Singles & Dating - 17 September 2006

Why is it that when a guy has cheated on you and does not do a thing to make you feel like a special woman, that he feels like that he can get pissed off at you because you are not over it yet?

2006-09-17 08:18:17 · 18 answers · asked by jasmine b 2

ive been with my guy for a little over 6 yrs. we recently got engaged and i love him to death but we dont have sex too often. im just wondering what is normal. and im 21 by the way.

2006-09-17 08:17:55 · 9 answers · asked by heretohelp 2

I have been dating this girl for about 1 year and 6 months now. We do not live toghether yet but we do plan to get engaged (and eventually get married) when I can afford to buy her a ring.

Anyway, my question is who should pay for "things" in our relationship? Should it be a 50/50 thing or should I (the man) be forced to pay for "everything". Examples would be groceries, dining out, movies, etc.

2006-09-17 08:17:32 · 9 answers · asked by bluenote12482 1

ok soo i have a bf and some people think we r too young and some say we arent but we r keeping it pg soo i dont get what is the point of us not being able to go out with eachother..but one thing is i need to know when u got ur first kiss and also i have had a lot of bfs but this one is the best but i am scared people wont ever go out with me again if we ever do brake up...but he said he never will and i promised him i never will too...becausei have had a lot of bfs.........plz help

2006-09-17 08:16:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met this guy that treats me bad but i can't stop talking to him it's like he has me under some sort of control or something i don't know what to do

2006-09-17 08:15:37 · 15 answers · asked by MARY M 1

everyone always says younger people like 15 16 cant fid love at htat age but what if they do can they? i kno i am in love i am planning on marring this man and i cant wait but my pernts think that i am stup[id for even thinking baout it cause i am too young cant u fall in love young?

2006-09-17 08:14:47 · 12 answers · asked by Amanda M 2

2006-09-17 08:14:20 · 6 answers · asked by cassidy e 1

2006-09-17 08:13:59 · 35 answers · asked by Aks 1

I have been carrying this flame for a girl, my first real girlfriend in high school for 20 years and recently found out she didn't really feel the same way about me as I did about her. I sought her out, tried many ways to find out how she was and what she was up to so to be able to say hello and that I still thought of her everyday. Sounds like an obession but she really changed my life. I was prepared for the fact that she had moved on, married,kids but wasn't ready to be told that I was not that important in her life. In life people leave their personal tattoos with you so that their passage in your life marks you. It is true some come and some go but there are those who always stay with you and this girl was one of a few that have marked my life.

2006-09-17 08:13:50 · 16 answers · asked by PetitChristian2112 2

me and my bf (now) were suppose to get married next april, but recently we've had problems, it's like everything we do we cannot get along. well i'm in the point of my life and so is he that we are still trying to figure out what we want in life. so we decided to take a break from each and just live life for ourselves for a little. I thought that was a great idea to split for a moment. but last night we had a moment in which we've never experienced, we talked for hours and cried together, (he's not the crying type) and I felt that connection that I've havn't been able to feel for 4 years now. I moved back home 3 1/2 hrs away and now I feel like we've made a big mistake separating. Did I do the right thing, will we end up together again. Cuz right now, i just miss him so bad and cant seem to focus on anything else. I just need a little support.

2006-09-17 08:12:34 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-17 08:11:48 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ever since i've been dating, around the 6 month period, the guy always break my heart and says that he has to find himself. I don't understand what the problem is. I try my best to be the best girlfriend. I bought things for him, I let him go wherever he wants to go, and never gets jealous. Whenever he calls, I am always at his disposal. He says that it wasn't me, it was him. He says that I didn't know how to say no to him and be independent. I am independent. I supported him with money and other things when he didn't have anything. He always came and asked me for things and I would give it to him without questions asked. What's the problem with relationships and me not staying in one for no more than 5 or 6 months?

2006-09-17 08:11:17 · 6 answers · asked by keke 1

why is that out of no where like a ocean i am over come by the thoughts of an old girlfriend from years past.

why is the thought of her so overwhelming at times i have to sit down just to get a grip. its almost like i can feel her

2006-09-17 08:09:28 · 20 answers · asked by concrete water 3

help

2006-09-17 08:09:20 · 7 answers · asked by lova 1

2006-09-17 08:08:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just curious?

2006-09-17 08:05:38 · 9 answers · asked by celestia_night 1

and he already said that he wanted to celebrate. i have no idea what to get him. what are some things that you've given or gotten in the past?

p.s i'm 13 and hes 15.

2006-09-17 08:03:17 · 6 answers · asked by Alicia 1

Would you actually believe this?

2006-09-17 08:02:37 · 7 answers · asked by I Know Nuttin 5

Lost this guys number that I really like but now I am not sure if I should call. It sounds as if I were making it up or something.

2006-09-17 08:02:13 · 14 answers · asked by jumpin4joy 1

We have always been friends but always like eachother. he finally asked me out but then we broke up cause we couldn't communicate. Now i really want him back and i'm not sure how to tell if he still cares about me. What should i do?

2006-09-17 08:01:23 · 13 answers · asked by kountry_kandi 2

BALDING men. Would you consider dating. How big of a turn off?

2006-09-17 07:59:57 · 9 answers · asked by tom 1

I was hanging out at my buddies place at my college and he had people over. He kinda urged me to talk to this girl and she was cool and all but I wasnt feelin it that much plus my whole situation with girls right now is real confusing (kinda seeing a girl from another school and my ex is still in love with me and I dont know how I feel about it). Anyways we made out and that was all, i walked her back to her room and she invited me in but I said I had to go. What now? I mean i dont want this girl to be all pissed it wasnt her it was me and I dont want it to be akward if I see her again cause i thought she was cool and everything I just wasnt interested in that way. If anything it showed me that I really like the girl I'm talking to already, like i was subconsciously testing myself. Im so confused AHHHH

2006-09-17 07:59:44 · 6 answers · asked by Matt J 1

2006-09-17 07:58:47 · 14 answers · asked by Sooz 1

My boyfriend asked me to go with him 2 the football game on Friday ,but I said no because I wanted to go to a school dance. I asked him to go with me to the dance ,but he said no.So i'm going to the dance alone with my friends and he's going to the football game.Then, he said if I wanted to go with him on Saturday to the mall ,but I got a Cross Country meet ,but I haven't told him and he said "you better go to the mall" and the coach asked me that I have to go becuase i'm her best runner.What should I do? Where should I go?

2006-09-17 07:58:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay I asked this gurl out i recently met like 5 days before on thursday night... and she already had plans but i guess she already had plans and wanted to be nice... so she call me on fri and find out.. then she ws like if my friends leave early we are on and if not sorry but i will call you no matter what... she called me and appolgized at 9:45 and told me she is in another city... ok heres the thing i dont really mind... but i kinda like the gurl and wanna win her heart.. so i want to give her a call tommrow... but i know that im not supposed to seem like im trying to hard so i am wondering what to do... but i really want to follow my hear and give her a call tommrow night or during the day what you think is the best time... night or day... actually i want to call her now but its too late... am i going in the right path to her heart?? Why is it that boys always get attached too quickly??

2006-09-17 07:57:04 · 10 answers · asked by Shaboobalaboopie 1

I know I shouldnt be asking other people but we havent been together for more than 2 months and I dont have any idea what to get him.

He's a big guy, and big as in muscular. He loves sports and loves the Yankees and the Giants, and I often watch the games with him. He plays football and used to wrestle. He's currently trying to lose weight so working out is a big part of his life right now. He wears polo's often but he's currently at college in upstate New York.

2006-09-17 07:56:46 · 11 answers · asked by baka_kittykat 2

At least I can never be (unless I exercise 100% emotional restraint). There was a girl who worked in my lab - she was short and very ordinary looking, but we still spent time together in our work & used to sometimes hang out, and along with other friends as well & you know...have a good time. Now, I don't know what has happened to me - I have caught feelings for her & every time I am around her, I feel you know...wierd & wanting to "involve" with her. Now, I haven't told her about this yet because of two reasons:

1. I am not ready for a relationship at the moment, due to financial circumstances
2. Fear of rejection & eventual chaos

I am just worried if I can really hold out for any longer. Another thing that confuses me is that I never wanted to talk to her or hang out in the first place, it was always she who made the approach & me being a nice guy followed her - so, has she actually "won" me?

2006-09-17 07:56:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, I've always had big boobs. But they keep getting bigger and bigger. I have put on some weight, but only about ten or so pounds. But it seems like much of it went to my boobs! Now I'm a DD and my breast poke out oddly past the rest of my body. I can't run without getting winded after two seconds I couldn't even out run my boyfriend who is a smoker!

My sister made fun of me and people at work keep saying I need to get a breast reduction. I get back pain at work but I have a physical job. Some stranger made a comment about my breast at a store. I was wearing a shirt that said "I have issues" and he said, "Those are some Big Issues, do you need help with them?" And then cupped his hands together. I was offeneded and left the store.

I think my medication is causing my increase, one of the side effects is actually a change in breast size. But this is getting terrible. I don't fit in any of my bra's and bra's are expensive. I'm tired of people making fun of my breast

2006-09-17 07:53:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want him to be intrested. he sits next to me n chemistry class and is the hottest boy in highschool.

2006-09-17 07:50:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend just recently cheated on me with my sister...how do i get back at him?!

2006-09-17 07:48:55 · 27 answers · asked by nikyn 2