Singles & Dating - 17 September 2006

I found out my bf watches porn on the internet at his house, and gets off on it. i dont know if im so keen on him watching it. i know i cant stop him, but it feels weird to me. I mean i feel like hes not satisfied with me. We have sex, but probably not as much as we hope, for different reasons eg - we both live at home, and dont have the time or space, and cant take our time on it, and because we rush it, i hurt coz im not as "ready" as i should be. so we sometimes have to stop. also at his house his mum just walks into his room!! So were not as up for it as people our age should be (21 and 23). So when we dont engage in sex etc, he goes home and w*nks over porn. am i reading too much into this? i know every bloke does it, but i dont feel like he wants to be with me, but rather a computer screen and hes getting off on strangers! help!

2006-09-17 05:54:23 · 21 answers · asked by ms_jaffa_cake 2

2006-09-17 05:53:01 · 7 answers · asked by dililmuneca09 1

Ok, I am going out with a guy I have known and liked for about 2 years. Now that we are going out, it is kind of awkward. But here's the problem: I like someone else now. I like another guy, and I started liking him before me and my boyfriend started going out. I really like my boyfriend, but not as much as the other guy. What do I do?

2006-09-17 05:52:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

what are your age ranges for partners ideally?
and state your age too.

i am 23 and ideally would like a bloke no younger than 20 and no older than 30
hmm sounds like a rubbish personal ad!

2006-09-17 05:48:28 · 16 answers · asked by sinnedfairy 5

2006-09-17 05:47:08 · 5 answers · asked by LaPalma 2

2006-09-17 05:46:15 · 14 answers · asked by goodbye and good luck :-) 1

How much wood could a woodchuck chuck, if a woodchuck could chuck wood?

2006-09-17 05:45:50 · 10 answers · asked by You_dumb_bastard 1

If a guy flirts with you and then you show him interest, he trys to avoid you for awhile. Then after time goes by the cycle begins again. Does this mean he thinks you're ugly. Even though he does look at you sometimes. Especially when you're one on one, he'll really look at you and smile. Someone I know said they think there's something there he's trying to avoid. What could this be? And does he think I'm ugly since he acts this way?

2006-09-17 05:44:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, Over the summer I worked at a summer camp, and I had this fling with a girl from Madrid Spain. Yes I did have a girlfriend..but see..because of her religion and our parents our relationship was secret. We've been dating for two and a half years..and we have not been on a date..the only time we could see each other was at school. So do you think I made the right choice. And now all we have been doing is fight..how can I make this immature game stop??

2006-09-17 05:36:40 · 16 answers · asked by Aaron I 1

this guy who wants to date me told me im his b4 we even went out is this normal??my friend says this is limit phycho path....and hes only known me 4 aweek he told me hes very jealous....but when he said guys wanna date you in yr class right?I didnt say anything i just changed the subject then he said but your like mine...when he said this it was like he was stating the fact but at the same tylm asking me so that i can say yes im yours is this normal????

2006-09-17 05:34:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-17 05:34:30 · 5 answers · asked by kff_j 1

There is this guy i talk to on the interent and its like we almost love each other.........or maybe its puppy love.But lately i have been acting a little ahhh.........crankie and he says im acting bitchy?.............he thinks im have pms but i am not even on my period as yet.I planned out my whole future with him, like we are going to get married and stuff and have children and whatever.And yesterday i asked him if he sees me as his girl friend in the future and he said no.That really hurt!I also did get him madd yesterday and now realize that i had no reason to be acting like that.I told him that i didnt want to talk to him ever again, and after that, he wouldnt say a word to me.What should i do????????

2006-09-17 05:34:29 · 12 answers · asked by Kay 1

Would you date an 18 yr old girl in college if she had never had a boyfriend, a date or even a kiss for that matter? or would you turn the other way for someone with moe experience?

2006-09-17 05:32:06 · 25 answers · asked by suave_girl65 3

she says she still has feelings for the ex altho they surely arent the same as before. They have a child together so I understand the obvious reasons they would still be involved. She and I have a great friendship and there is a deep bond we share. We do have a physical relationship as well. The ex lives out of town and only comes here on the weekends. The ex is not at all fond of me in any way shape or form. I become non-existent when the ex is around. I do get phone calls and sometimes my "g/f" does visit when the ex is in town but still it is not a fully committed relationship on either part. What would you do? Stay or go even tho you have deep rooted feelings for this person and you know they feel very strongly as well........just not strong enough to make the leap.......any ideas?

2006-09-17 05:30:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

hey what do you think is a beautiful and cool girl?i mean what kind of girls are you interested in?her personality,looks...... whatever but i really need a quick reply.

2006-09-17 05:29:37 · 8 answers · asked by cristy_25 2

If a man and his woman are out together, and the man happens to look at another woman who walks past, why is it that the anger is directed towards the woman who is the passer by, why not at the man for ogeling the other woman, why is that?....

2006-09-17 05:29:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

So i really like this guy. the problem is he lives overseas. We talk a lot and we consider each other best friends. I have known him for about 3 years. Should i bother telling him I have feelings for him? Or will that just make things awkward?

2006-09-17 05:27:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and this girl talk all the time, and we r realy good friends, we have went out twice b4, but we broke up casue of school she said she couldnt handle it with a guy. anyway, the other day she throw a peice of paper at my head and she wanted me to talk to her, so i did, then she sent me emails saying she was board and wanted to talk to me, so i got on im and talked to her, i just cant understand if she still likes me or not? any help please, and if she dosent how to i get her out of my head???

2006-09-17 05:23:15 · 18 answers · asked by Paul 2

And she wants me to write her a letter, but i am not any good with words, i want to tell her how i feel, but dont want to come across to strong, and creep her out. What the heck should i do???????

2006-09-17 05:21:11 · 7 answers · asked by mighty_cuinn 1

This guy and I have been kinda dating, on and off, and it got really confusing. This beginning of the school year we finally began to be just friends, but i still really really like him and miss him a whole lot. I dont want to ask him if he likes me still or not and all that. His birthday is in december, but I am going to be out of town. I want to get him a really special present. What do you think i should get him? I dont know if it should be someting to show him that i still like him or not, because what if he dosent like me anymore? ah help! I want to think of a present early enough so i can work on it!

2006-09-17 05:21:00 · 8 answers · asked by blahblah10 2

What if he seemed like he really liked you, making lunch for you, and getting you to come on an ambulance ride-a-long? He knows I have his number, but he said he would call ME sometime. The first time he said he'd call, a week passed and he didn't, but that Friday he came in and we had a good time together (or what I thought was a good time). He said he'd call me afterwards. It's been another week.

I'm tempted to text message him to ask if he's okay, but I don't know if I should do that or not. I have a semi-date with another guy tonight and I'm concerned that this will affect me later on in life. I already was affected by another guy I liked...he's getting married now and it made me feel like crap for the longest time. I'm worried I'll get into a relationship with somebody and then find out this guy is getting married, and find out if I'd called or something it might have worked out with us. I hate having regrets.

I'm just so confused. Can someone please give me some advice?

2006-09-17 05:15:09 · 23 answers · asked by New mommy 2010! 4

What's the quickest way to spot a high maintenance woman.

2006-09-17 05:14:52 · 27 answers · asked by pantocool 1

ONLY GIRLZ ANSWER PLZZZ AND THNKS U

2006-09-17 05:13:54 · 14 answers · asked by Shiv P 1

Im trying to ask a girl to homecoming, but I want it to be realllly good/originally/sweet since we are just friends, and I want to take it past that? Girls, what would you absolutely love for a guy to do asking you to a dance?

It cant be too over the top, since we are just friends. Any ideas? Thanks

2006-09-17 05:13:14 · 12 answers · asked by makemyexistence 1

2006-09-17 05:12:04 · 31 answers · asked by Aaron I 1

thanks!

2006-09-17 05:11:21 · 27 answers · asked by Mr. Owl 3

My bestfriend always writes about that, she always trying to get angry and make anything to keep her sad she got addicited to zoloft..and quit ..she keeps putting things in her head and thoughts just to stay sad.she says she always feels worthless and tried to commited suicide a serval times,she is now starting to cut her self i saw some marks on her arm,hands and legs ,she keep ssaying its her cat she keeps pictures of dead poeple or blood on her computer and draws upsetting pictures all the time.. ( she doesnt have much problems in her life ) livin with her mum, and got cheated by a guy whom she loved so much..i dont think these are the reasons?? i dont know what to do ?

2006-09-17 05:09:27 · 18 answers · asked by Maya Sosa 1

I HAVE A GUY IN ONE OF MY CLASSES AND HE WONT TALK TO ME MUCH. I REALLY LIKE HIM AND HE HAS ALOT OF FRIENDS THAT ARE GIRLS I GET REALLY NERVOUS WHEN I TRY TO TALK TO HIM. ONE TIME WE PLAYED A GAME WHAT SHOULD I DO? I REALLY LIKE HIM

2006-09-17 05:08:03 · 7 answers · asked by KaitCzaj 1

i keep daydreaming about having a male companion but whenever i'm treated unjust i get furious and rage about beating men and hurting him..i have the problem with "hard to get" mentality and i get tempted to bully someone who is a cupid match and has an interest in my profile on a swinger site (shamefully i'm part of an adult site).. becasue i have frequent/occasional anger attacks. but on the inside i am the opposite and want to be a very good & reliable companion.

would this affect me and is this what any guy would hate about a girl? that i'm rebellious and have the need to conquer a guy? and seeing most guys are with average bodytype girls, maybe that's what they'd more prefer, but i'm skinnier than that with the flattest abs, and muscle shows on my abdomen (also due to weight reduction genes; i eat like normal). and thin guys don't arouse me...i like bigger yet strong and tall, and not mature <:(

2006-09-17 05:04:17 · 10 answers · asked by ~ B E L L A ~ 2

or am i the one?

2006-09-17 05:03:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous