So i really like this guy. the problem is he lives overseas. We talk a lot and we consider each other best friends. I have known him for about 3 years. Should i bother telling him I have feelings for him? Or will that just make things awkward?
2006-09-17 05:27:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him.
2006-09-17 05:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me long distance relationships don't work at all unless there is a potential for the person or yourself to move to the others location to be together. If you have feelings for this person then I believe you should let them known. How awkward can it be they are overseas, I think it would be alot more nerve recking to have them standing in front of you. Do what your heart tells you this might be the love of a lifetime and they may think the same about you. If not at least you know right? Good luck babe....Billy
2006-09-17 12:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by billyboysblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are going to get married eventually right? Well, you are going to only have one guy who is your best friend when you get married. It's not a risk, its a pursuit to see if this is the guy you are going to be with the rest of your life. (I realize that in my answer there are a lot of assumptions. If more questions about what I said, please ask.)
2006-09-17 12:34:05 · answer #3 · answered by benny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart or you may regret what might have been. My boyfriend who lives in England is finally making the trek here to Texas to be with me. It's taken ages, but I think we'll both be happy together. I hope it works out for you!
2006-09-17 12:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by curiosity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only one life to live, go for it and make the best of your life
2006-09-17 12:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by Smilesucker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships dont really work out
2006-09-17 12:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you two ever met in person? go ahead and tell him if he doesnt have a wife and kids or something. have respect for him if hes in a relationship. but if hes single, then why not? he should know how you feel, right?
2006-09-17 12:32:53 · answer #7 · answered by sx_rx_rocknroll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with him, but say that whatever he thinks, it won't spoil your friendship, unless he thinks otherwise.. i still have feelings for someone I knew from school 34 years ago, but never plucked up the courage to tell him as I thought it would spoil our friendship.but now I regret not telling him sooner.
2006-09-17 12:31:46 · answer #8 · answered by l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him! If that is what has kept you in touch with him for 3 years, then spill it!
2006-09-17 12:32:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. If he feels the same way it will be worth it. If you don't tell him, you will wonder for the rest of your life.
2006-09-17 12:29:37 · answer #10 · answered by babybeast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep it to yourself babe ! just stay as friends cuz it will F U C K things up if you tell him !
2006-09-17 12:49:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋