Singles & Dating - 5 September 2006

not only that we have the age gap but he's my brother's close friend. we've been hinding it for 7 months now. we've been living together and thats how it started as friends first then the feelings came Honestly, we've been though so much to the point where we dated other people and then we finally got back together. It's hard living with him and hiding it from everyone in the house.He's so afraid that this will break up the friendship with all the guys.With everything that has happened, we're taking things slow. we don't know if we shoud tell my brother and our friends . we're not so far on the stages of our lives. i have my goals and ive finished school then went into culinary profession. ive done the 21+ for years now and so ive experience life faster then some 18 year olds. my friends are 24+ so my goals are not so different.i really love him and he loves me. we dont know what to do. we just need to hear it from another point of view.

2006-09-05 12:15:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

and am looking forsome initmate converation.. I am really hot...pls email asap

2006-09-05 12:15:27 · 12 answers · asked by Oceanbreeze 2

What should i do?
Could you please give me the best advice you have? I am just not ready to let her go yet??
this is an email she replied to me...is she letting me down easy, or is she scareed, like she says she is...because she is only 13 and never been in a relationship before??

well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later

Now, I know this is a no, she clearly said she wants to remain friends, and trust me, I am treating that with respect and honor. Now my question is, is she just scared like she said because we have been such good friends for a long time, or because she doesnt see me like that. If she doesnt now, will she

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Now , what would she have said she doesnt want to ruin a frienship?? Without meaning it, I asked her straight up to be honest, and I know she isnt lying. What should I do? I mean I know nothing is gonna happen in the near future, but maybe when she matures a little bit, or decides to take the risk to date me, I mean, I like her so much, and am just not ready to let her go. I know she is afraid of me breakin her heart, because she told one of her friends, that she doesnt like how many girlfriends I've had that Ive broken up with. And she really used to act like she liked me, I mean, we obviously had soemthing more than friends, but when I asked her she got scared and backed off. She also told her mom, who she is really closed to, that she is REAALY scared of ruining the frienship. What should I do?

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But, her friend asked her a few minutes ago about it, and she got all mad and said who wants to know?..and her friend said me.. and she got all mad and signed off. what should i think/do??

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And why would she get all mad at her friend, I mean the email I replied to her was nice , caring and understanding, so I dont know why she thinks I put her up to it? Why was she all mad if her friend asked her about it?

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Now, I am not an idiot, and I emailed her back and told her i respect her decision, and totally understand her decision, and I am not smothering her, directly, but her friends mite be talking, what should I do

2006-09-05 12:14:22 · 11 answers · asked by how many 1

2006-09-05 12:11:33 · 30 answers · asked by pinkyswinkys 1

I still love him, and think of him every day. I haven't talked to him in about six months. He still loves me too. He has been texting and leaving voice messages for me this whole time. But I can't be with him, because of all the drama from when we dated the first time.

I'm seeing someone else now, but I can't stop thinking about him... What should I do?

2006-09-05 12:10:11 · 18 answers · asked by bunstihl 6

why do they try to chat you up, do they really think they are going to get somewhere??
I have expereinced this quite a bit here in italy! its weird!!

2006-09-05 12:09:22 · 31 answers · asked by lazydazy 4

jen rocks

2006-09-05 12:09:17 · 6 answers · asked by Mark G 1

hey if i love to party alot and my boyfriends doesn't

but theirs 2 guys in my school that do what should I do

2006-09-05 12:09:13 · 9 answers · asked by Helen V 1

my Ex sent me about 23 text messages this past weekend (over the course of 2 hours) basically begging me to have sex with him . He has a girlfriend (whom I have met and I think is very nice) and I have a boyfriend (and he knows that). i spent the entire 2 hours telling him no, i wasnt interested. i told my boyfriend and he trusts me not to do anything. But i am wondering if I should tell the Ex's girlfriend that he propositioned me (they have been dating for 2 years and have a house together, among other costly things). should I stay silent, or should i descreetly inform her? any feedback would be much appreciated! thanks in advance everyone!

2006-09-05 12:08:34 · 51 answers · asked by daisy6570 2

2006-09-05 12:08:21 · 5 answers · asked by ian j 1

My boyfriend is living in Georgia and i'm in Montana. He's in a school play and his part is Prince Charming so he has to kiss a girl or two in the part. I have never been kissed and have always been saving it for that special person. And I love and care about my boyfriend so much. And it's killing me to know that he is hanging out with some girl for 6 weeks and then has to kiss her. Have any encouraging words of advice?!?!?

2006-09-05 12:07:47 · 44 answers · asked by Lissie D 1

.....and you managed to grab hold of his testicles, how hard would you squeeze? and what effect do you think this would have on your attacker?

2006-09-05 12:06:48 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think that there is that "special someone" for everyone?

Who is yours?

2006-09-05 12:05:43 · 20 answers · asked by ? 2

He says he likes diapers, and other baby like items. He is NOT a pedophile or anything just some weird fetishes i guess. Is this normal?

2006-09-05 12:05:33 · 28 answers · asked by hi:) 2

help me!!!!!!!!?
there is this boy that i really like and he is sending me all kinds of mixed messages and i need help figuring them out and i was hoping that you could help so ya here it goes... we used to be really good friends and talked all the time then a grl found out i liked him and told him everything and he stopped talking to me but then over the summer he started e-mailing, instant messaging, and texting me again like 24/7 so when skool started i thought we would be really good friends again but i was so-so wrong he won't talk to me unless i start the convo. but he still talks to me online all the time...he talks to my bff all the time about me though and i always catch him staring at me and i just got him talking to me again and i dont want that to stop! so does he like me?

2006-09-05 12:05:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

From personal experience and close friends its seems women have no prblem being with a guy that has been a male equivalvent of a slut and a whore. Yet of course the men even the ones that will sleep with a female slut look down upon them for their permiscuous ways.

2006-09-05 12:04:21 · 14 answers · asked by omenus 2

Well first i went out with some dood. He is hot but i dump him becasue he cheated on me.

and now he is saying hes sorry and i don't know if to forgive him or not

2006-09-05 12:03:57 · 16 answers · asked by Helen V 1

so i hooked up with this guy a couple times and now i dont know what the hell is going on. we hooked up on friday and on saturday him and his roomates had me, my friends and some other people over and we didnt really talk except for occasional comments when we would pass eachother. is it to late to make him see that i like him...? or better yet, does he like me or should i just let it all go and move onto something else?

2006-09-05 12:03:54 · 2 answers · asked by SweetChildofMine 2

help me!!!!!!!!?
there is this boy that i really like and he is sending me all kinds of mixed messages and i need help figuring them out and i was hoping that you could help so ya here it goes... we used to be really good friends and talked all the time then a grl found out i liked him and told him everything and he stopped talking to me but then over the summer he started e-mailing, instant messaging, and texting me again like 24/7 so when skool started i thought we would be really good friends again but i was so-so wrong he won't talk to me unless i start the convo. but he still talks to me online all the time...he talks to my bff all the time about me though and i always catch him staring at me and i just got him talking to me again and i dont want that to stop! so does he like me?

2006-09-05 12:03:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-05 12:02:00 · 18 answers · asked by KKAT 2

2006-09-05 12:00:42 · 15 answers · asked by namski 1

Since the beginning of college i've been seeing this guy. He's not that bad or anything. It seems like he doesn't have many friends. Most of my friends say he's wierd or something. I don't know if I should continue hanging out with this person. We've only been together for about 3 weeks now. Today he wrote me a love note. I don't know if that's okay or just plain wierd. Are love notes normal? It just said things like he loves me but is there anyway that this could be an abnormal behavior? I was actually still thinking of breaking up with him also. But would it be better too stay with him just a bit longer and see what happens or go ahead and break up now? I don't know. Here are some of the strange things he has done. Some may not be that strange just things...
-Fetish with drool.
-Blows his nose on his shirt, I've told him to stop, i don't think he will do it anymore.
-He's an engineer (not weird just something i thought i'd throw out)
-is learning to speak russian

2006-09-05 11:59:51 · 17 answers · asked by hi:) 2

i broke up with my old girlfriend of four months about a month ago, and now she wont stop calling me, she drives by my house randomly, and she comes to all the places i hang out at, she tells my friends that im worthless and im a liar, she tells my friends that im an awful person, but then leaves messages about how she can change, he has major problems, she cuts, she smokes pot, and im straight edge, she wont leave me alone, she almost killed herself when i broke up with her... she cheated on me... i don't know, what should i tell her?

2006-09-05 11:59:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

a few months ago i told my dream guy that i had a crush on him, he turned me down saying there was some one else, im not in on the grapevine so i didnt know that he was in fact dating some one, that was awkward. He just broke up a couple weeks ago with that girl and now we hangout alot, we do some harmless flirting and try to keep things friendly. But yesterday somehow i ended up saying to him that id already put my heart out on the line and he had smashed it and so if he wanted anything more out of this relationship he has to make the next move. he then kinda laughed and sayed okay ummmm hmm pick up lines... and we went back to normal mode. was this him trying to make are relationship more or just him trying to gently tell me not to go there cause he isnt intreseted.

2006-09-05 11:57:33 · 33 answers · asked by a perfectly contradictory cat 3

make me a poem 4 me 2get the best answer

2006-09-05 11:57:06 · 5 answers · asked by izms 1

My boyfriend and I have a GREAT relationship. We have good conversations, he makes me laugh the whole 9 yards. But when it comes to talking about "US" he like shuts down. He is shy to begin with but has really opened up to me. I am not the type to need to know "where we stand" or "how you feel" all the time but sometimes those questions need to be asked. When I do ask those questions he is just quiet, sais nothing like he didn't even hear me. I really don't know what to do here I have tried everything I could think of. Like telling him he can say anything to me, or don't be worried if it comes out wrong. I have even gotten to the point of telling him that as a girl I sometimes need to hear that he is happy with me, or im pretty ect.... His friends have come right out and told me that I make him happier than anything in the world but i don't understand why he can tell them that and not me. Im so confused!!!! PLEASE HELP!!!!

2006-09-05 11:57:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-05 11:56:36 · 45 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2

Any takers?

2006-09-05 11:56:20 · 10 answers · asked by bryan 1

2006-09-05 11:56:18 · 6 answers · asked by sup 1

so here it is...... i have a crush on this guy at school and my best friend at school has a crush on him to.... what do i do?
I need help!!!

2006-09-05 11:56:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous