i keep daydreaming about having a male companion but whenever i'm treated unjust i get furious and rage about beating men and hurting him..i have the problem with "hard to get" mentality and i get tempted to bully someone who is a cupid match and has an interest in my profile on a swinger site (shamefully i'm part of an adult site).. becasue i have frequent/occasional anger attacks. but on the inside i am the opposite and want to be a very good & reliable companion.
would this affect me and is this what any guy would hate about a girl? that i'm rebellious and have the need to conquer a guy? and seeing most guys are with average bodytype girls, maybe that's what they'd more prefer, but i'm skinnier than that with the flattest abs, and muscle shows on my abdomen (also due to weight reduction genes; i eat like normal). and thin guys don't arouse me...i like bigger yet strong and tall, and not mature <:(
2006-09-17 05:04:17 · 10 answers · asked by ~ B E L L A ~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would simply avoid you and your variety of drama.
Personally, I think you should get a handle on this "hard to get" mentality. I think you use it and the impunity that women have in our culture and run with it to the point that no man wants to be near you.
As for "conquering" a guy - I don't know it conquer is the most appropriate word (I think I would use emasculate or ridicule or humiliate). Forget about all the books you've read about playing hard to get. Don't you think a guy really just wants a nice woman who can laugh and make others laughl; one who's sexy and beautiful and has an interesting life. In today's culture, so much is focused on being a *****, and it seems tempting for young women to use the advice in those books as a justification for rude behavior. Ask yourself this - would you act condescendingly towards women in the same way?
Yes, the bitchy mentality has its place, but personally, it's much better in the bedroom than at the flirting phase.
2006-09-17 05:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't quite understand what you are asking....but its quite normal to have a "type" you go for. I would suggest that you speak to someone (a professional) about your anger issues and violent behavior.
2006-09-17 05:09:36 · answer #2 · answered by stepfordswiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So many issues, so little time. I would suggest you start with the uncontrollable rage issue.
2006-09-17 05:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A time will come when you will meet
a guy exactly like yourself, that would
be a good match. Good luck and good ****.
2006-09-17 05:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by nomad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew what you were talking about, but it sounds like you're in great shape. Congrats.
2006-09-17 05:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by smallweed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Angie, I second that motion WOW!!!!!
2006-09-17 05:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont speek ure lingo
2006-09-17 05:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW
2006-09-17 05:06:09 · answer #8 · answered by babybeast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
w.o.w. again
2006-09-17 05:08:18 · answer #9 · answered by MISTER M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but idk?
2006-09-17 05:09:27 · answer #10 · answered by frisky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋