My bestfriend always writes about that, she always trying to get angry and make anything to keep her sad she got addicited to zoloft..and quit ..she keeps putting things in her head and thoughts just to stay sad.she says she always feels worthless and tried to commited suicide a serval times,she is now starting to cut her self i saw some marks on her arm,hands and legs ,she keep ssaying its her cat she keeps pictures of dead poeple or blood on her computer and draws upsetting pictures all the time.. ( she doesnt have much problems in her life ) livin with her mum, and got cheated by a guy whom she loved so much..i dont think these are the reasons?? i dont know what to do ?
2006-09-17 05:09:27 · 18 answers · asked by Maya Sosa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My bestfriend always writes about that, she always trying to get angry and make anything to keep her sad she got addicited to zoloft..and quit ..she keeps putting things in her head and thoughts just to stay sad.she says she always feels worthless and tried to commited suicide a serval times,she is now starting to cut her self i saw some marks on her arm,hands and legs ,she keep ssaying its her cat she keeps pictures of dead poeple or blood on her computer and draws upsetting pictures all the time.. ( she doesnt have much problems in her life ) livin with her mum, and got cheated by a guy whom she loved so much..i dont think these are the reasons?? i dont know what to do ?
she already has a boyfriend that she really loves and hes always thereb tyin to help
2006-09-17 05:20:57 · update #1
she already has a boyfriend that she loves and hes always there for her..!
2006-09-17 05:23:00 · update #2
damn it i duno why it copied a thousand times lol.thanks
2006-09-17 05:23:36 · update #3
uhhh.....thats not normal
2006-09-17 05:11:02 · answer #1 · answered by Patty's Tat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough love, you really care for your friend and she is lucky to have you for one. No this is not normal. She is crying out for help and you can do it, but don't do it alone. First tell someone at school like a teacher or couselor, let them even read this question. Then you need to tell your parents and her mom. You will need these adults support and guidance to help get her the help she needs. She most likely will not make getting help easy. Is she on drugs, alcohol, anything outside the norm for her. Does she tell you why she wants to end her life, or why she feels worthless. Is she being abused by her mom, or is there a boyfriend of her moms that may be abusing her, or anyone.?
Please just get her some help and tell someone else what you know and keep in good contact and support your friend through what ever it is making her feel this bad. Let her knwo she doesn't have to be alone that you are there for her , and then be there when she calls. Good luck , I would like to be updated if you would be so kind.
2006-09-17 05:27:35 · answer #2 · answered by Trina V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of this behavior is normal for an immature person between 13 and 16 who has yet to figure out that there is a whole big wide world out there and they are just a part of it.
However, if she is cutting herself or taking drugs, you need to tell your school therapist. Screw the friendship, help your friend have a healthy life.
2006-09-17 05:11:37 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to at least one professional about it. Her Mom is likely to be biased; she may simply deny that a problem exists. A school professional is better than nothing, but it would be much better if you would just walk into a nearby mental health clinic and talk to someone about the problem; school professionals are accustomed to working with more "normal" kids.
Many mental hospitals have special units for children with problems exactly like those you are describing. With proper, timely care, her prognosis is probably excellent.
2006-09-17 05:25:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the guy who cheated on her is the answer... maybe she feels sad and worthless... and shes trying to let people know but thats not the way... talk to her, give your shoulder for her to cry!!! is what she needs, she needs to know that people love her!! and that when someone has cheated on you is not the end of the world!!! just be supportive, go out with her, be always there for her!!!! she needs you more than ever but shes afraid to ask for help!!!
2006-09-17 05:17:48 · answer #5 · answered by mrs. cookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a way of getting her feelings out....i used to write poems when i was feeling sad or depressed, but never about suicide....mine were more solemn....she also needs to seek some help if she is self harming and attampting suicide she may have something deep within that's bothering her, stand by her, it's obvious she's reaching out for something....talk to her, or talk to someone else who you can trust....she does need help
2006-09-17 05:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your friend needs theraphy still so I would talk to her mom and let her know that her daughter is still very upset its not normal to cut yourself and I have 2 cats too and they would never give me deep cuts so tell her family that she needs help still
2006-09-17 05:11:45 · answer #7 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is definitely a cry for help. Talk to her mum before she lashes out against herself or someone else.
2006-09-17 05:14:11 · answer #8 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was on Zoloft at one time, there is your answer! She's obviously still going through some Major depression. I say, if She would listen to you, tell her to go get help,ASAP.
2006-09-17 05:13:47 · answer #9 · answered by trisha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she writes about that because she is depressed. Try to get her help. You can continue to be her friend and support her. Talk to her, tell her the upsetting pics bother you and you are worried about her.
2006-09-17 05:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get reasons why
maybe they are just depressed due to a chemical imbalance
maybe they want attention
2006-09-17 05:11:49 · answer #11 · answered by devinthedragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋