Me and this girl talk all the time, and we r realy good friends, we have went out twice b4, but we broke up casue of school she said she couldnt handle it with a guy. anyway, the other day she throw a peice of paper at my head and she wanted me to talk to her, so i did, then she sent me emails saying she was board and wanted to talk to me, so i got on im and talked to her, i just cant understand if she still likes me or not? any help please, and if she dosent how to i get her out of my head???
2006-09-17 05:23:15 · 18 answers · asked by Paul 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she likes you, but her education is more important. She cannot focus if she has a bf.
2006-09-17 05:25:16 · answer #1 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you, but she needs space for her school. She talks to you so she doesn't lose you as a friend. You shouldn't think too much about the situation because if you guys are meant to be together then when the right time comes then you guys will be together. In the meantime, just be merry that you guys are still even talking.
2006-09-17 12:38:21 · answer #2 · answered by jOy2dAwOrLd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, coming from a woman, I would say tell her how you feel and ask her what she wants from your relationship. If she can't be an adult and communicate then an intimate and meaningful relationship is pretty much out of the question. True relationships are built on trust, communication and love. Both parties must be willing and able to produce these things for a relationship to work, otherwise, it is a lost cause.
2006-09-17 12:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by Erica R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, grammar and spelling are attractive to women. They also represent confidence, so present yourself as confident, and that will help her to really like you, rather than the way that she seems to be "playing" with you. From your story, it sounds like she just wants to be friends. Tell her, "I really like my time with you, and I have to admit a bit of a crush, so it's weird when I walk away thinking that you only want to be friends. If this isn't going any further than that, I might need some time to get that possibility out of my head." Then she has to choose. Good luck.
2006-09-17 12:29:13 · answer #4 · answered by ja3po 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there is a 50/50 chance. She could either just be talking to you because she is bored or she can actually like you but she thinks school is more important. If she is the type you can actually talk to about this and she won't lie to make you feel better, i would ask or just move on :]
2006-09-17 12:28:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might still like u. But I think that she only wants someone to talk to. Someone who can help her with stuff and support her. Thats where u come in u are her bff.But if she starts flirting with u than u know she still has feelings for u.
2006-09-17 12:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like she is very confused herself too. however, you should not just let her call all the shot and you should take control of your life too. you have to be happy about the whole thing first. if not, you should let her know this whole situation is bothering you and confused ask her what she want. and tell her that you two can be friends if she would stop playing game with you.
2006-09-17 12:29:40 · answer #7 · answered by j y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could try asking her. Ask her if she wants to be friends, or if she is interested in more. She seems to be sending you mixed signals. Ask yourself this............ We've already broken up once. Do I want to try again? Is she worth the effort?
Time will get her out of your head and your heart if this is what you want.
2006-09-17 12:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by Just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to find out is by asking her what she's up to...throwing paper at you is getting your attention, if she didnt wanna talk to you she would not have went in IM with you...i think she does but the best way to find out is to ask
2006-09-17 12:27:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say she still wants to be connected with you in some way, but is not necessarily interested in dating.
Women suck. We confuse the crap out of you guys. Sorry for my gender (kidding lasses).
2006-09-17 12:26:55 · answer #10 · answered by smallweed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful she may be playing with your head. Girls are sometimes funny like that. When they get bored they want what they know they can have.
2006-09-17 12:27:17 · answer #11 · answered by purrfectsandcastle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋