid to Go up and be friendly. I'm sure he will be able to tell whether you like him or not. I'd say that I am quite flattered when the girls make the first move. and i never saw it asa sign they were easy as much as that they just have confidence in themselves to be able to break the traditions and speak up first!.
Just remember there is No wrong or right way to go about it. and many people do meet their life long loves in high school. so if you see something you like or want, Go for it! The worst they can do is say NO. but that isnt as bad as sitting around wondering 10 yrs later ...... Man what If I had Just let them Known that I wanted to meet them.
Good Luck
2006-09-18 12:48:51 · answer #1 · answered by D B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be a little more direct. Boys that age pretty much fall into one of two catagories, either they will be very shy about girls and not know how to act or they will consider themselves quite experienced and may be overly showy with their...masculinity.
I think that you should give him a day or so to make a move, make SURE he has a way to contact you (either have your friend give him your number or do the "write it on his hand thing") If he doesn't call you by the end of the week, maybe you can ask him if he wants to "hang out" yourself. He might be shy, don't take it as reluctance!
2006-09-18 12:44:12 · answer #2 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Preface: You didn't indicate what type of man he is, or whether you are looking for a relationship. You also didn't indicate if you are in high school or university.
1. Facts are: you will either hit it off or you won't.
2. What's the worse that can happen? He says 'no'. Then you know where you stand, and move on.
3. If you are in high school, concentrate on getting straight A's, so that you can increase your chances of getting into one of the best universities.
4. High school romantic tastes fade fast, once you get to university, start travelling and gain some worldly experience.
Good luck!
2006-09-18 12:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by mitch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its ur call, but I myself am shy so I would rather have the girl come up to me. Now what u can do, is keep things the way they r, if in like 2 or 3 weeks(longer if u want) nothing has changed then take the initiative.
2006-09-18 12:47:49 · answer #4 · answered by a7xrios 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it this is a no brainer.....most guys find it a natural high when a girl comes to them and starts talking to them. since your in the same spanish class use that as your base. As for not wanting to look too easy try to mind your body language. some touchy-feely is ok not alot initially. If the chemistry is there between you then the rest will fall into place nicely.
2006-09-18 12:50:54 · answer #5 · answered by brazilman37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are ran by our ego's espliy in high school if a girl walks up and and asks us out on a Friday night we are stoked lol. plus we are not that great at the whole game well I'll just flirt with u and u will catch our meaning.
the best way to do it if he plays foot ball just ask if u can ware his jersey on game day we love that kinda stuff plus the whole older thing will work too we love that stuff that a freshman is going out with an older girl
2006-09-18 12:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by ryan s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any electives together? Or anything you know that you have in common? Just talk to him about something. If you make a point of talking to him when you see him, he'll probably get the hint, even if you're not being really overt, since guys usually appreciate the attention.
2006-09-18 12:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by answersBeta2.1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him a nice roze, yes men do like flowers get him a single roze with a nice little note attached. Let him know who you are and that you would like to have either a drink or tea or coffee or dinner with him. dinner is a bit too far asking a guy and all but a drink like starbucks is not too bad. put the ball on his side of the court, see how he responds. make it formal so you don't see like well you come up with that one. good luck oh... yea no sex on the first date agree to both of you drive there so you can always to get up and go if it turns out to be a DUD.
2006-09-18 12:49:17 · answer #8 · answered by zermenoj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, I love to talk to all girls, and flurt. But I am shy when it comes to wanting a relationship. So for me, I Love It when the girl makes the first move, if not, I just sit back, I can waite for the right time.
2006-09-18 12:49:24 · answer #9 · answered by Matt the Bratt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since it is really no big deal going up to him and opening a conversation is ok. Do not put more into things than they really are. Unless the guy is a real jerk there will be no misunderstanding.
2006-09-18 12:43:43 · answer #10 · answered by hardnose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋