Ever since i've been dating, around the 6 month period, the guy always break my heart and says that he has to find himself. I don't understand what the problem is. I try my best to be the best girlfriend. I bought things for him, I let him go wherever he wants to go, and never gets jealous. Whenever he calls, I am always at his disposal. He says that it wasn't me, it was him. He says that I didn't know how to say no to him and be independent. I am independent. I supported him with money and other things when he didn't have anything. He always came and asked me for things and I would give it to him without questions asked. What's the problem with relationships and me not staying in one for no more than 5 or 6 months?
2006-09-17 08:11:17 · 6 answers · asked by keke 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You make yourself to available. You need to have a relationship where you take a little from, not give up your life! You settle for them and become their doormat. Tell them your wants and needs and maybe you will be able to have a relationship for more than 6 months. Guys don't like women without a challenge. It becomes very boring to them when you don't introduce something new to the relationship. Doing something you love that they haven't tried. Quit bending over backwards for them. It takes two for a relationship. Not one and one for the ride!!!
2006-09-17 08:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by warandpeace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, until I met the RIGHT ONE I never had one to last beyond 6 months either. I guess I was always ready to get out before it got to serious, because by that time YOU KNOW whether you can make it work or not and you realize this is not the one for you.
So, its probably fear of being stuck with the wrong guy in your situation or fear of commitment. I think you just haven't met Mr. Right, so hang on, he's out there, and you're not being too picky. Dump the loser.
2006-09-17 15:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well they say that is around the period of time when the infactuation wears off. That is when you both see the bad side of each other and really get to know each other without the rose colored glasses on. Most relationships tend to end around this period if they weren't meant to last. Be happy, I hold on to relationships even though they aren't going anywhere.
2006-09-17 15:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are trying too hard. Play hard to get a little. Do you really think that buying him things, letting him do whatever he wants, and always being right there when he calls is going to get you very far? That smacks of desperation and nobody wants that.
2006-09-17 15:16:38 · answer #4 · answered by troythom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's the whole silly mind game thing, he was right though your were just too available for him. you know the saying you always want what you can't have.
2006-09-17 15:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 is your lucky #
2006-09-17 15:13:45 · answer #6 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋