i still think about her?

Question

why is that out of no where like a ocean i am over come by the thoughts of an old girlfriend from years past.

why is the thought of her so overwhelming at times i have to sit down just to get a grip. its almost like i can feel her

Answer 1

It depends on the situation.
Are you dating someone now?
Are you married?
Maybe you are lonely. Maybe you are fantasizing.
If you are single, why not call her? She may be thinking of you too.

Answer 2

Perhaps the reason why you still think of her from time to time is because you have some unresolved feelings for her or for some event that occurred between the two of you. Here are some things to consider: Do you still have feelings for her?; Do you think about her a lot?; If you had the chance, would you get back into a relationship with her? Once you have thought about those things, I think it could be worth your while if you contacted her again. Two things can come of that... 1) You find out where you stand with her and possibly form a better relationship, or 2) You gain some much needed closure. Either way you won't have to play the "what if" game. Good luck!

Answer 3

Wouldn't hurt to try to contact her if she means that much to you. obviously you would not do that if she is happily married with children. She seems like someone you really cared about. What do you mean by 'years past'! If you are still young then years are not that significant when it comes to love. If you are a adult with years of experience then you should know how this works! Sometimes young love comes back but more than often it is just hormones.

Answer 4

Its obvious that you loved your ex-girlfriend very much and something must of happened for the relationship to end, and so its normal for you to miss her at times.
What you need to do is think to yourself that she may still love you but she's not sitting around missing you. You should be friends with her again (if you're not already) that will make things a whole lot easier for you.

Answer 5

She was probably the love of your life. It will take you almost 3 years to realize what I'm saying is true, but you're better off just moving on. Sorry. But if you contact her or call or whatever, you'll be sorry. I've been married for 3 years and it ALSO still happens to me!

Answer 6

She must have been a very important part of your life. If you aren't in a relationship currently, you may want to try and contact her. Let her know that she is still in your thoughts and you treasure the time that you had together. (Try not to be too dramatic).

See if she is willing to get together in the near future.

If you don't know where she is, try a whitepages.com search or a yahoo.com search.

Best of luck. . . . you never know what may come of it.

Answer 7

Well from my point of view I think u still like her alot. So sit down and talk 2 her and see if she responds the same way.Then at lest u know how she fels towards u.

Answer 8

Thanks for expressing this feeling.

I have often wondered if men have introspective moments like this.

You still think about her because you get past the one you once loved so deeply, but never get over him/her.

Sometimes little things trigger the memory. Is she still available? Maybe you could give her a call and let her know you've been thinking about her?

Answer 9

You're still in love with her. If you think she feels the same way, then you should try to contact her. Well, it all depends on why you guys broke up in the first place. Good luck and I hope the best for you!

Answer 10

AWWW. it does help to get in touch and really ask yourself whether it was mean to be or not. of course she has to feel the same. you need to search for a reason why you should be broken up. if you can find those reasons, then you should be. you ALSO need to search for reasons why you should be together. if you can find good reasons, then you should be. again, she has to feel the same. I think about all my ex's and everyone of them has been resolved, so it doesnt bother me. but I still think about them, and thats ok. they will always be with you in your heart, and you dont have to give that up. your hearts secrets are your own and no one else's.

Answer 11

Don't worry everyone has had at least one of those feelings..She might have been your first everything, might have taught u something when no onelse would, might have been your longest relationship....But u know now she may have a life and boyfriend so you as well have to move on, i know it will be hard but u are also worth it.